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Archived questions from: September, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

The fact that my lady friend is being stalked by a workmate makes her hesitant to consider a relationship with me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1195 days ago

30 September 2005 (M) - I just met the girl of my dreams but she just got out of a very bad relationship and the guy keeps stalking her. They both work for the same company. She came to visit me in Key West durning the Poker Run last month. Then a hurricane came thru, Ka...

I'd love to end things with my current boyfriend, so I can start anew with my first love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1195 days ago

29 September 2005 (F) - I have been dating someone for six months. He is 51 and thinks the world of me. I have tried to finish with him three times because he has done some very dodgy things. Both his marriages failed because of infidelity, the first with his wife's s...

We weren't really together, but it still hurt that he'd have sex with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1196 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I have known this guy for five years. We were off and on. He had sex with this other girl. We weren't together but we still hooked up, and I told him if he ever did that I wouldn't talk to him ever again. I found out that he lied to me and that...

I'm too paranoid around my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 821 days ago

28 September 2005 (F) - I'm scared my boyfriend is cheating! I'm 19 years old and I'm going out with a guy. We've been together for 6 months now. I love him so much! The thing is he has alot of contact with this girl and he says she is really nice, which makes me paranoi...

When he told me "it's over", he was just having a last fling. Now I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1198 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - I moved 120 miles 10 months ago to buy a house with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 and a half years now. 2 weeks ago he woke up and told me he thought it was over. He cried and was very adamant. I went back to my Mum's for a week. It was ...

After 9 years, my ex-husband wants me back. But I've got someone else who loves me now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1154 days ago

27 September 2005 (F) - My ex-husband and I have been divorced 9 years and I have never stopped loving him.l Lst week he called me and said he wants me back and I am his soul mate. The problem is I've lived with a man for 7 years and is very good to me and I know he loves ...

Stuck in the middle... Do I choose with my heart or my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1198 days ago

25 September 2005 (F) - Never, ever felt so utterly confused in my life. At least there are no kids involved. I married my partner, Tom - not real name - (of 6 years) 2 and a half years ago. I never so much as looked at anyone and 'thought' I was happy...until someone ...

How do I pick just one of the 2 girls I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1200 days ago

25 September 2005 (M) - I like this girl, and she knows I like her, but I also like another girl in the same way. I am torn between the two of them. Both are single and flirt with me in their own ways (so I am told by friends). I am really close with one of them, but not ...

I don't feel strong enough to leave my husband, or to stop seeing the other man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1201 days ago

24 September 2005 (F) - I fell in love with another man about a year and half ago but I already have a partner of 18 years who is a lovely man and a great dad to our 3 children. We still get on ok but I am confused. I don't feel fullfilled in my current relationship and ...

The girl I like will kiss me any time I want her to... but she already has a boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1199 days ago

24 September 2005 (M) - There is a girl that I like. I told her how I feel and I kissed her. She even kissed me back but she tells me that she has a boyfriend. I don't understand because she kisses me any time I want her to. Does she like me or is she confused as well? ...

He's with someone, but she treats him horribly, and I think he'd like to be with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1202 days ago

22 September 2005 (?) - I really fancy this guy but he is with someone else. I know they are not happy because I hang around with the same group of friends as them. They always argue and she is horrible to him. He can't do anything right. I know he likes me too because ...

Should I make a move on the hot, funny and intelligent guy I work with?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1188 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - I have a bf have been with him for three years in November but I am not sure how I feel about him anymore because I find he is too controlling and we have not much in common. I just started a new job and have met this new really gorgeous, funny, i...

As my husband and I got to know each other, I found that he really loves someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1202 days ago

22 September 2005 (F) - Hi I am "x" and married last December. In fact I had a very unusual marriage. It was an arranged marriage and I got married in 4 days. Really did not know the man to whom I got married. He left for abroad in 5 days and I joined him after nearly 9...

I can't help wondering if the "grass" would be "greener" with the other guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1203 days ago

21 September 2005 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship with a great guy for a little over a year. He is great, by far the best boyfriend I have ever had. I can really see myself with him for the rest of my life. Ok, here is the question. I was "talking" to a guy be...

