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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How soon is too soon to meet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2696 days ago

5 December 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - We are talking online, we have many common interests, even if we are aiming for different jobs etc. We live about 2 hours away from each other and have never met in person. However, we started talking about 2 months ago and speak every day, and flirt a little. When would y... (73 words)

Could his tongue be different?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2695 days ago

5 December 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - This may sound a bit of a strange thing to say but is it possible for people to have big tongues and this would affect them kissing. I've just started seeing this man and when we kissed it felt like he had a massive tongue which made kissing a bit strange. i dont generally see ... (95 words)

'I have given that threesome thing a thought.'

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2681 days ago

5 December 2016 (M) age 36-40 - Hello. Long story short. I'm divorced and I started an affair with a colleague. She's young and energetic. She once suggested me to bring a close friend of hers -whom I know personally quite well and is like a friend to me - into our sexual relation and I couldn't accept the ... (222 words)

Told him to forget it - he's married. Now I've change my mind

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2693 days ago

5 December 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, an old acquaintance, we coincidentally met in a new town, and had sex for two nights. We spent the 3days hanging out together. We parted as we went back to our respective towns. He called me for a chat everyday, claiming that he missed me. On the 4th day, I told him ... (213 words)

Lack of confidence has put sex on the shelf

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2693 days ago

5 December 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy now for about 5 months and everything is going really well; however I'm feeling incredibly guilty at the moment because, although we have been intimate a few times, we haven't had sex yet (this is when is starts to get uncomfortable for me, so please bear ... (208 words)

Suspicious my boyfriend might be talking to other women

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2693 days ago

5 December 2016 (F) age 41-50 - I live with my boyfriend. I noticed his battery lost 10 % battery power overnight. Is this possible when you do not use the phone? I ask because it has happened twice this week. He said it just fell off the charger. It has never happened before. But this week it has happened ... (258 words)

Please advise me. Trying hard to meet the right type

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2694 days ago

5 December 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 30 year old man, and it's the time of year when I see loved-up couples enjoying themselves and families getting together. I have the family part at Christmas (always enjoy that). I have Asperger's Syndrome but that's not the main issue here - the main issue is about d... (530 words)

Anxious that my size will put him off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2693 days ago

5 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, a few months back I met a man online who I immediately hit it off with. As a little bit of backstory, I'm an avid player of online games and we encountered each other over a shared Teamspeak (similar to Skype in a sense). Over time we started splitting from t... (348 words)

Why does guy B act different when shy guy A is around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2693 days ago

5 December 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - SHY Guy A has a crush on me but guy B always try to flirt with me , teases me and try to get my attention by talking loud especially around guy A . I have noticed that guy B 's behaviour makes guy A very uncomfortable When guy A is not around then guy B still flirts but less . ... (124 words)

My relationship is really, really troubled!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2693 days ago

5 December 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - hey yesterday my partner started an argument about me spending £3 on a game i knew it was a pointless argument which is why walked away i stayed in another room away from her she was adamant she was right to shout at me for this and said she was not going to apologise so then ... (268 words)

Why does my wife come home wearing different colored panties? Is she fooling around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

5 December 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - So I have a strange feeling that my wife may be fooling around. Whenever she goes by her GF place, she always comes home with different panties on. Am I wrong for having these thoughts that there could be something here?... (41 words)

I just found out my boyfriend's best female friend does porn to pay for college

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2679 days ago

5 December 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriends best friend is a girl which I've always been ok with because she was dating one of his friends and my boyfriend says that even though she is attractive, he doesn't find her attractive. however I've recently found out that she does porn to pay her student loans and ... (106 words)

Is it over or not? Should I text her something? Try calling again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

5 December 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know if it's over or not. She's 35. We met about a month ago and hit it off really well on our first date, so we've been seeing each other regularly since then. She recently invited me to see her at a dance competition. I met her friends there as well. Howeve... (296 words)

Exactly what is it he is asking, when he asks, "what do you want?"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2696 days ago

5 December 2016 (F) age 41-50 - I really really really like this guy. We've been seeing each other and talking and everything is wonderful. He asked me what I want a few times. In fact he said he wants me to think of what is it I want in the next few weeks..And I have no idea what he is asking me?? But if it ... (123 words)