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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Has anyone any advice on how I can improve my body?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 568 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I am sixteen years old and am concerned with my body. I know that it is not right to be overly concerned with my body, but it would make me feel better about myself. Unfortunately i cant seem to get the body i want. Do not get me wrong, i and not ...

Can a girl get pregnant whilst on her period ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - I know this might sound gross to some, but I still need to ask. Is it possible for a girl to become pregnant while menstruating? Also, is it wrong to have sex during a menstruation period if you wear a condom? My girlfriend is horniest during ...

Since being on the Contraception injection I've got a discharge and a bad smell! What should I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 568 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - alright so. I have been sexually active... I went to my doctor..and went onto birth control..the Injection. I've only had one so far its my first.. I am also on the Gardisal...I do not have an Std. its to help reduce risk. Ever since i star...

I was just curious if there are any products out there that could whiten/lighten my skin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

28 April 2007 (F) - I was just curious if there are any products out there that could WHITEN + LIGHTEN my skin. When I was small I was born with pale white skin. Since I am older and the sun is out more frequently in my area my skin has been tan. I would like my ...

I'm scared of being rejected because I have never had a boyfriend before because no one had asked me out. I have started to think that I'm not pretty or thin or nice enough.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - For starters, there is this guy i like but he's a year younger than me. He's 16 and I am going to be 17 next week. I'm worried that if i ask him out, people will laugh at me because he is younger than me. Also, I'm scared of being rejected because I ...

Is it true that if you are on the pill for a long time...you won't have kids, once you stop taking them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - Is it true that if you are on birth contol pills for many years you cant have kids once you stop taking them? I have been on the pill on and off for about 2 years. If I go a lot longer will I still be able to have kids when I want to? ...

I have a heavy period and I'm scared of what will happen in school! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - dear agony aunt, i have started my perids a couple of days ago, when im in school i feel all scared of what will happen but in my house i am fine, also i am pretty heavy which makes it worse! and when i need to change it i will need my bag but...

Why is it that some days I can't sleep yet other days all I ever want to do is sleep?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - some days i cant sleep at all, other days all i want to do is sleep and cant get the energy to get out of bed, i constantly feel down and cry for no reason. whats happening to me? i have exams but never have i felt so down and constantly exhausted ...

I feel really depressed about my weight and can't look in a mirror.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 573 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - I feel really depressed about my weight. My friends tell me that I'm skinny and don't need to lose any weight, but I can't look in a mirror as I feel physically repulsive, and find shopping for clothes hard, as I hate taking my clothes off. I'v...

Can you be overfat, even if your not over weight ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - I was just wondering, can a person be over fat even though they may not be overweight on the scales? I say this because i am 5ft 4.5 and 8st (112 pounds?) but feel really fat. I cant face mirrors and have started buying bigger clothes to hide my ...

My bf broke up w/ me b/c of the way I acted...but it was due to my depression! How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 565 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - I recently found out that I'm suffering from depression and anxiety and that I have for a long time now (for a few years). My boyfriend broke up with me because I got frustrated about some details of getting home, got in a mood and walked out on his ...

Am i depressed? I go to work, cook, clean, wash myself etc. So I don't feel depressed but he says i am

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - Am I depressed? My partner invited me to meet him, halfway through a work trip abroad, where i spent a weekend with him, but he spent most the time with his work colleagues with me tagging along (that's how i felt) and he bullied a female colleag...

What is the best sunscreen that has whitening effects that will make my skin lighter, and not make it tan?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 576 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - This has been happening for several years. I have oily face. No matter how much I wash it, my face gets oily during the afternoon. What should I do? I have acne right now, but I am taking pills and creams for it prescribed by the dermatologist. ...

Is this normal that my Penis doesnt stand right up to attention when lying down!?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - I am 16 and have had 2 sexual partners. My first, was very kind and considerate about everything but one thing she did just slightly mention once was that i have a "soft-cock". at first i didnt register what she meant (and she definitely did not ...

My girlfriend hasnt had a period for 7 weeks, we always use a condom and shes on the pill!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend were best mates for 2 years before we got together so we know everything about each other, trust each other, have thought alot about it and liked each other for a long time before we got together, We both have ha dsex with ...

The spots on my face get cut when I shave and leave marks, anyway to reduce this ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

24 April 2007 (?) - how do i get rid of spots on my face? sometimes i shave and my spots get cut. they bleed and few days later go back to normal skin with it is coloured browny red. and some of these marks have been there for over 2years. anyway of gettin rid of th...

