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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I want to send this girl roses, but what do I write on the note?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I decided to order some roses for this girl I like. (It's this package deal thing my school is doing to generate funds for some charity) It comes with a message but I don't know what to write exactly. Any suggestions would be helpful. ...

He hates condoms!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (?) - I've recently began having sex with my boyfriend, and I went on the pill, so we could have unprotected sex together (as we know we have no STIs and are regularly checked anyway). Yet, now I've decided to not be on the pill, as its easier if he just ...

When do I start shaving? I'm too embarassed to ask my mum.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - my problem is when do i start shaaving im imbarresd to ask my mum...

I might be pregnant, and I'm scared, what am I going to do?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - hi, im realy confused because ive recently had sex for the first time, we didnt use any protection at the time and i know it was wrong and i regret it but im scared a might be pregnant, and im too young to have a child, i had sex on the 20 of ...

People can read me like an open book. Any recommendations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Im really worried that everyone can read me like a book! I really like this lad who has a gf and he likes me too. I'm not getting involved btw, and just trying my best to get over him. The problem is he goes to the same college as me, and so does ...

I am still not comfortable with anyone touching me or any sexual contact after a teacher's harassement! What to do to get past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 13 and when i was 12 there were about 6 or 7 boys who liked me and kept asking if i'd wanted to go out with or sometimes they asked if i would be their girlfriend but everytime i refused cause i wasn't ready for that kind of thing, at times ...

What can I do about my boyfirends constant lying??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. I am 16 and he is 17. When we first started to go out he was constantly lying to me and said he only done it so people would like him. But it was affecting our relationship so he ...

Should I dump my boyfriend for this other guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - hi im a 14 yr old girl and atm i hav a bf who i still like, but there is another guy that loves me so much more than my bf and he seems really nice and i think im starting to have feelings for him. the only problem is my bf and i hav been together ...

Would it ruin our friendship if I told him I was in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I secretly am in love with my best guy friend.We are both 16 years old.I want to tell him so bad,but we have been friends for over two years now,i am afraid it will ruin our friendship.Im not very good with words.I have no idea,because keeping this ...

How do I separate her from her friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - hello,ive got a problem... im going 2 canada (school trip)and on the way there (9 hours) im sitting with my best friend. on the way back i want to sit with my girlfriend so does she, but her friend "controls" where she sits. help! also her ...

How do I get some closure - and is it worth trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - About 5 days ago my boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me, saying that he just wanted to be friends and wasn't 'feeling' our relationship. He said he was sorry, and that I didn't do anything wrong. This was a total shock to me, as we had been ...

Am I really "Amazing"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - hi erm i dont really have any trouble with girls. i have a girlfriend, she is really hot but i feel slightly insecure and unnatractive because: a. i dont think im good enough for her! alot of other guys like her and shes really cool. so im cons...

How do I go about kissing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - me and this girl planning to only to watch a film I don't know if its date or wot. She's a year younger. We know each other and like each other but first time alone. Im off to 3weeks for a school trip thing. So won't see her. We spoken about hug...

I want to tell her I like her - but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I text a freind of mine that she looked very pretty today. But in the same text I talked bout some work so I didn't text her just to tell her was pretty. I added bit of humour as well. I'm really worried now what she will react like in school. ...

Me and my guy are ready for sex. Will it hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Me and my bf have been together a long time, and he and I both feel we are ready to have sex. But.. Im scared it will hurt. I was just wondering.. is the pain realy bad? I have been horse riding for 13 years now and I heard that can break your hym...

Information about spermicide. Is there any risk of pregnancy in given situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - does spermcide really work? B/c i bought a box full of thin desolving spermcide where u put it in u and wait for 15 minutes then have sex. but my boyfriend thought it was ok birth control so he cummed in me. is there a chance where i can be pr...

My bf said his ex was a very nasty person, then resumes contact with her. What does this tell about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - When you date a guy for 1 year and 4 months and he said hes totally into you, but when he starts talking to ex which he said "she was bitch and i never ever liked her." and plus adds her on myspace. what does that mean? b/c i dont want to tak...

Little things he does seem to annoy me lately. I think this is a probelm with me. Can anyone help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship for around a year now with a boy I go to school with. We're past the boyfriend/girlfriend stage - I class him as my partner. We've been sleeping together for about seven months, first time for both of us. Lately though, ...

How do I let my girlfriend know I'm not comfortable with her smoking Marijuana?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Personally I choose not to smoke marijuana, but my girlfriend does it and she knows i wont do it so she does it behind my back. She does it once every couple of weeks, and although most argue there is nothing wrong with the substance itself, i just ...

I cant seem to shave my armpits completely, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I don't think I'm the only one with this problem but there must be someone with an answer for it! Whenever I shave my armpits the hair never really goes completely, even when I've just shaved it. It's clearly visible and stubbly and this has made me ...

I do not want my bf to think I am not interested in him just because I am generally not excited about Valentine's Day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm in a fairly new relationship with this guy and I like him a lot. My sort-of dilemma that's developing is he's clearly into Valentine's Day and is looking forward to doing something special and extravagant, but I'm not a big Valentine'...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I made out with his best friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - okay me and my boyfriend have not been dating very long..and i now like his best friend..and he likes me and...well...at my boyfriends basketball game i kinda made out with his friend..and i now know that i dont like him and i really really like my ...

Are my friends being mean about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - me and my freinds have had some convasations about what was being said on a school bus.there is a boy i like who catches it and he simply asked what do i look like? these 2 girls both are my freinds but we dont hang around together. they burst out...

Should I give blow jobs at parties because all my friends do it?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - i am 16 and go to quite a lot of parties with people my age (house parties) whenever i go all my friends go and give head (blow jobs) and seem to think nothing of it. and some of then often have the favour returned. i am th eonly one who doesn't ...

