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Archived questions from: October, 2005 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Does the neighbour girl mean what she said about having no boyfriend? Should I have a go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1165 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - Hello, Ok this does sound stupid but it really makes me mad right. I am 16 male live in England. My next door neighbour is 30yr old women has a middle sister of I think 27 and a younger sister of 24. Now!!! I really fancy the younger one 24...

I'm 14 already and still have never had a boyfriend...

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Please help! I'm a 14 year old girl, brown hair, slightly attractive, nice figure, killer personality and yet I've never had a bf. I always fancy someone but I'm far too shy to ask them out and I won't let my mates ask them out for me. This is ...

Why won't my bf let me give him oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Im sixteen and have been in a steady relationship for a month.I want to give my boyfriend oral sex but he doesn't want me to. What's wrong with me?...

Mom would freak out if she knew my online guy is 11 years older!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1154 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - I met this guy online about 8 months ago, and we've dated over the internet and over phone conversations for about 6 months. We started out really slow and now I love him more than anyone I've ever dated. Well, I'm only 15 and he's 26 and we live in ...

The way my bf treats me and the way he says hurtful things are leaving me drained!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1145 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Hello, I am stuck right now in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over two years and sometimes he says things that hurt me, and he acts like he doesn't care, sometimes in front of his friends. I am emotiona...

I used to like one girl, but met another at a party and everything changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1167 days ago

28 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am so confused and need help please! I really liked this girl and I had strong feelings for her. I really loved talking to her when I had the chance. Then last week I went to a party and saw another girl I knew for ages; since primary ...

I heard that my boyfriend had someone else lined up, just in case we broke up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1169 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - I have been with my b/f for almost a year and a half. Since my parents are against it, we barely see each other outside of school. Recently we were getting angry with each other for various reasons and were thinking about breaking up. I know I l...

We only really talk online, so I don't know if this boy fancies me or not...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 661 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - There is this guy I like from school, but we only talk briefly in real life. I met him when his friend introduced us online and now we IM each other for hours every night. He's really nice and friendly, and he texts me too, but I can't tell if ...

We have a mutual sexual attraction, yes, but does he LIKE me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1170 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - I am totally in to this guy I go to school with. We have been friends for about a year and have always joked and teased each other. Well a couple months ago we started talking and realized there was a mutual sexual attraction and acted on it. We m...

Is my foreskin OK?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - Hi, I am 14 years old and i am concerned about the fact that my foreskin does not overlap my penis' head...is there something wrong with my foreskin or am I just being paranoid...

Sometimes I freeze up with nothing to say to my crush! Hints? Suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been talking to my crush (Timber) on the Internet for about four months now. He's sweet, funny, and absolutely everything I ever thought he would be. We talk almost every day for long amounts of time-just finding out about each oth...

I want to trust my bf, but he chats to other female friends and overtly ogles other women...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1171 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I'm 16 nearly 17, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. He's 20, and it's been brilliant. We have a good sex life and everything is going great. But since he's lost his internet he will come round mine with me and he checks his emails but then ...

I love my girlfriend like nothing else, but she still thinks she wants to finish it!

This question has 71 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - How to show my girlfriend I love her? I am a 14 year old boy. I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly two months now, and I've never been happier, but the last week we've had a series of huge arguments about us, and she's recently b...

I'm hung up on a boy in my old school, in a different state...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1172 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I really liked this boy at my school but then I moved to different state. One of my friends told me (over the phone) that he asked about me and I'm completly hung up on him. When I hear his name my stomach even does a flip. I also like a guy at my ...

Should I have sex with my boyfriend. If so, where?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - I need to know if I should have sex with my boyfriend. I'm 16; he is 18. If I should or decide to, where should we do it at? What do I do physically with him?...

My online chat-guy turned out to be 40, and he convinced me to have sex with him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - H, I'm 16 years old and in May this year I met a guy over the net and we got on very well for about 3 months and we decided to meet. Then I discovered that he had lied about his age. When we met in August he told me he was 40 years old. He ...

I want to enjoy sex when I start having it, but right now it's not good at all...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1175 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - This is a sexual question... When I think about my future and having sex, I always get the feeling that I'm not going to enjoy it. When I'm in the mood to do something sexual, I usualy finger myself, but it doesn't give me any pleasure at all....