Will these stretch marks go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - I had a baby 11 days ago. I got bad stretch marks and my stomach sags now. Will these stretch marks go away? Does the loose skin ever go back to normal? If you're going to tell me to work out...suggest ways in which I should work out. Thanks....

Why do I have these spots on my penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - Short and to the point really. I've had this large number of spots on my penis for a long time, even before I lost my virginity I think (at least 3 years ago). The sight of them is getting really depressing. Although single at the moment I want to ...

When do u have to have smear tests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - When do u have to have smear tests? Is it after the first time you have sex, because i really don't want one i just wondered?...

I've been sick for a week, and the doctor is totally stumped!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - Okay so i've been sick for a week. the doctor is totaly stumped at what is wrong.. but here are some of my symptoms: headaches, dizziness, nose bleeds, achiness, just NOT feeling good, no energy, very tired, when i think of food i feel like i'm ...

I have always felt sex is a tool to control your partners, and I don't like sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 27 and have been with my husband for 7 years, married for 5 with a 3 year old child, my problem is that I don't like sex, I never have. I've always used sex as a tool to control my partners and now I fell that I'm missing out, I want to ...

I can't ejactulate when having penetrative sex, but I can get off easily masturbating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - My problem is that I can’t ejaculate while having penis/virginal sex with women. I am healthy and can ejaculate very fast when masturbating, within a minute if I want to. When I have penis/virginal sex with women I can keep an erection for a long ...

Menopause--my partner has no understanding about what I'm going through. Any help is appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - I'm in my early 50's and menopause has hit me full force. I am dealing with it well, but my partner is not. The nightsweats, the forgetfulness, the headaches, the mood swings (not severe-just sadder, more) are all part of it. I am under doctor's ...

I love a man that abuses me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - hi all ive been seeing this guy for 4 yrs now, i met him 2yrs after finally freeing myself and my children from a 16yr physical voilent relationship...when i met this new guy i was obviously cautious but started to relax enjoy and let my barriers...

My gf's ex bf was a sexual predator and a very sick man. I want her to lay charges for what he did to her, but she won't! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - I have been dating a 49 year old woman for just over 4 months now. While having an open discussion about our past relationships, she disclosed to me some very disturbing facts that occured during here past relationship. First of all, this past rel...

I'm feeling sick from some dizzy spells! Why is this happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - This has been going on and off. Sometimes when I am reading, or doing things my eyes or my head starts to shake. Its hard for me to focus. For example, when I look at my room it shakes side to side or back and fourth. This reaction sort of makes me ...

My period has been ongoing for a long time! This can't be normal so what's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 574 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - Hi! I turn 21 in three months and I have never been to a gynecologist or anything. Im no virgin.I lost my virginity when I was 15 and I have had sex with 10 different guys now. Slut or not I dont really care. So anyways, I am really worried now ...

Lymph nodes in my neck are swollen! Thought it was mono but was wondering...could this be an std or anything ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - my lymph nodes in my neck are swollen i'm having bad headaches and feeling like i'm going to throw up and really tierd the doctors thought it was mono but that came back negative i'm scared b.c i have to go back to the doctor in two hours so t...

After I gave birth to my third child, I have gained a lot of weight. How do I go back to my pre-weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 577 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - How do i go back to my normal weight. I was 48 kgs thin and fit before i gave birth to my third child. I am in my mid 30s. I gained so much weight after my delivery, any of my cloths won't fit me, since then I started to exersise every day and ...

My girlfriend is 10 weeks pregnant but still smokes every day and drinks on occasions too.

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

23 April 2007 (M) - I'm totally in love with my partner - I love her more than anything in the world. She is 10 weeks pregnant and I am so happy and excited to be with her. However she continues to have a few drinks a week and I suspect more when I am not around her. ...

I'm pale and tanning naturally is difficult. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 577 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - I'm very pale, and don't tan easily, so I was thinking about getting a spray tan before my holidays. I'm going away for a week in June, then away for four weeks in August. I was thinking, get a spray tan a day before I leave, then apply more ...

How much physical affection is normal in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - guys: how much physical affection do you think is 'normal' in a relationship? is there such a thing? i mean, is there a limit below which, if it ain't there, the girl should just get the hint that whatever the other signs might suggest, ...

My vagina has a lump that is sore and inflamed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - Hi, i was just wandering whether anyone can help. I noticed that on my vagina i have a lump that is sore and inflammed it doesn't hurt when i pee or anything and i don't have an unpleasant odour or discharge it's just sore to touch. I've had this ...

