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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I should go at all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So I really liked this guy, who at first liked me too, but who now has feelings for my best friend instead. My best friend isn't into him in that way because she has someone she already really likes but on my end it still kind of hurts and is weird since he used to interact... (240 words)

Why did my boyfriend tell me he was with his mom all day when he actually went out without her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) age 30-35 - Hello. I need your help in figuring out my boyfriend's actions today. Here is what happened. I texted him this morning at around 11. I said "good morning" to him like usual. But there was no reply. Usually he replies pretty quickly. I then sent him another couple of te... (464 words)

Is it because I'm telling the truth? My controlling husband does not like what I've been saying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband who is very controlling turned me against members of my family because he obviously is jealous, now that I have got in touch with these people again after 3 years of not speaking. My husband does not like it but I am much stronger now and have told him a few home ... (91 words)

Am I being reasonable or unreasonable? Needy or too needy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I being too needy? I just want to know if I'm being unreasonable. My boyfriend is a great guy and always makes time for his work, hobbies, friends, parents, siblings and one or twice a week me. However my precence, to him, counts as quality time which is often shared with ... (128 words)

Is my nudity, inside my own home, in front of my 44 year old stepdaughter, OK or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

10 May 2016 (M)

age - My wife and I are in our late 60's - just average people except that we like to be nude at home when it is warm enough. Now my 44 year old step daughter is living with us and strongly objects to me being naked even though it is my house. Her mother - my wife - seems to be on... (96 words)

What happened to 'live and let live' ? Why is 'slut shaming' and misogyny becoming prevalent in society today?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age - Maybe some of you remember a book called " Backlash " by Pulitzer winner Susan Faludi, in which she argued for the existence of a media driven " backlash " aimed to invalidate the feminist progresses of the 70's. Now, I don't know if Faludi was right and I don't care, th... (483 words)

Can my cheating be condoned? Should I feel guilt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my current situation... I am a married 35 year old with 2 kids and I am currently cheating happily. I know how it sounds but hear me out. I have been in my relationship with my husband for 12 years. I like to think we are good parents, we both work full time and ju... (521 words)

What age is too old to have a baby? 40? 41? 42? Or beyond?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Is 40 (me) and 43 (my husband) too old to have a baby? We both have kids from previous relationships but I would really love for us to have a child together. He has hinted that he thinks we're too old. I don't. We have talked briefly about it at the start of our relationship, ... (64 words)

Not sure if this is a crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, so I've recently become sort of friends with this guy in one of my college classes. We make each other laugh and he's just a great guy to talk to and be around. I'm having feelings and I don't know what kind of feelings they are. Either I'm crushing on him or just want to ... (318 words)

My Landlord's Children Are Rude To Me - How To Deal With This?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been living as a lodger for the past couple of months. I knew the landlord prior to moving in as I rented from him before. It's a good place but two of his kids (who are about 10 I think) are very rude to me and I can continually loudly overhear them saying stuff abo... (689 words)

Rekindling the spark in a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are in a pretty nice and cordial relationship. It has been a long time that we have been together. We both are working and successful. I was a complete nerd throughout my student life and never been in a serious relationship before. Since I hail from India, ... (437 words)

Insensitive, thoughtless partner that doesn't care about special occassions. Calling a woman as materialistic when confronted him about his ways.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - If I can get back to the times that i can run away from my partner, i will. I am 30 years old and my partner is 40 yrs old. I did not imagine I will be treated like this by a man i am living with for almost 8years. We are not married but since we have a 6yr old daughter and a ... (495 words)

Should I tell her I slept with our friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

10 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello my aunts! Im back again. You guys gave me great advice about how to handle my bad situation with my not so faithfull wife. I followed it and it worked out. The only downside is she kicked me out. which means less time with my babies before I deploy in three weeks but all ... (970 words)

Paralyzed by fear of rejection - How can I get my life back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts and Uncles: I’m in kind of a bad way. For the past year, I’ve been living in a constant state of self-imposed fear and intimidation that has confined me to home, when I really should be out there trying to make a better life for myself. I’m not someone who has a lo... (280 words)

Is there a grain of truth in the feedback she gave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

10 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - The other day a couple of my close female friends were telling me about how girls have different opinions of people than they show in person. I was curious and asked what they thought about me in the thoughts they keep to themselves. After pressing them a bit, One ... (340 words)

How will I handle these delicate decisions about inviting and seating guests at our wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got engaged yesterday. We had talked about it for a while before hand so I knew it was going to happen... I just didn't know when! Anyhow my fiance and I had just booked a months holiday to California so we were going to secretly elope in the Nevada desert while there ... (179 words)

How should I deal with his problematic nature? I never expected this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, 2 years ago you helped me a lot to clarify my relationship with my ex boyfriend. We split up, I felt really happy because it was the right thing to do for my phychological security's sake. The problem now is I am having a very similar situation in my... (1587 words)

I need help to understand and untangle all that so upset me before we broke up, after 6 years together. Can anyone help please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I hope someone will be able to give me advice on this which is breaking my heart. I have been with my partner almost 6 years and he has left me. I came from a marriage of 20 years where i found my husband in bed with another woman, so to of got together at the time was mass... (900 words)

Worried I don't care who I go with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

10 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. So this might be really strange because I don't even understand this. But im confused about my sexual orientation. Ever since I was young I feel like I was more sexualy charged then my peers. Since 11 I have been masturbating 2-3 times a day. I almost never miss this cyc... (442 words)

He can't break her hold

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) age 36-40 - Why can't a married man give up his long term mistress? Even when he has tried more than once to stop the affair due to guilt and fear of being caught? Why can he NOT let her go? Despite so many attempts? His mistress has told him she does not want to let him go. That s... (166 words)

Our relationship is great, except when he comments on the appearance of other girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

10 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi.. Um I have very low self esteem and suffered from depression since i was very young. I'm in a relationship, and honestly, its great.. Apart from the fact where he compliments other girls sayong they are hot or have big boobs . This really effects my self esteem as i ... (159 words)