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Archived questions from: 14 May, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Who do I choose? My best friend or my crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

14 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - there is a boy in my class and i really and i really like him but i know my friend does too. i know if i try telling him i love him then my friend will get mad at me and fall out with me. who do i choose my best freind or the boy i love... (61 words)

To her it was just a kiss. Should I talk to her about it? The kiss made a big impact on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

14 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hung out with a good friend last week, and I ended up with my first kiss which lead to some more kissing as well. Granted, a lot of alcohol was involved, and we both knew something may happen if we spent the night drinking. Nonetheless, we had fun, but we didn't do much else ... (269 words)

Can I keep talking to him, even though I now know that he is not interested? Would that be too awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

14 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so I had a huge crush on a friend of mine. I would talk to him about everyday, and it made me feel jittery and alive. I had dreamt about him near nightly, and felt nearly in love. He decided to talk to someone who we both know, and told them he isn't interested in wome... (135 words)

The spark has gone. If we do split up then how will that affect our 4 year old daughter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

14 May 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Since the birth of our daughter, 4 years ago, my partner and I have drifted apart, we still enjoy one another's company and get along but there is no spark between us. Sex and even intimacy is non existent. We both agree that we love each other but are just not in love with one ... (110 words)

How do I turn down men who want my number?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

14 May 2016 (F) age 26-29 - This happens all the time. I talk to a man on the bus, in class or in a checkout line or wherever and they want my number. So then I have to awkwardly turn him down bc I have a boyfriend or if I don't, I have to make one up. Even more awkward is when someone who knows me opens ... (139 words)

Why am I selfish because I want romance but no sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

14 May 2016 (F) age 26-29 - I think I am asexual. Now I had sex before and I didn't like it. But that's the problem, I hear "you did it before so you must've liked it" and "you just weren't w the right person" no. I just really hate sex and oral. But I like dating and romance. But how's come you can have ... (86 words)

Too short to be attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

14 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My bf n i have been dating for almost 4 yrs now. I sometimes fear that he doesn't find me attractive bc of my height. Hes 5 11 n im 4 11. Even though ge nvr brings up height as an issue for us i feel like im too short for him n just not sexy enough for him. He finds women ... (248 words)

Am I in the wrong for being jealous of his best female friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

14 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for a little over 1 year. We literally fight every day over the same shit. He has a friend thats a girl that he calls sis that he supposedly has known for 20 years, and she has tried to break him and I up and so I told him he needs to get rid of her, ... (260 words)

Why do intense passionate affairs always come to an end?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

14 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a married woman whos been having an affair with a single man for about two years now...I know its wrong, but he's so good looking, interesting, kind, and really seems to care about what I have to say...And the sex is Amazing.....my best friend who knows about this affair ... (152 words)

I don't know how to let down my emotional barrier.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2898 days ago

14 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi so you're probably thinking how couhaveld trust issues with guys I'm too young or whatever. I've never had a boyfriend but I've seen those close to me being taken for a mug on a relationship including my mum. So now whenever I find myself getting close to a guy where we ... (242 words)