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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm scared at the thought of sex and being vulnerable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2687 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I'll be 18 in a few months and whilst I've been somewhat intimate with a guy, I've never had sex. Partly because I'm waiting for the right guy and the right moment and partly because I'm just scared. Im not even sure what I'm scared of. The actual sex doesn't scare me, but I ... (225 words)

I'm looking for red flags where there are none!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2687 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Please bear with me- I know I sound quite petulant in some of my actions, but I'm trying to own up to it and fix what I've been doing. I've never really had a successful relationship. I end up dating a guy and by 3 months it's always over. These guys had little considera... (513 words)

From where do I get any confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

4 December 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, Please please help me. I am a very very quiet person and keep to myself a lot. It takes a lot of time for me to get comfortable with anybody. I also get nervous in presence of people I don't know well. I started working at a new place a few months back and ... (173 words)

I sometimes think sex is a chore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are having sex issues and it's really damaging our relationship. He seems to get an erection as soon as he wakes up, but I'm so groggy and tired that I'm not in the mood at that time. I'm also seem to have lost any desire to have sex. It's not like I've lost ... (126 words)

Uncertain about my forthcoming marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

4 December 2016 (F) age 30-35 - im confuse with what i really feel and what should i do with my fiance. i doubt my thought and perception about him. sometimes i feel hes the right man for my life and future family. the other time i cant stand when we are together because we often get in arguments which is ... (892 words)

Supporting my sick friend but I'm getting run down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to see if someone has advice on how to get my self esteem up and stop listening to people's negative opinion. I come from a broken home (my dad was abusive to my mom) their still married it was an arranged marriage so long story short there has never been love th... (366 words)

He's a stay-at-home guy. I'm not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - So i have been with my parter 4 years lived together for 3, generally its all very positive we spend a lot of time together and have a great connection. Hes funny and caring and we get on so well but there are somethings that i worry about in terms of spending the rest of our ... (439 words)

How should I approach this issue? I feel that my wife is ashamed of me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

4 December 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my wife since 2001 (15 years now). One thing that has always bothered me is how while I introduce her to all of my friends I only get to meet some of hers. She is a lot more social than I am and has a lot larger social circle, but also she meets a lot ... (791 words)

Was this meaningless or is J trying to get me to notice her in some way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

4 December 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a friend who lives abroad and we talk a lot on Facebook. I went over there to visit her and met her friend who didn't speak much English (codename J). We were all out together and had a good time, but the language barrier could be an issue. I spoke to my friend on Fac... (121 words)

How can this be resolved? I don't want to be a nag but I do want to be told I'm sexy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes I like to make an effort in the bedroom and get new lingerie or something that I think is sexy. My guy just takes it off immediately without saying anything. I want to figure out a way to get my guy to communicate that he appreciates the effort I put in but I feel i... (178 words)

A brief thing with a colleague ended. Am I over reacting - should I be feeling so guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago I had a brief thing with a colleague and friend which ended a bit badly because he led me on and it's still kind of awkward but getting back to normal. He has a good friend at work, and so do I, and we all kind of hang around together as a 4, have been o holiday ... (313 words)

My mother in law always sides with her son regardless of how badly he treats me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently had an argument with my mother in law my severely disabled son attacked me , he pulled my hair and my head back and forth several times, I now have terrible pains on my back and neck. I can cope with that but during the attack my husband kept saying it was my f... (496 words)

I'm struggling to leave a bad relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I'd like some advice.This is probably all going to sound ridiculous but here goes. I am stuck in a bad relationship it has been bad since the very beggining my partner has done terrible things to me emotionally and physically and I've always been unhappy but kind of ... (506 words)

Should I meet up to talk to him after he said he didn't want to be with me anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

4 December 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - I was with this boy for a few months and he basically said that he's changed so doesn't want to be with me. I dunno if I should go meet up and talk or to just let him go. I've never loved someone as much as I love him. He is my true love and he has helped me through so much ... (94 words)