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Why do I eventually lose interest in men I am too shy to approach?

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7 May 2015 (F age 36-40 - I have this strange repetitive pattern and I'm trying to make sense of it.. Basically, I tend to start fancying a man, am too shy to approach them but i think about them for ages… then after a time the desire goes away.. Can you explain a rational for this repetitive beh... (64 words

My ex makes me doubt myself and feel worthless, but I still have to see him because of our child!

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7 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - I have recently came out of a five year relationship and we have a child together. However we came to an arrangment of him having our child, but lately he turns up whenever he feels like it and chooses the days that suit him and not me. I don't understand why he can't be civil ... (242 words

I'm pregnant and my partner would rather masturbate and watch porn then have sex with me

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7 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - Hello, well... This feels very awkward for me. I've always been someone who figured things out on her own. I'm to the point of breaking that I turn to you all. I'm engaged to a great (or at least good) man. I'm also pregnant with a 7 year old. Now my past has been very da... (331 words

Why does my ex-boyfriend think he can have it both ways?

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7 May 2015 (F age 41-50 - Why does my ex-boyfriend think he can have it both ways??He is still calling on occasion which after the phone calls I only feel worse and now he wants to get together for sex. I admit I was weak and suggested it and we did where I spent the night. He told me he still loved ... (252 words

My conceited narcissistic boyfriend keeps putting me down and I lost all my motivation!

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7 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone, I have been in a relationship for 2 years and not so long ago I realised how conceited and a narcissist my boyfriend is!he is always praising himself and how good at work he is and how he is being praised at work,I mean it's one thing sharing but it's other th... (235 words

How to deal with being completely alone?

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7 May 2015 (M age 26-29 - That's basically my situation. I feel like I pretty much have nobody. I'm sure it's partly my fault, but there are other factors that make it difficult for me to really get out there and socialize. For one, I don't even have a car right now (and probably won't any time soon, as ... (553 words

If he announces he just wants a romp with no sex, would that be a deal-breaker?

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7 May 2015 (M age 26-29 - I know there has been one or two similar posts, but I would really appreciate negative or positive reponses on the following, from females or males who have experience in this. You meet a guy you think is cute at a party, bar etc, get on really well with him, maybe cuddles ... (134 words

My ex dumped me for another women. What can I do to stop thinking about the situation & being jealous of her?

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7 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - My ex fell out with me and dumped me for another woman who is still a friend of mine on Facebook. I know he was seeing her before we fell out - hence the argument - although she always maintained she didn't know we were still together. However, not wanting to seem bitter o... (220 words

Was I wrong to send his Mom flowers? My Bf's family treat poorly and bully me.

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7 May 2015 (F age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship,three years. my boyfriend's family hates me, no overplay on the word, hate; believe me, I wish I was. His sisters bully me at every opportunity they get. BTW, I am not young, I am in my 50's. I have no family other than my father who is in... (230 words

Do you think A's intentions are towards me are likely to lead to where?

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7 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - Ok, I'm not sure where to start here but please bare with me. I have been in an emotionally abusive/controlling/difficult relationship for 6yrs. I have tried to separate from my husband several times, I don't love him, I am not happy with him. He is so paranoid and con... (584 words

My Boyfriend does not want to kiss. How can I resolve this with him?

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7 May 2015 (F age 30-35 - My Boyfriend of 2 years does not like kissing and gets annoyed if I try to discuss it with him. We were about to have sex and I upfront asked him what is it about it he doesn't like. He then refused to have sex with me or discuss it and told me I had 'pissed him off' by askin... (317 words

Am I being paranoid? Why doesn't my serious boyfriend of almost 1 year invite me to hang out with his coworkers?

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7 May 2015 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Am I being paranoid? My boyfriend told me his workplace recently started a series of company outings, paid for by the company to boost morale, such as movies, baseball games, dinners, etc. However, significant others are not covered nor invited (even if the... (1315 words

How can I stop feeling weird around my dad?

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7 May 2015 (F age 18-21 - I feel weird saying this but I feel very weird around my dad for some reason. I am a 17 year old female and I have lived with my father since I was about 10. My mother is unfortunately very mentally unstable, which is why I do not live with her. Back to the problem ... (478 words

How do I tell my father to stay out of my business and let me live my life?

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7 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - Hi everyone hope I can get some advice tonight. I am a full time student and I live with my father who is retired. I moved in with him approximately 9 months ago because his residence is very close to my campus. I don't kmow how to say this without sounding rude but my fat... (280 words

Is our relationship normal? Are other people's relationships like this?

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7 May 2015 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing my partner for nearly 3 years now and although we've had problems I think he loves me, he tells me he does all the time. He's been mean to me and done some horrible things but now he's very sweet and nothing but lovely to me. The problem is that he used ... (477 words

How can I saw no without causing offence? Should family be putting this pressure on me, hinting that they want to come to stay?

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7 May 2015 (F age 41-50 - I broke up with my partner and live alone. I am not lonely and am enjoying my freedom. I work a lot of week ends. Since I have been single I have had strong suggestions from close family and friends for them to come and stay, with diaries open and commitments sugg... (124 words

Teen fallout. I think he's cheating on me. What can I do?

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7 May 2015 (F age 16-17 - I feel like my boyfriend is cheating on me , he's acting like he don't care about me and i'm feeling to cry. He's not talking to me like before. He's sending me one word replies and i don't like it . i think he's cheating on me. I'm 14 and he's 15. What should i do ... (61 words

Why leave a good woman for someone who doesn't care for you??

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7 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - My ex bf of 3mths now has been texting me lately. we were together for a year. My girlfriend said that he's messing around with an old fling he had before him and I got together. She hits him...like, she's abusive and controlling And she put her hands on him. We knew eac... (238 words

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