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Archived questions from: 1 May, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I being paranoid about this? He keeps in touch with each ex. But now he wants to have lunch with his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Please help me out. I've been going out with my bf for 8months. He is slightly older and we met online. Before we met and started a relationship, we chatted quite a bit online. During this time he met up with his ex and they slept together. However, since... (363 words)

Holiday with others and my Bf. How can I get over my fears and actually enjoy this holiday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really worried about a group holiday that my boyfriend has set up with his friends and their partners. In August, 10 of us are going on a joint birthday holiday for 3 of us the people. It's my boyfriend's birthday, and then one of the couples share a birthday within 3... (433 words)

Is it wrong to screen out women as potential partners due to their past sexual history and how many partners they have had?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 2893 days ago

1 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I spent a lot of my teens having low self-esteem and have very little dating experience. I had a girlfriend in high school. Still a virgin even though I have done everything else. I used a lot of that time to make sure I have an amazing future and improved myself in every way ... (219 words)

Is he just leading me on? Is he really in love with me? Or is it just sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

1 May 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm bi not out! Please read full story I started seeing this guy in September 2015 and it was great but after a couple of weeks he started to tell me he had feelings for me. I continued to hide back my feelings and made him continue looking for other guys cause I ... (548 words)

If our LDR is really over then why is he still responding to my messages?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, and thanks in advance for your advice you are able to offer. I was together with my partner for 16 months. It was a long distance thing, and we saw each other most weekends. Were have been apart for six weeks new, he finished it with me. Since then we have had a bit o... (221 words)

Why did this guy flirt with me when it turns out now that he had no honorable intentions towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a little complicated, so please bare with me. I have gotten myself into the same situation twice with the same family. I moved in to my new place in July 2015, I met my next door neighbour, an elderly lady. She helped me out, I helped her out, I went round for tea. ... (369 words)

Do his actions suggest that he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 13 and my crush and I room windows face each other so like everyone I look out of mine I see him looking out of his and like he'll close it when he see me looking at him and he keeps doing it My question is: does that mean he like me??????... (66 words)

Is this primarily a health issue for me, not ED, or is it because I am feeling as if my wife is less attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

1 May 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - for the past year or so ive noticed that my sex life has been getting worse. Embarrassingly enough i cant keep an erection for too long during sex. Its weird because i can get an erection no problem, maintain it no problem, get a blowjob and finish easily but as soon as i... (235 words)

I feel so ugly that I cry myself to sleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I need advice , I'm 21 and im getting married in 5 weeks and I feel so incredibly ugly. I have very low confidence to a stage where i can't get out of a car unless there is no one there and I cant seem to get rid of this feeling. I have never felt beautiful or good looking I've ... (542 words)

How can I move on? He had multiple social media accounts and took drugs and smoked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Help me, I can't stop thinking of my ex and its making me really sad. I ended the relationship 2 weeks ago today (Sunday) because my mum wanted me to. He said he wanted to speak and then he started blanking me and I'm really confused. Today I was searching for him on facebook ... (225 words)

My boyfriend doesn't have respect for my religious beliefs!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Dear Cupid! I have been dating this wonderful guy for about 8 months now and I am worried about one thing . . . . he doesn't respect my religious beliefs. He says he's not an atheist, but he also says he doesn't really believe in anything. I have respected this ... (360 words)

Why is my partner dreaming about sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my other half have been together for 6 years, the last couple of months its become a little rocky. we haven't had sex in around 5 months. a couple of nights I have woken up to him touching me and kissing me. HES ASLEEP, only problem is when I try to have sex with him ... (124 words)

What should I do to prevent him from disturbing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

1 May 2016 (F) age 30-35 - I’m 25plus and my guy whom am dating 30plus we both love each other so much and there was one of his best male friend he introduced me to, we both went to his house together but after that day my guy thought he is dating him secretly or we’ve known each before i met him.... (164 words)

Is it better to just ignore his text or pretend I never received it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out on Friday night with some friends and their friends (whom I had never met). One of the guys asked me for my phone number before I left. He knows I don't have a boyfriend. I gave it to him but I'm not interested at all romantically, although he'd be fun to have as ... (120 words)

Is breaking up our friendship my only option? Or is there a better way to deal with this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles some friend and parenting advice please. I have a friend called T who lives a few houses down from me in the same street. We have been friends for a couple of years and our daughters play together. Recently things have been difficult. Since T's daught... (269 words)

Why would my therapists become cold and distant towards me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

1 May 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been in therapy for a 1 1/2. I've had a psychologist and a family therapist who I've grown close to which has given me strength to get to where I am now. However, I've had to be passed onto a psychotherapist because I was having problems they couldn't help me with and... (335 words)