She chose another man over me... Should I wait and see if she breaks up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1205 days ago

20 September 2005 (M) - Hi I'm 24 and suffering. 4 years ago I met a girl on the net and we bacame very good friends in real life. Then one day I realised I loved her. But the day I wanted to tell her she tell me she found someone and said would date him. It was quite a ...

How do I handle the interloper who seems interested in my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1206 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is ten years older than me and is very loving. However whenever we go out with a group of his friends there is one girl (22) who is very pretty and he always dances with her and seeks her attention. It is obvious that she is charmed ...

Snooping in my partner's phone only exacerbated our relationship troubles...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1206 days ago

19 September 2005 (M) - My partner and I are both 31 and have a 3 year old daughter, I really need advice at teh moment. I first got suspicious about my girlfriend about two weeks ago. Then I did something stupid. I looked at her phone and saw a bunch of messages to and ...

If my husband's texting someone else is just "harmless fun", why doesn't he stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1205 days ago

19 September 2005 (F) - I'm having problems with my husband. He is texting some woman at work. I have spoken to him about it and he insists that there is nothing going on and I have spoken to her briefly. But I can't stop checking his phone and see some off the ...

Is that other girl his girlfriend? I can't tell!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1206 days ago

18 September 2005 (F) - I have known a man for about 9 months and we have been getting on really well for the last 4 months. I only see him term time once a week and once over the summer. I saw him go out for dinner with as he said "a friend" who is a girl. I didn't s...

Don't want to hurt my wife or my lover, but can't choose between either one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1140 days ago

18 September 2005 (F) - I've been seeing this girl for a small time and have fallen for her; the only problem is that I am married! I know that I'm a scumbag for wanting my cake and eating it too, but when my lover asked me to leave my wife - as much as wanted to - I coul...

He doesn't like the things I said and did when we were broken up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1206 days ago

17 September 2005 (F) - Dear helpful people!! Help! I dont know what to do! I'm in a long distance relationship. Even though we are seeing each other more often now, last December there were some problems, as my boyfriend thought something was going on with another ...

I don't want his girlfriend to hate me... I just want to be his friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1206 days ago

17 September 2005 (F) - Hello, I've met a guy recently and we get on really well. In this past week he's called me up and talked to me for over 3 hours. It was a fantastic conversation and we talked again the next day too, but only for an hour this time! We've agreed t...

He loves me too, but he can't leave his kids and we don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1205 days ago

17 September 2005 (F) - Please help I really dont know what to do about my situation. I have asked for help before but not got much sympathy. I have fallen in love with my best friend. He is married with 2 grown up children. They still live at home. We have been best f...

We slept together and I fell for him, but now he tells me he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1210 days ago

15 September 2005 (?) - I met this guy about two weeks ago, and we have hung out at his house with some of his friends a couple of times. And the last time we ended up sleeping together, so of course being a girl, I have fallen for him. He's all I think about, but when...

I didn't think I'd miss my (female) friend from work this much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1211 days ago

14 September 2005 (M) - Hi, I am a married man in late 20s, married my girlfriend last year everything was is well. We have been together for years and have 2 kids. Recently I got to know another girl in my workplace. We became really good friends, just friends that's a...

My married guy says he's "not strong enough" to leave his wife...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1156 days ago

13 September 2005 (F) - I met a guy several months ago and he is married. Recently we started seeing each other as a bit of fun. Neither of use expected it but we ended up falling for each other. He said that he would leave his wife to be with me but when it came to it he...

Am I misreading the actions of two friends, or is my boyfriend playing up with the barmaid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1213 days ago

12 September 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a few months ago i felt that something wasn't quite right. He had become very good friends with a girl working at a local bar our friends parents owned. I didn't mind before as there was no way I ...

Two amazingly hot women are in love with me, but I can't commit to just one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1193 days ago

11 September 2005 (M) - I'm in love with two girls, completely crazy about both. They both live so far away. I could commit to one, but that would mean losing the other. It's just too hard to choose. I don't think I can, to be honest. They are both amazingly hot. Both of...

