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Archived questions from: 6 September, 2018 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this relationship based on sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2055 days ago

6 September 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a weird relationship with a 48 year old man. I lost my virginity to him but lied I was on my period. I had sex because I was ready to and do not feel an ounce of guilt. All I wanted from him was to have sex, get over with the pain and move on from him but when i tried ... (375 words)

Is she worth pursuing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2047 days ago

6 September 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a really low place right now. I've been dating a girl for the past 4 months ( I'm 30 she's 26) and during the past month she's grown incredibly distant. She only texts me when I text her now, sometimes it takes her days to reply, she never calls now, and she never wants ... (850 words)

How should I not feel so worried about maybe not getting a text or phone call back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

6 September 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend who has recently gone away to university so I wont see her for a few months . im hoping to see her when shes back but im really worried that she will meet new friends and forget about me because I know this can happen . I'm really happy for her and I think going ... (221 words)

Am I being unreasonable in wanting us to cut back on our weed expenses? I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

6 September 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - So my husband works to keep me at the moment he literally pays for almost everything (including holidays, clothes, materialistic things etc) But bare in mind I don't ask him for that he just does it. I'm unable to work at the moment due to my severe anxiety and depression. ... (218 words)

He’s going away for the weekend with one of his best female friends!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

6 September 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months,we knew each other before though and its pretty serious. Everything has been good but there is one thing Im not comfortable with and its that hes going away for the weekend with one of his best girl mates. The trip was planned ... (174 words)

Please help me figure out why I am so upset about being ghosted by an old friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

6 September 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me figure out why I am so upset about being ghosted by an old friend. I met Ann in high school. We were very close our senior year. We went to colleges in different states, but kept in touch. After college, we moved to different cities and lost touch for c... (472 words)

Should I call him out or just drop it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

6 September 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Back story: I started seeing this guy back in February, but ONLY as a hookup (my intention at the time, since I was getting out of a 6 year relationship). This lasted for a couple months, and near the end of the couple months, I realized I was starting to like him, and st... (766 words)

I have an IUD and we don't have condoms so why did I find them in my boyfriend's things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

6 September 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Me an my fiance have been together for almost 10 years we are in our 20s an have a daughter an wanting more kids lol but we were going to bed when he comes in an puts his cigarettes an that down an he leaves the room an I look were he put them cuz something felt off an he was ... (122 words)

How important is respect in a marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

6 September 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - How important is respect in a relationship? I am back in the dating scene after 2 years and this always seems to come up for me in terms of “respect” My father has been legally married to my mother for 33 years ( I’m in my early 30”s) and he always talks smack about her ... (193 words)