Nervous and confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Im about to be 13 feb. 4th and me and my god sister are double dating and I have never been any where with my boyfriend cuz im not allowed 2 date but we really love each other and we are going 2 the movies on valentine's day and my mom knows that i ...

I am jealous of my boyfriends best friend that happens to be a female. Am I overreacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I think i'm starting to get jealous of my boyfriends bestfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been together for almost 2 years. He has known his friend, which is a girl, for a long time he says and I get sad because they go to ...

Does my teacher have feelings for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I've fancied this teacher at my school for 3 years, i've recently realised that I think i'm in love with him. Lately he's been making innuendo's that he may have feelings for me too. When i'm around him he constantly stares at me, and when I look a...

Was he playing with me, Is it my shyness or just a typical teen boy thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - i need some advise! i like this boy who i've known for about 5 yrs now. about a year ago we started texting each other constantly and he told me he liked me a lot too. we went out a few times together but nothing really happened. recently he texted ...

What to do with him...Do you think we are really broken up for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hello my ex and i been broken up for about 2 weeks now and sunday night i went to his house we talked..he basically told me that we're still young and that hes not ready to commit yet.then he said i'd be wasting my time if i waited for him.....

What does a boy really want in a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm trying to become friends with this really hot guy who I'm head over heels for. But problem is I just can't figure out how to get him really into me, or at least I can't tell. I think he's interested in me but it's really hard because he's really ...

My friend grassed me up to my boyfriend. Do I become mates with him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - rite this is complicated ..... very complicated. where do i start - well ive lived next door to this lad 4 about 12 yrs and he was best mates with my brother, when my brother went to university me n him became very close n he was my bestest friend ...

How can I find out if he said it only because of a dare?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm 13 years old. I just found out something. The boy in my class who said he loved me, he was dared to say it. what do u think?...

My boyfriends best friend makes me horny!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hey people.... i really need help... basically,theres this boy iv liked for SOO long,and he knows it,,but now im going out with his best friend,he doesnt know about this,and at school he comes up to me ,,,and touches my but and stuff,,and it ma...

An on line test said I have severe depression. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hi i took one of those tests online to say whether i had depression or not. i have been feeling really bad for about 2 years or so. it suddenly got really bad. the test online, which came from a very reliable online doctors site, said i had majo...

We get on well on line but his relationship status on face book is 'complicated' what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - me and my friend here still dont know. so yesterday i really started talking to this guy. i talked to him from 11am, to 10pm. and he obviously enjoys making me laugh. he trys really hard to. (btw, i've never met him. he's got mutual friends w...

How can I stop the gossip about me and my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I really like a guy from school and a few days ago i texted him that i like him and explained who iam. he doesn't know me so he couldn't understand,but a few of his friends know me.yesterday he saw me but he didn't say anything to me.the problem is ...

Caught in an online love-triangle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm in a bit of a love triangle...See i am already in a relationship with a guy (online but i've met him, its an LDR) and its been around two years now. It was heavenly when we started out but i feel its fading away now. I still do love him though ...

I prefer being silent during sex. Is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I always hear that when making love woman moan and breath heavy and what not, but i really cant breath or anything, it just feels so much better when i hold my breath, especially when I orgasm. is that normal? I don't like being strangled, just ...

How can I get sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - I'm a 15 year old boy who needs sex, and I don't know how to get it. Any Suggestions?...

I like him as a teacher; his staring bothers me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi I have a problem to discuss need some advices. There is a teacher at my school he stares at me a lot, and everyday I enter the classroom he always makes an eye contact with me. I heard that he even got married a few months ago. I like him as t...

I need some major help... to deal with all the troubles.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Everything seems to just be going completly wrong and i cant seem to just be happy. I'm usually an EXTREMELY outgoing person, can talk to anyone, make anyone laugh, but that part of me is just being eaten up. My parents are going to be divorced, my ...

Does she like me, to have asked me to the school dance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - I hve had this girl I like for a while now. we have been freinds for years. I couldn't ge the courage to ask her out. the other day she asked me to the school dance, I said yes ofcourse. Does this mean she likes me? o and while I was walking ...

I want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend, how can I speed things up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - i'm 14 and i want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend. ive been with her for 3 months now, and i really like her alot for such a short space of time. you guys probably think im too young to know what love is but i do, i was with this other ...

Techniques to make it last longer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of almost 5 months have started to have sex. It was his first time when we did it a while ago but my third. We have only had sex three times but every time we did he came pretty fast. like 5 miutes or so. this time it was rele ...

Once in a lifetime opportunity? Should I show my LD friend I'm sexually attracted to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Hello again, I'm 15, I have been speaking to a girl over instant-messager for just about a year now, I've always found her attractive (seen pictures and webcam) and she has a amazing personality. We have spoken of sex and we share fantasy's with ...

I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...

What do people think of the pill for contraception?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I've been seriously thinking about contraception lately and i'm not sure which way to go. I'm going to make a family planning appointment to talk things through with a professional but i'd like some opinions from other people too. I'd like to go...

Do Mum's appreciate honesty about the sexual behaviors of their teens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I know all about different types of contraception and the effects and side-effects and popularity of all different types of contraception. I'm trying to be very open with my mum about everything but obviously not too much detail and i was just won...

What should I do? I kept my part of the bragin but he never kept his...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I have had a boyfriend for 3 years, he was the best thing in my life i did everything for him. This year our relationshiop I feel is falling apart because what people say about us really hurts our feelings. On the first day of the second term ...

Why would a condom hurt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - i tried on a condom (i dont know why) i found in my brothers room it kind of hurt when it was stretching and ive never pulled my foreskin back fully before, please tell me if this is wrong...