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Archived questions from: 20 February, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do I allow him to treat me like trash, throw me out and then let him back into my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

20 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I would appreciate some outside perspective on the situation I'm currently dealing with. I started dating someone last year that I had known for about 10 years though granted we were mostly only acquaintances during that time with limited interactions. I fell head ove... (698 words)

I don't want to hurt my girlfriend but after 3 years I am not sure that I want to be with her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

20 February 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - How can i break up with my girlfriend? Im not sure if i even want to. We have been together for three years. We have been having problems recently. She told me she was not sure where we were going, that we were stuck in the same old patterns doing the same thing etc. and we ... (383 words)

I'm a virgin and a little afraid of sex but I'm worried this guy will want it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

20 February 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a virgin at the age of 21 and always feel embarrassed talking about it. I've never done anything with a guy... But I've met a guy and we get on well... however I'm afraid of having sex. I don't know why. I just think he will just want that. And I might feel used.. ... (158 words)

I feel like my boyfriend is making me chose between him and my daughter

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

20 February 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost six years and my daughter recently moved out to go to college and tends to come home in the weekends. There have been several occasions where my boyfriend has made comments about my daughter getting a job where she goes to school s... (145 words)

We were on a break for 2 weeks and he got a woman pregnant. I dont't know how I feel about this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

20 February 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi my question is that I have been seeing a guy casually for about 8 months now. We had quite a big argument about 6 weeks ago and there were was no contact for 2 weeks, then he got in touch, so we started talking again. Whilst we were having no contact, it wasn't cle... (363 words)

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

20 February 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful, like he makes me really l... (263 words)

What are the protocols about posting and commenting on the pictures of others on social media? Or am I just being crassly controlling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

20 February 2017 (M)

age - I am coming to social media rather late in life and am confused by the protocols that seem to liberally litter posts with kisses and hearts. So when my girlfriend posts a pic of an event she attended where I wasn't present and someone responds "...great to see you again lo... (83 words)

I don't in the slightest trust this artist who she met for lunch recently . Am I just insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

20 February 2017 (M)

age - I am engaged to be married (2nd time for both of us). Because of her work my wife to be has developed many male friends/acquaintances including some who have been keen to take it further than platonic. She presents very innocently of all this and was in the past talked ... (177 words)

Should I ask if we are boyfriend and girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

20 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy I met on tinder since December. We seem to get on really well and I feel that we always have good dates. After the 10th date, we slept together and have slept together a few times since. We have now probably been on 15 dates, did Valentine's Day ... (154 words)

Is he just being a generous best friend, who loves my company? Or is he in love with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2590 days ago

20 February 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Good morning Aunties, I have a mighty problem I need help with. I am a bisexual man, 33 years of age. I am attracted to this 19 year old guy. He says he doesn't love me as a lover but as a friend. He says he is Christian and that his parent would never allow him to be in... (392 words)

Is it true that men simply don't want to see my body type, over weight but not huge, or is my body type just boring to them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

20 February 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf looks at porn with the women who are much thinner than me and also those who are extremely overweight . I am overweight but not huge like the bbw porn he likes and he says he doesn't have any porn of women like me because it's hard to find and all either one extreme ... (119 words)

Did I just get friend-zoned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

20 February 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - So ive been talking to this girl , she Has trust issues from her past relationship she told me but before We texted each other goodnight she told me this Thanks for being the bestest friend.. did I just get friendzoned ??... (42 words)