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jen17, posted 34 weeks ago

Hey all,

I really need some advice, I'm not sure what to do. I have known this guy for a few years now, but about 12 months ago he text me and asked me out. He is about 23 years older than me. I told him I wasnt interested, but I was still prepared to be friends with him. He agreed to this. He had been going through some tough times and I gave him my support. He still texts me at least every month for a chat etc, and I thought he had accepted being just friends. But when I bumped into him the other week, he acted really strangely. He kept walking past me and his friends obviously knew who I was as they all smiled at me. He also seemed to be really nervous which is really unusual behaviour for this particular guy.

I bumped into him again recently, and he said Hi, but things are just so awkward. I feel bad if I dont speak to him, but then if I do does it look like im interested?

His text messages have been increasing recently too and the number of kisses at the end have started to increase. I just would have thought by now he would have moved on to someone else.

Does anyone have any ideas what I should do or how to act when he is around? Or why this guy is acting like he is?

Thanks

Posted on 30 November 2007 @ 17:26 (London time) - permalink
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Richard_EMidsRichard_EMids, posted 34 weeks ago

Mmm. It is odd behaviour I agree.Difficult to tell what is going on, but being nervous with you and his friends is suspicious. Sounds as if he was worried about either his friends speaking to you or you speaking to his friends, which means he has something to hide. But sounds like you were wise to turn him down. Just be polite but keep your distance, there something wrong there. Take care.

Richard

Posted on 1 December 2007 @ 12:1 (London time) - permalink
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