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Archived questions from: 26 July, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He blows hot and cold. Should I tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

26 July 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - I really want to tell this guy how he makes me feel but I'm scared I'll scare him off because he is sometimes hot and cold with me... When we talk we connect although he asks me things about myself, when I ask him he doesn't reply, he continuously watches my social me... (62 words)

Aunt found our messages. Am I in trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - So i am in love with my first cousin. Me and him have been together for 3 months. His mom and my mom are sisters and no one knows that we love each other. Yesterday his mom read messages that we wrote and she basically knows that we have a thing. I really dont know what to do. ... (83 words)

Should my boyfriend accept his team leader's offer of money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend started his job about seven months ago and his team leader at work fancys him a bit but knows about me, however she's offered to give him 50 quid towards a pair of trainers, now to ms I feel he shouldn't except this offer because she fancies him but in his mind he ... (94 words)

My husband is always looking for an excuse to drink

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my husband is always looking for an excuse to drink when ever he gets back from work. He said drinking makes him relaxed I decided him to pick wine instead of beer. Because he already got beer belly coming out. Do you think this is the right choice? And he do have drinking ... (90 words)

I don't want a ring on my finger but I would like more affection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing my fella for 12 yrs and have to say we are not in love although I feel I'm more fond of him than he is of me! He is totally inscrutable and never reveals his feelings. He is very reliable and fab company. I would say we are in lust big time and yes that's fab ... (124 words)

How can I deal with her angry outbursts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

26 July 2017 (M)

age - My girlfriend seems to have a lot of repressed aggression. Every now and then it bubbles over. It can manifest in swearing, I mean real atypical cursing, and sometimes taking things out on inanimate objects like her sat nav being thrown across the car. Most of the time I can de... (120 words)

Why do I want him so much? With no cares about who gets hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2463 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - The below is a story about, love, betrayal, cheating, and fate... In order for you to understand my story, I have to take it back TO THE BEGINNING. 6 years ago I met my now ex-boyfriend. After a year of us dating, we both moved across the country and he got his dream job tr... (1488 words)

Married man who I was having an affair with refuses to leave me alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Aunts! I've had an affair with a married man for over a year now. At first, I was swept off my feet by this man, whom I later found out was married. However, I stayed as he narrated the stories of his failing marriage and his impending divorce . Since, even after a ... (195 words)

He walks out but swears he loves me. Please advise

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some help please,my boyfriend is living with me but he has left me 3 times now,the First and second time I begged his mother and sister to get him. He came home on both occasions but for some reason he's done it again only this time I've not contacted him. He's txt ... (184 words)

How is the best way to deal with social media and ex partners?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

26 July 2017 (F) age 36-40 - My partner and i separated about 4 weeks ago. We had been together 4 years. The break up was horrible. He called me one day at work told me he cheated on me then dumped me...i was in shock because i had no idea anything was wrong.im still hurting. Anyway immediately after the ... (172 words)

Is it too late to contact my ex? I shouldn't have let him go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age - Hi,just ended two year relationship, he was nice first but soon As he knew I fell in love, he changed became a jerk, I broke up with a guy, to be with him, a six month relationship, now he was so different, he treated me so special, I didn't know how to take it, I've always ... (126 words)

Worried about revealing my true sexuality

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

26 July 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been cross dressing for many years and it was more of a recreational bit of fun until a couple of years ago. I stopped doing it for ages but when my long term relationship broke down due to my girlfriend being unfaithful I couldn't resist starting again especially now ... (203 words)

First time sex was a disaster!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I tried sex for the first time I really like the guy and I really did want it, but when it came to it, it didn't feel good. First he wouldn't fit into me, then he started touching me which I barely felt and when he was finally inside me I didn't feel much and he slipped ... (116 words)

My boyfriend won't have sex with me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

26 July 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now so it is still pretty fresh. At first we never had problems with having sex and then the past few weeks I've noticed he just doesn't seem that interested. There would be small excuses from can't be bothered to the lube being ... (379 words)