Been masturbating in a different style. Will this cause me problems later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1164 days ago

21 October 2005 (M) - Hello, I am 16 years old and still a virgin. I started masturbating in a different manner. I lie on a bed and rub my dick on the bed. I am afraid will I have problems in having sex?...

I'm turned on, I just don't want my boyfriend to know it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - Ok, I feel like im ready to go on to the next level with my boyfriend (fingering, etc) but I'm really embarrassed about getting "wet" and I'm afraid it might gross him out or something, he thinks I dont get turned-on by him, but thats not the case, ...

What kind of a Christmas present can I get my boyfriend?

This question has 420 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - Heya, I know this may be a silly question but I was wondering what sort of Christmas present do you get a guy? I mean, me and my boyfriend are both 14 yrs old, and we love each other very much (yes I know, its only young love but this is for real) ...

The boy I like has a baby and a relationship with someone else, but I think he wants me too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 898 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - I have liked this boy since 10th grade and now were're in 12th. He has a baby by another girl, but their relationship is off and on. In reality, I know they are going to be together cause of the baby. Now my mind is telling me to let go, but my ...

Dad discovered stuff on my laptop and now he doesn't trust me with guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1177 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - I made one mistake and now everything is screwed up. I went away for a while and left my laptop at home and my father just decides to look through my computer and found conversations between me and my ex-boyfriend. They weren't really sexual we were ...

I'm just totally not into anything sexual with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1175 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is turning 19. It's his birthday in one week and we've decided to take our relationship to the 3rd level. We've been going out for about 3 months and I love him so much I would risk my life for his without even ...

Is it normal for someone like me to be so obsessed with much older men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1163 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid! I am a 16 year old girl and I'm having a massive dilemma: I seem to be attracted to men much older than me.... not just attracted actually, I'd say I am almost obsessed! I fantasise about my maths teacher, my english tea...

Why is my 16-year-old son in such a hurry to get married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1177 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - My 16-year-old son told me yesterday he wants to marry his girlfriend soon - who is also 16. He goes to college and is doing well at the moment, so no worries there. I asked him had he thought about his future and he said yes, he wants to go ...

I kissed my boy mate and now our friendship seems broken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1167 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hello everyone, I just wondered if I could be clarified on something. I am 15. My best friend (a boy) and I are really close and as I moved I invited him to stay over for a week a few months ago. One evening we just kissed each other outside ...

We're in love, but I don't dare tell my parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1030 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm currently seeing a guy. He's kind, gentle, sweet, funny, caring - EVERYTHING I've always wanted. He handles situations with ease and calm, and he's just --- OOH! Perfect! I really, truly love him. And he loves me, too! ^_^ I know th...

I'm having trouble dealing with the death of my uncle...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1178 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Hi there, I'm 14 and in August my uncle passed away. :-( He was only 43 which made matters worse. I can't seem to move on. I go out with my friends shopping etc every now and again, and they always make me feel a bit happier but when I'm alone I ...

Being raped when I was 15 has affected my life with my fiance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1176 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Hi I was raped when I was 15 and now I am 18, but while I was 16 I started using men. I am not proud of that. I used to get them to fall in love with me then I would cheat on them. But now that I have a fiance and he's great, he understa...

This girl stares at everyone, but her long looks at me are getting me interested...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1180 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - Hi all, I'm Chris, a 17 yr old college student. I have a sorta weird problem with this girl at my college. She's called Natalie and she's same age as me (17). She's as tall as me, about 6ft, but since she started she has kept staring at me for s...

I'm 13 and he's 19. We've been texting, but I want to move on to more!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1101 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - I met this boy who I really like at a fair that always comes to town. We each got other people to swap numbers. Anyway we have been texting for about a year now and both said we like each other, but we have been with other people. I see him every da...

Am I too young?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - Do you think 13 is too young to have a boyfriend? ...

Both my best girl mate and me fancy my best boy mate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1140 days ago

15 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 13, and I have been best mates with this boy since playschool, 11 years. A week ago, I realised I fancied him, REALLY BADLY! So I told my other best mate (female)and she said she fancied him too! Now I don't know what to do, beca...

I think I fancy the teacher. What's worse is she's female, like me!

This question has 68 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I'm only 13 and I feel really bad because I seem to fancy my teacher and she is a woman. I go to a girls' school and rumours fly fast so I don't dare say anything to my friends because I would feel extremely embarassed and I could be overheard. W...

