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Hopless Mistress

sadmistress, posted 39 weeks ago

I am deeply in love with a HAPPILY married man. I know that sounds strange...

Our affair began over a year ago. We have unbelievable chemisrty, passion and overall compatability.

He loves his wife and children very much and would never leave them. I don't want him to. I just want to be with him forever.

Last spring the guilt started to get to him. He 'ended' things several times... but it never really ends.

We love each other, though he can't say it anymore because of the guilt.

He wants me to move on... but I can't.

I feel like he is my soulmate.

Can affairs last forever???

Posted on 25 October 2007 @ 17:22 (London time) - permalink
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Checkup ManCheckup Man, posted 39 weeks ago

You need to tell him deeply how much you need him and love him, but not just at any time.....tell him whilst he makes love to you, before and during his ejeculation! Lay it on as heavily as you can, and as soon as he has withdrawn from you, go straight into a full blown blowjob. Give him a night to remember above all your nights of passion. Try to get him to THINK about what he would be giving up if he lost you. In other words, the best way to make an affair last is to step up the action!

Posted on 25 October 2007 @ 19:56 (London time) - permalink
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KIANNA, posted 38 weeks ago

i am going thru the same thing, but i live next door to him, i see him tuesday thru friday nite when his girlfriend of 11 years goes to work. we tried to end it several times but we always end up back together

Posted on 30 October 2007 @ 14:57 (London time) - permalink
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railroader, posted 33 weeks ago

Not to be offensive at all, but, I'm pretty blunt when it come to certain things like this. If you're having an affair with him, he's not happy. If he haven't left his wife, You're not everything he's looking for. You have to pay attention to the 80/20 rule. Both equals 100 representing the percentage value of an individual. Which one are you really? The %80 or the %20. Honestly it appears that you're currently the %20. Yeah he has a good time with you, but there's no commitment there for you.

I'm sure that there's that person that has all of the qualities that you're looking for. Why do you have this "Married Man" standing in his place? Most times if you make that space for that special someone, it don't take long to fill.

Posted on 2 December 2007 @ 23:53 (London time) - permalink
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, posted 33 weeks ago

I have been the little wife at home in the past while my pig of a husband beat the cr*p out of my and went out with his mistress. I only found out after the divorce that he had had three affairs. Sorry, but you should get a bloke of your own who isnt married, please stop believing that you are going to change him because you wont.

What happens at Christmas?? does he spend time with you or her? He loves her and sleeps with you. Get out of that situation now and walk away with some dignity, if you have any

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Posted on 5 December 2007 @ 18:25 (London time) - permalink
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