Did I put the sponge contraceptive in wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 576 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - I had a bad experience recently with the sponge contraceptive; I found that the next morning it was very hard to take out and there was blood in it. My boyfriend tends to be a hard thruster (he's not huge though) and I didn't realize it hurt until ...

Sometimes I black out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 577 days ago

23 April 2007 (M) - Ok so heres the thing sometimes when i walk around not for long i start to get all sleepy and black out but i dont black out for more then 30secs whats wrong with me...

I want a 6 pack!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 577 days ago

22 April 2007 (?) - I really really want to get a 6 pack! I'm 16 weighing 8.10stones and 5,11feet tall. What do i need to do? all information welcome. thanks,...

I have signs of an alcoholic and I have kissed other women though I have a girlfriend whom I love very much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

22 April 2007 (M) - The last 3 weeks i have been going out with my mates and seriously taking drinking to another level. I feel like i am now bordering alcoholism. The reason i post this is that whilst i have been out i am being a really bad and different person. On ...

I'm still bleeding 8 days after giving birth.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - I had a baby 8 days ago. I am still bleeding, like I am on my period. Also, I feel swollen and like all my insides are pushed out in my vaginal area. When does the bleeding stop, and when do you go back to normal? Do I really have to wait 6 weeks to ...

My vagina gets extremely wet when I'm doing anything sexual. Anyone else have this problem?

This question has 81 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - I am curious if anyone has a similar problem? My vagina gets extremely wet when I'm doing anything sexual. An ex said he's never seen anyone get that wet before and he used to have to pull out occasionally during intercourse to dry me off with a ...

I feel fat and ugly and have never had a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 576 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - hi..ok amm my life i have been fat but until recently i have decided for my self that i wanted to get skinny cuz no guy was looking at me i was 5.5 feet and weighed about 235 lbs ..ya i know heavy for a 15 yr old girl but now i am 16 and weigh 174 ...

Everytime he puts a condom on he goes soft.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 575 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - My man and I have just started to get intimate with each other, well try to at least. Everything is amazing but as soon as the condom goes on, he goes soft!! This has happens everytime and of course he can't get his penis in when its not hard so ...

I'm bi-polar and my bf blames me and says I'm crazy everytime we argue! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 578 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - First of all, I am bi-polar and pregnant! My problem is that everytime me and my boyfriend have and argument, he blames me and says I'm crazy! I am a very rational person actually and have even caught him making things up! When I defend myself, the ...

Has abusive relationships has made me unable to stand a man's touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 578 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - After being in an abusive relationship and having some very unpleasant dates, one of which turned into a stalker, I find myself unable to stand a man's touch anymore. It makes me literally quite sick. I still have a sex drive, but it dies around my ...

Ive struggled with Bacteria Vaginosis for 2 yrs! Antibiotics aren't working..anyone know of others ways to get rid of it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - Ive struggled with Bacteria Vaginosis for 2 yrs now. it will come,the doctor will prescribe anti-biotics,it will go away for awhile, then it will come back! this is not my natural smell and Im sick of going through this over and over again. does ...

My 14 yr old is only smoking to fit in! Please help he has cardio problems!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 579 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - Please help my 14 year old friend smokes occasionaly when he is out with people who do smoke and it worries me because he didnt used to and i feel he is doing it to show off and i really care about him and he knows that and he wont listen to me ...

Sometimes, I have stinging discharge.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 580 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - I have discharge coming out of my vagina. It sort of stings, and sometimes not. The discharge is slightly yellow. Is this normal? This has been happening for awhile ever since I started putting lubricant on my vagina for my first time. When I put on ...

I need others in my life, someone I can depend on, how can I get this ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 580 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - i feel so easily discarded by friends and i dont know why I keep getting left. I try very hard to make the people in my life feel important but when i need someone there is no one i can count on. Ive been trying to strengthen ties with some friends ...

I feel lonely and drown myself in drink every morning.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 580 days ago

20 April 2007 (M) - I have a problem i am lonely and I drink before I go to work in the morning I have an Irish Coffee than when I go home Scotch and Whisky I need help. *Moderator Note: next time, extra information would be helpful - eg: your situation, why you are ...

My crotch smells odd. What can I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 581 days ago

19 April 2007 (F) - So I have seen this in numerous places the funny smell down below. It is said as ,I have read on here, to be an infection but how to people get it? I wash everyday down there, i have not gone far at all with a guy never even taken any of my clothes ...

Are egg whites fattening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 580 days ago

19 April 2007 (F) - Are egg whites fattening? I need to know due to my health issues. *Moderator Note: next time, you can do a search on Google.com. It would yield faster results.*...