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Archived questions from: 1 January, 2018 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He used me then broke up with me. Should I ask him to give back the gifts I gave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2300 days ago

1 January 2018 (F)

age - Now my ex as of a few weeks before Christmas, I gave him,Christmas gifts, then the next day , it was over, haven't heard from him since, he didn't give me any gifts, my friends told me he should of given them back, cause he knew he was dumping me, what do you girls think, ... (162 words)

Why didn't my ex have the courtesy to tell me he was getting married and having a child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

1 January 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I could use some advice. I'm having a difficult time coping with my ex boyfriend getting married and having a daughter. He was married in August and continue to see me casually until one day I found out he was married with a daughter on the way. We have stopped ... (116 words)

My boyfriend suffers from ptsd. Do I give him ultimatums?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2300 days ago

1 January 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday i hoped i would see in the new year with my boyfriend but didnt , reason being he had been in hospital ( for a week ) over christmas because of his ptsd ( which i was aware of before we got together ) and was let out yesterday evening. He told me to go out with ... (433 words)

I'm attracted to his personality and not so much to his looks. Can a relationship work like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2294 days ago

1 January 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone! Can a relationship work on personality attraction alone l? I’ve met the most amazing guy I’ve quite possibly ever encountered before. We met in the gym where he works, I did NOT find him atttactive at all when I first met him. Then slowly as we began to know ... (289 words)

LDR boyfriend is pushing me away. Do I stay or end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2291 days ago

1 January 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship with him for 2 years now, but he left about a month ago to live overseas. He says he wants me there but makes no effort to get a job and when he is offered one and the pay is good, he doesn't want it because the status its too low and doesn't want ... (337 words)

He wants to get married and start a family, I want to break up for good but he's like an addiction that I can't shake off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2301 days ago

1 January 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been dating a man off and on for 3 years now. He wants to get married and start a family and I am the one who has major reservations. Our relationship has not been the most stable so until it is, marriage makes me nervous. I do love him. And I really want it to work. But ... (222 words)

Can you get pregnant the day before your period starts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

1 January 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - Is their any chance to get pregnency, on before day of my periods? Is it is safe sex?... (19 words)

I resent my stingy husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

1 January 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to a stingy husband and am begining to resent him. We both earn but he totally refuses to contribute towards my loan repayments for our house because its in my name. I had most of the furniture when we got married and a car so we didnt hve to buy. Now everything ... (173 words)

How do you deal with unrequited love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2297 days ago

1 January 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - I had asked this question earlier just to give a little background to my problem. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-started-with-her.html Anyway I was going to follow a lot of the advice and tread lightly with this girl. Problem is I was really infatuat... (196 words)

I have feelings for my cousin and so does my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2301 days ago

1 January 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - I have known my second cousin for years and never knew I will have a crush on him. He used to be my teacher and took tuition to him. My feeling grow stronger whenever I see him. He is a respectful person and also handsome (similar with Justin Bieber) ; My bestfriend also like ... (90 words)

I hate that my gay friends have been with girls before

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2297 days ago

1 January 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - i feel weird cuz all my gay friends have been with girls before or some sorta connection. I feel dumb and alone. At dinner last week we were talking and all 4 of them had sex or girlfriends at some time except me. in lgbt movies its the same thing the gay guy always have good ... (141 words)

My ex still loves me but I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2296 days ago

1 January 2018 (?) age 22-25 - I suddenly met my ex in a wedding a month ago. He still loves me the same and love me though he know I'm in a new relationship. He always treated me a way far better than my present one. I don't want to hurt anyone. But I'm stuckedin between two. Whom should I choose? It's r... (81 words)