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Archived questions from: 26 February, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it too soon to sleep with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I need your opinions and thank you in advance. I am 40 dating a guy who is 48 for 3 weeks. We have been on 16 dates already. I know it is too much with some standards but he is just head over heels for me and has told all his family and friends and he took me to a party where I ... (153 words)

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he didn't love me anymore. But I ... (540 words)

I'm scared to follow my dreams in case my past could be viewed as a scandal!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I married a man who is my mother's ex-boyfriend's younger brother. Let me explain. So my mother dated a guy for two years, ten+ years ago. I was 18/19 at the time. The man lived with us as a 'step-father'. I was never around due to college, a job, and social life. I called h... (673 words)

We both want to have sex but I'm not sure I am ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months and he has fingered me and I have given him a hand job. We've both considered having sex but I'm not sure if I'm ready. Sometimes I want to have sex and I feel confident but sometimes I get too scared I will get pregnant or get an ... (107 words)

Workplace problems... Did I deal with Jimmy in the right way? How do I handle the situation now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I've worked at 4 different job locations during my 8 years of working for this company. I've never really had "true friendship" with any of my co-workers because I was always the "new person" to join the facility. I came to this location about a year and a half ago and all ... (470 words)

Am I going through a mid-life crisis? I have everything going for me but I'm so unhappy and empty inside

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to get to the point- ever since I was 9 years old I have always wanted to be around people - I hate being alone and most people; the ones that know me well say that I'm never satisfied and I'm never happy. lately I feel like the rug has been pulled hnder me and life has ... (286 words)

Am I being paranoid or is this married guy trying to make a move on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2579 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this married guy I know, I always catch him looking at me then looking down when I catch him. I always got the impression he would actively try and avoid sitting next to me but he always sat straight across from me so he could see me. But more recently he has started to ... (243 words)

How should I deal with moving into an adult relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - There's this one boy who I have known since I was 4 and we've always been good friends and ever since we were about 15 we've been very flirty and make jokes about messing about with each other, sex and stuff like that. Last year he got together with one of my friends and lasted ... (188 words)

Date expressed a racial preference and it doesn't sit welll

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for the last few weeks. He fawns over me, is the harmless geeky sort, does everything for me like buy me flowers and get me coffee and text me constantly. He hit on me first and I was surprised he was so enthusiastic. I'm not even sure if I want a ... (269 words)

New man doesn't want me to go to fetish party

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age - I arranged to go to kinky, fetish-scene party while single but now have new boyfriend who doesn't want me to go. Am I being unreasonable still wanting to go, even though he doesn't like it, and is not into that. He thinks I will be looking for someone who shares the same fan... (58 words)

Can anything be saved in my marriage. If so, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (M)

age - I need help.. my wife of 33 years has slept in separate room for 5 years.. she works but dosent contribute to mortgage, and all her income goes into her own bank. Mine goes into joint account, and she buys things out of this account. We have no physical intimacy. I do all ... (198 words)

He's not telling me the truth. Do I bail before it's too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now and we just stopped using condoms a month ago(we got tested first), a day ago I was at his place cleaning up and I found 2 condoms in his jeans,now I'm wondering who else he's sleeping with. I also found 2 pairs of ladies ... (115 words)

Dental hygene is holding me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Due to childhood problems, I have a major phobia of the dentist... and therefore never been... also due to those reason as problems, my dental hygiene is horrible :( I know it is! I am on track to sort them out. The problem is; I put off ever meeting guys who ask me ... (153 words)

I care my girl is letting herself go. How can I help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf been together 4 years. Over the years she has let herself go. I have been encouraging her to keep in shape for over a year. She has been lazy and eats junk all the time. I like to see her happy so if she likes eating, i don't say much. Apart from let's go do some ... (340 words)

I do not enjoy being 30 pounds overweight. How do I come to terms with the fact that the medication I must take is also making it much harder to lose weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - A combination of menopause and necessary medication is making it extremely hard for me to lose weight . The medication is actually what caused the weight gain and through working with my dr I did try alternatives but nothing else seemed to work for my chronic conditio... (123 words)

How can I stop comparing myself to everyone else? How can I become Assertive and less insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm single woman in my early thirties that on the outside most people would say (kind-generous -attractive- nice). My problem is - I'm very insecure ( I worked and work so much on outer appearance ) that I lack self confidence. I can't say no (even when I'm unhappy especial... (308 words)

He's been flirting with me, but after seeing him out with another woman I'm not sure how he really feels!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy nearly two years ago. Did not like him to begin. Then started to get to know him and he started flirting he gave me his number. Cutting a long story short, we have been talking for many weeks and my feelings have started to grow. ... (326 words)