I love both my girlfriend - and her best friend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1212 days ago

11 September 2005 (M) - I'm am attracted to my girlfriend's best friend. We have been going out for 3 years. I love my girlfriend yet I still feel so attracted to her best friend, we seem to get along so well and we are both attracted to each other sexually. What can I do...

When I walked in, a friend was flashing my husband!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1185 days ago

11 September 2005 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 12 years. We have always had a good sex life, and I don't mind him looking at girls, just not touching. We had some friends over one night (a couple) and the girl went to the master bathroom knowing my husband ...

The boy I like was hugging a girl I hate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1057 days ago

10 September 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, There's this boy I like. He was in my class last year. All my friends say he likes me. Last year he flirted with me a lot. Last year I was in 8th grade. I saw him hugging another girl who I hate.Did he forget about me? ...

Is it weird that my girlfriend would spend her weekend at an intervention with her male friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1215 days ago

10 September 2005 (M) - I need advice. I've been dating this girl for about 3 months. Everything is awesome. She has this annoying friend in Maryland who is an alcoholic and is in AA. He invited my girlfriend and his parents down for an intervention this weekend. Well she ...

My friend wants to be with his son, but also to be with his married lover!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1215 days ago

10 September 2005 (F) - My friend is separated from his wife for three years without communication. They also have one son. He moved to another country and during his year of staying, he met a married woman and got into relationship. They have a ups and down relationship, ...

Interested in trying swinging, but apprehensive about how it might affect our relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1171 days ago

9 September 2005 (M) - My wife recently declared an interest in trying sex with another girl. It got me interested me as the girl in question is sexy and apparently available and I would shag her without any problems. The girl also suggested that her husband joined in. M...

My boyfriend loves the attention from other women! Will he every stop the games?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

8 September 2005 (F) - I am really hoping I can get some advice from a few different people here. My partner and I have been together for 8 months now. We love each other very much and have a great relationship overall. We live together and plan on moving closer to ...

My wife's "best friend" is a man...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

7 September 2005 (M) - My wife of eighteen years has a male "best friend" at work that she just talks to. She says it is no different than my best friends but I don't have female best friends. I have asked or suggested that she invite him and his wife over for dinner ...

A friend of ours was secretly meeting up with my partner. Now I can't get over the betrayal!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1217 days ago

6 September 2005 (F) - Please help - I really need an outsiders objective! I am 23 and have been with my boyfriend (29) for 5 years. We used to have a brilliant relationship - I used to feel so loved and safe and like nothing could come between us. How wrong was I!! ...

Is my sexual obsession with my sister-in-law healthy... Or not?!

This question has 99 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

5 September 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I really need to know if I am "normal" and if this problem I have is common among married men. Cut the story short, I have been having sexual fantasies about my wife's older sister for almost a year now. I'm so afraid its getting u...

Should my baby and I go home to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1221 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 19 months. We have a new baby which he didn't really want. As a result of this, after leaving hospital I returned home to my parents' house. I am now at their house, but want to return home, however there ...

My girl can't make her mind up whether to choose the other lad or me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 651 days ago

4 September 2005 (M) - hi I have just had a big uproar with my girl. It all started cos she said that she had feelings for another lad, but she does not want to lose me. I still love her and now she is trying to make her mind up. How can I help her choose me? ...

I've never really gotten over my confusing feelings for my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1221 days ago

4 September 2005 (F) - How should I procede with this relationship? I've been friends with this guy since my Senior year of high school. I am now 25. We have kept in really good touch over the years, but have lived across the country from each other since college st...

I met her first, and I think she likes me more than him. Why won't she choose me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1222 days ago

2 September 2005 (M) - I am 18. I have a serious problem. I fell in love with very very pretty girl but she has a boyfriend that she met after me. I think she likes me more than him. Why is she not choosing me to be her boyfriend? And what am I going to do?...

Even though he has a girlfriend, he said he likes me too!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

1 September 2005 (F) - I like this guy who has a girlfriend. He said he liked her but when I asked if he liked me he said yes. I want ot go out with him. What should I do? ...