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my wifes sexual past is really bothering me.

steph2273, posted 23 weeks ago

Ok. here is the situation. I have been married for almost 2 yrs. Been with my wife for a total of 8 yrs. we are now in our mid 30's. I recently discovered that she was highly promiscuos throughout highschool and college (which all took place before we knew each other. The problem I have is she always complains about me not giving her enough attention. I always attributed that to her coming from a severely dysfunctional and broken home. But no the sex history comes into play. I feel it is impossible for me to give her the attention she craves. Its unrealistic. She has no idea I know about her sexual history. It is driving me crazy that I have found this out. I know feel like there is no way I can give her the attention she wants or needs. There is a reason she had sex with so many at a young age and it effects her expectations for a man 20 yrs. later. I want to tell her I know, but the way I found out would make things worse.

Posted on 30 January 2008 @ 12:57 (London time) - permalink
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Troy D, posted 23 weeks ago

My wife had the same thing.

Insecurity. She cheated on her first husband and then on me.

This is a problem. Be careful. Go to therapy. She will probably refuse. If so, watch out.

Posted on 31 January 2008 @ 11:43 (London time) - permalink
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