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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2018 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I handle troublesome ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2278 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend had a son from a previous relationship. We have 2 children together now and one on the way. This ex of his won't let him see his other child, and talks a lot of nonsense about him on social media, whether it's directly or indirectly. I had just let things go out of ... (238 words)

I feel I owe this married man an apology

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2278 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts, I met this man sometime in 2015 when i was on a temporal job in another state in the country. He is Married with a son. When we first met, he was attracted to me and we pretty get along so well. He dropped hints about dating me but i didnt want to get involv... (755 words)

How do I get my life back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2280 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Husband found out I have been using tumblr for fandom stuff and threatened to smash my phone. He didn't understand what "reblogging" meant and thought that character pictures were actually real dudes. I'm not allowed to talk to "strange people on the internet" or "random ... (248 words)

21 and I've never dated or had a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2278 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not going to say that it's a *sad* truth as some people might think. Im 21 years old and have never ever had a boyfriend or went on a date. My parents are even shocked of this fact, and they think that im might be dating or being in a relationship ship secretly. I don't kn... (224 words)

Is it mean to ghost someone who is nice but you just don't want to see anymore?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2275 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - Would it be mean to ghost, a guy who treated you good for over six months, but it just isn't working for you, I don't want to cry when I break up with him in person, so I just want to block him, my girlfriend tells me, that be cruel,not giving him a reason, or a good bye, it ... (70 words)

Does he want me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2278 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya sorry if this is long I’ve been with my partner for 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter together we have had a few relationship problems this last few months such as our sex life has been non existent then I find porn on his phone which makes me insecure as we haven’t ... (199 words)

Is it normal to keep in touch with ex's now he's married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello My husband and I have been together for 11 months. Our relationship for the most part is very passionate and loving. We have had a few arguments but who doesn’t? Overall I love him a lot and want to spend my life with him There are a few things that bother me. One... (149 words)

Ideas for sex with a submissive man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2279 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! It's been a long time since I've been here. I've across a few new things. First off my boyfriend and I of 3 years broke up the day before new years. It's been hard. We've had sex since then. Honestly, we still love each other to death but our choice was mutual. Any... (209 words)

I just found out my brother is HIV positive and I'm extremely worried about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2282 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35 and my brother is 31. I found out last week that his chronic diarrhea was misdiagnosed as tropical sprue, but was actually HIV. I am from the caribbean so my family is still there, but I live abroad in the States. I have been for more than 10 years. My brother's d... (498 words)

Why does my partner bring up my ex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2255 days ago

19 January 2018 (M)

age 51-59 - Why does my partner bring up my ex? This will happen if she wishes to upset me in an arguement or even from right out of nowhere; which can be particularly problematic. I have told my partner that I really dont want to talk about her. I have reassured my partner; telling... (215 words)

I'm in the relationship because of obligation and chivalry. Should I give her another chance or end it for good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2279 days ago

19 January 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend on and off for over 3 years. In the beginning she was a work colleague I was hesitant to get with her as although we flirted, played about together and eventually slept together, I wasn't looking for commitment. Fast-forward through all the ... (222 words)

So Do I go to what broke me who I love or the new guy who has fallen for me completely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2279 days ago

19 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Never felt so confused in my life .. Where to begin .. I was with a guy for two years, absolutely head over heels we was very happy but our issues from past relationships soon cropped up, no excuse but this guy began messaging a lot of girls rumours of him going round... (554 words)