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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2008 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

I love my husband, but I've got my self involved with another man...a little too deep, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I feel completely trapped. I am 32, my husband is 38 and I have been married for 10 years now, and although my marriage is good and solid, it has survived many rough patches and there´s always been love and affection between me and my husband. I fell...

Is my hubby having an affair with this woman on his myspace page?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I need some help I Have been with my hubby for 8 years and just got married last year. He has a myspace account and there was this girl leaving him message about how fine he was and she had him as her number on there and i asked him who this was he ...

I have become a cheater and I feel so guilty

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - i have fell out with my bf of 3 years about 6 months ago and NEVER EVER cheated on him but since i fell out with him i hav slept with a few ppl and i have been with 2 different guys who have girlfriends and i know them!! i told no 1 but all my ...

My husband wants our marriage to work after both of us cheated but I feel numb due to the many problems!...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Maybe you can help me out. My husband was involved in many affairs in the past that I never knew about and was abusive. When he did tell me during a emotional breakdown I was already having, it threw me into a very messed up state of mind that I a...

I feel horrible and ugly due to my ex cheating. How can I improve my self esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I know this will be silly- but it is how I feel right now! I found out that my ex-boyfriend cheated on me the whole time we were together. He cheated on all his previous girlfriends as well. I also found a mail he wrote to his friend two years ago ...

How can I convince him that we both need to get divorced and be together as one big family, and that he has just as much rights to his kids as she does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I am married ( for almost 11 years) to a man who I thought was my soulmate, but after about 3 years into our marriage he changed. He became lazy and as if he didn't care about me at all. He almost never initiates sex anymore, and we are only ...

My best friend's girlfriend likes me and I like her...can anyone shed some light on this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - My best friends girlfriend and i like each other. My best friend has been seeing this girl for a bout 3 months. i only met her 2 months ago. when i met her she seemed nice and i was purely trying to get to know her as a friend with my friends ...

How can one use somebody for sex and NOT feel guilty??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - How do guys (or girls) who use someone for sex, sleep at night? I mean honestly I just dont understand how they can use someone for sex and not feel guilty at all. What makes them think its OK to use someone like that? What goes on in there mind? ...

I feel there are three people in this marrage: my husband, I, the wife and his ex girlfriend! Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I have been married for over a year now. my husband has become distant in our relationship. I recently found a bill with calls and texts to one number on a daily basis, ranging from one up to six times a day for the last 3 months. I confronted my h...

My friend is too involed with a guy who I know is no good. Help me convince her please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Stacy is my best friend. She started seeing a guy 9 months ago but i know from my personal experience that he is not a good boy. I know he will cheat on her because i know his past quite well. But even though i told her about it, she did not list...

He gets very secretive with his phone and his laptop, Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I'm living with my boyfrend. I suspect that he's cheating on me. He turns his phone off when we're at home together, or puts it on silent. He gets very secretive with his phone and his laptop, especially when he's checking his email, facebook, etc....

I've had a life of violence and abuse and now my boyfriend cheated. I need help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - hya, i need all the help i can get i've had the hardest life with domestic violence n sexual abuse which left my emotions shattered. i am 16 and i had a long term bf which i truly loved he was the only this that has ever made me enjoy life...w...

I had oral sex with this guy I work with. I found out he has a fiance!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - I have been working with this guy for a few months. When we first met we flirted quite often then it turned physical. We never slept together but had oral sex. I knew before that that he had a girlfriend. I should have never done anything with him ...

Do you think he'll cheat? He has his cell phone off! I don't even know if it counts as cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Me and my BF are kind of on a break... He went out of town and is returning on Saturday. Just before going away yesterday, we fought and he dumped me. I had seen him a few days before. he almost criend when he said he'd miss me. I gave him my...

Can there be any trust when both partners have cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 215 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - My girl friend and have been together for two years. I've never met someone like her she's sweet and caring. But she's 18yr.s old and I'm 21 I had little experience before her but I was her first kiss. I told her two things I could deal with high ...