Is there still a chance for us?

Hello all! Here is my situation. My gf of over a year broke up with me the day after my birthday. We have been broken up for close to a month. She is reluctant to call me and will not answer my phone calls or texts, or emails. We broke up because I was getting a little irritated that she was partying with her friends every night I had to work and would not call me when she went out. I got mad the night before my birthday, got drunk and said some pretty mean things to her. Now some of her friends said that she still cared and needed time. I said okay and would drop her a text every once in a while just to say hello and see how she is doing. She would not answer and more days would go by without a response. Now I found out that she had been fooling around with another guy after only a few weeks of being broken up. I confronted her about it and she denied it. Later that day she called me and said that she hated me and never wanted to see me or hear from me again. Was this just said out of anger or is this thing over for good. Is there any chance that she may come back or should I just write her off. I really miss her and love her very much

Posted on 12 February 2008 @ 22:9 (London time) - permalink
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Man your in a bad spot. How do you feel about her fooling around with someone els, if it was me I would let her go, but sometimes we are still in love and it is hard to see past that, but if this is the way she is going to treat you I would tell you to reconsider what is important to you in a relationship.The words " trust, respeact,love..." comes to mind. And she clearly don't take them as important? Sometimes a relationship is just doomed and sad to say you will be better of with someone who respect your feelings and values.Love alone will never make a relationship work.

Posted on 17 February 2008 @ 0:18 (London time) - permalink
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