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Am I just her fallback guy?

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8 May 2015 (M age 26-29 - So I'll keep this short and sweet. Am I just her fallback? I have been hanging out with a good friend of mine who usually calls me to hang out and go drink with her. We often do dinner together etc.... Then one day out of the blue she stops talking to me entirely. I fin... (186 words

I now try to avoid her. Would it be wrong to ignore my co-worker when she says 'hi' to me at work?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 944 days ago

8 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - One of my co worker pointed out that I had put on weight in front of other 2 co workers that she works with on her overnight shifts. Then she was like ``Canadians don't want to be told ``with smile on her face. Then she had the nerve to ask me if I was still wearing the same ... (444 words

I hated my job so I quit and now my husband is very unhappy with me

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8 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - hello everyone , it's been a while since I have been here.... I have got married recently and I was so happy to finally find the man of my dreams ... but couples' real life is a entire different thing that what I've expected... We have money difficulties, and I have been unem... (172 words

My guy never wants sex yet he's always using porn. Is it ok for me to cheat?

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8 May 2015 (F age 36-40 - Hello well i love sex who doesn't. MY MAN that's who we never have sex his always tired body hurts not to mention he doesn't take any notice when i dress up get my hair and nails done.when I'm out he is constantly watching porn like all the time even when I'm another room i ... (274 words

I end it but then take him back. I'm tired of playing this game!

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8 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - I am living a very unhealthy relationship, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, he is with me but he is not! he is here but he is not ! Our relationship was great during the first 8 months, but since 3 months he became another person! And he proclaims that he hasn’... (672 words

If we can't be honest then why are we dating?

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8 May 2015 (F age 30-35 - So I have been seeing this guy for a few months and things are okay. He seems to do more with his friends then with me. We won't talk or text for a full day then out of the blue he'll text me and want to hang out. We'll hang out then he'll casually throw in something about his ... (202 words

Am I too young for the girl I think I love

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8 May 2015 (M age 18-21 - Basically I'm a teenage lad, and I don't want people to just brush this off because I'm so young. I've recently broken up with my girlfriend of 2 years, because I cheated, for the SECOND time. We first started dating and everything was fine, about 9 months into the relationship ... (424 words

An I over-reacting? My boy friend wants to spend some quality time with each of his children.

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8 May 2015 (F age 36-40 - Ok so I really need some advice... I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and he has two kids ages 12 and 10 from a previous marriage... he's a wonderful father and that's one of the many reasons I fell in love with him, well anyways we usually do everything to... (209 words

Part of me wants to be with her, and the other part of me doesn't want to mess up our current relationship as friends. What do I do?

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8 May 2015 (M age 18-21 - Hey guys (and gals). Short sweet and to the point. I've known this girl for a pretty long time, and we're awesome friends. We make eachother happy all the time, and even cuddle and shit like that. But... I've been caught up in having romantic feelings for her, and I dont known ... (158 words

I feel like my boyfriend is crossing boundaries in helping his female friend. Do I have a right to be concerned?

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8 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - Here's my situation. My boyfriend has been helping his female friend for the past week or so because she is going through a break up and child custody issues. Which is fine except I feel like he's crossing boundaries a little bit. He's been talking to her everyday. He gav... (179 words

How do I step out of my S and M past and into a vanilla engagement with the woman I love?

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8 May 2015 (M age 22-25 - So the problem is I'm trying to change my whole way of life for this woman I'm in love with. She's everything I could ever ask for but she's nothing like my old life. Before I started dating, let's call her X, before I started dating X i was in a lot of Bdsm S and M relation... (192 words

Is it inappropriate for my boyfriend to give his number to other women?

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8 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to continuously accept other girls numbers and/or give his number out to other women? I'm in a long term relationship and I've noticed that my boyfriend has done this several times through out the course of our relationship. ... (193 words

Our three-year anniversary is a week from now and I need some ideas!

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8 May 2015 (M age 22-25 - I need some ideas for a 3 year anniversary date and possibly a gift I could make for my girlfriend. I spoil her endlessly year round because she is my princess and when things like anniversaries come up I like to come up with more memorable dates and gifts than just expensive ... (87 words

I know she loves me, but she doesn't show the affection I'd like her to!

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8 May 2015 (M age 22-25 - Alright, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over 2 years with like 2 little breaks thrown in. Anyway the problem is that I find her to be really under affectionate. I am a very affectionate person I like the kisses and I love yous and the handholding ... (155 words

His behavior toward my belongings was vindictive and unstable. I think I am being emotionally abused!

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8 May 2015 (F age 36-40 - I think I am being emotionally abused. I have been on and off again with my boyfriend of 2 years. He's acted out , mostly when drunk. I have gotten really mad, broken up with him twice, and he always begs forgiveness , promises to change and then acts out in another way to ... (364 words

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