Is my online guy just teasing, or does he really mean he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1181 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I'm 13... I have been chatting to this guy I really like. My friends think that he is completely wrong for me and has no feelings for me. But whenever we chat, we always say things lik "I luv u!" and "Hi hun" and when we chat on MSN we always s...

He's a really a wonderful guy, but he feels uneasy because my baby isn't his...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1174 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I am 17 years old I had my daughter when I was 16. The father of my daughter went away to America when he found out I was pregnant. He never came back to see me or my baby. When my daughter was 3 months old I met an old friend, the last time I s...

Hate my new school, because I just don't fit in. Can't I go back to my old one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1182 days ago

14 October 2005 (F) - I've recently moved schools, and I've been at my new one for a week over 1 term and I hate it! I now go to a selective school and they're all soo snooty and I don't really fit in. All I want is to go back to my old school but my father won't le...

Does the girl in math class like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 693 days ago

13 October 2005 (M) - Im 12 years old and in 7th grade. I like this pretty girl in my school. She sometimes wanna be my partner in math class, and she talks to me a lot. But I don't know if she really likes me...

At 17, I think I've outgrown my boyfriend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1180 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years. I love him very much and would do almost anything for him. Lately we have been fighting a lot about the littlest things. The problem is I am 17 and he is 18 and compared to me he is really immature. I now feel...

The attraction seemed mutual, but suddenly he's ignoring me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - I'm 17 and he's 15. He's a freshman and I'm a junior. We've always liked each other and in these past few weeks we've come closer to each other. He's the perfect guy. Then, one day it all stopped. He stopped sitting next to me and saying hi to me in ...

We're really in love, but our parents don't know about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - Hi I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 18. I want to start this off by saying yes, we are sexually active and we both dont see why age matters so much. We are both in love; I mean real love! Some say why is he into a younger person and why am I into an ...

Sometimes he acts a bit of an idiot, but I think I like the guy from my drama class...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1186 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I have known this guy from my drama class and we have been friends (Not best friends or anything) since we were 10 (14 now) and we walk home together after drama and its great and we get on well. Trouble is, I have started to have uh...feelings fo...

Will any boy ever wait for me to be ready for a sexual relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1068 days ago

9 October 2005 (?) - Hi I am 15. I don't really want sex or anything like that, and I am scared of the next step in a relationship which goes beyond just kissing. I am scared that I will never be able to get into a serious relationship because of this! Everyone says tha...

Attracted to the girl-next-door, but she's only 15...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1061 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - Confused male. I am nearly 20 and recently I have found myself having feelings for my next door neighbour, but she is 15. I don't know what to do about it. Can anyone help? I mean it's only 4 years difference. Does this matter?...

Do I have to fondle my boyfriend, if I let him touch me intimately?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1187 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - If my bf (I hate to be so graphic) fingers me, would I have to touch him in return? Wouldn't he expect that if I were to let him touch me?...

He's only "thinking" about going out with me. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1186 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - This boy I like he says he likes me and his girlfriend just dumped him not too long ago. We flirt a lot. Lately he has been avoiding me. It's been going on for about a month. I asked him out and he is always saying 'I'm thinkin about it'. What sho...

I think I should move in with my boyfriend so that I'll have my own life...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 502 days ago

7 October 2005 (?) - Hello, I have no life living with my mom. I am given a time to come in 11:30pm. I'm 18 and many people at the age of 18 are in and out when they want. I have no life, seriously. I babysit constantly. My boyfriend has asked me to move in with...

Am I in love with my teacher, or is this a crush?

This question has 80 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

7 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone I am 16 and I want to know if I am in love with my 33 year old school teacher. I have meetings with him as he is my mentor, but whenever I see him my knees go weak and I get butterflies in my stomach really badly. I find it really h...

I'm afraid my future husband will be turned off by my scar and stretch marks...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1180 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I'm 16 years old and I am still a virgin. Well see, this is how it is, I'm saving myself till marriage. The thing is though, when I do get married I don't want my husband to see my body because I think my body is ugly. I have stretch marks on my ...

I'm not supposed to have a boyfriend, so I have one behind my dad's back...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1179 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - Well see my problem is complicated. I have this ex-boyfriend that i was seeing for about 2 months before he left for Louisiana, and me and him only saw each other 2 times before he left. Well me and him were on the phone and emailing each other. One ...