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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2015 (see latest questions)

(More questions from May, 2015)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'd like to hint to her that I think she's hot. How do I bring up the idea of maybe going for a drink?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am a closeted bi sexual girl, and am really attracted to this girl at work. I was speaking about this girl to a work colleague who told me she was gay, however I really don't know if she fancies me, or what to say to her to make it seem that I am interested in her. M... (366 words)

A family holiday where my feelings were perhaps forgotten? Shouldn't they at least consider how I would feel, considering the problems last year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I kind of feel bad for even thinking this, but I feel really let down by my family and when I told them how I feel, I feel like they are basically telling me it doesn't matter how I feel. Basically every year for the past 4 years we have had a family holiday together, and my... (387 words)

Why is she contacting me again? What is she trying to achieve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - In my freshman year of college, I befriended a girl who I thought was a cool person. However, as we grew closer, I realized she was not a very cool person. She's a manipulative, selfish, immature, clingy/needy, bitch. She's told me some of the things she's done to people w... (329 words)

What am I doing wrong to annoy so many people? I keep having this problem where I lose fiends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3273 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep having this problem where I lose friends because of breaking up with/losing interest/not being interested in the first place. I guess my problem is two-fold. I could be friends with a group of people (mixed genders), we get along fine, we all hang out and all is good.... (924 words)

How else could I have handled this situation? Am I wrong to be upset at his behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my husband and child at a restaurant (took separate cars due to a reason) I parked my car then got out and looked around to see where they were. I waited for a while then called him asking where they were. He tells me they are inside the restaurant sitting and already ... (131 words)

Despite my initial good feelings about him: should I just cut my losses and move on, or actually try to make him reconsider?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Three weeks ago, I met a man on an online dating site. We have a very strong connection and started dating, even though we live an hour and a half from each other. For the first time I actually felt really comfortable around a man, and let down my guards more than I usually ... (510 words)

Help needed for a lonely stoner couple desperate to change

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have lived together for 3. I moved away from my hometown to live with him in a little village in the countryside. Up until last year we were in a terrible place, both miserable chronic weed addicts with no friends , jobs we hate ... (611 words)

My husband and I need help setting boundaries with his parents

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - This is our second marriage. His parents are elderly in their late 70's but the father keeps very active and they both have their minds. My parents are deceased. I really wanted to go out on Mother's Day to a restaurant (restaurants are an hour away for both parties) an... (906 words)

My boyfriend has discovered the nasty things I said about him during our brief break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago, our relationship lasted for nearly a year. i was so angry, broken , mad and sad. there was no reason for the broke up , i don't know why he dumped me , he just said that i lost my interest in you and i cant do this anymore ! ... (431 words)

Why are (many) women disgusted by sexual interest from an older man?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

4 May 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - At work, I have been told by young girls that some of the older "gentlemen" touch them and make passes at them (ignoring the illegal aspect, some reason why they don't officially complain), and these girls have complained to me about it, also saying how gross and disgusting it ... (196 words)

He just just sits there steaming. Why doesn't my husband of ten years accept that sometimes people do want to give me a compliment?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if anyone could help....my husband of 10 years hates when people compliment me. If we go anywhere and someone tells me I'm pretty he cringes. I always respond with a nice thank you. He just just sits there steaming. Why?? I'm not vain at all but he just ... (80 words)

Should I stay away from my ex-emotional affair partner, even if I think he needs help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have no contact for 4 months with the guy I had an "emotional affair" with. It's been close to a year now since it happened. I still hear about him because we have common friends. I tried to cut them off too for self-preservation but they've been good to me and they don... (371 words)

Would I be better returning to my own place? Why are my parents subjecting me to this? Will it get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Six months ago, my parents offered me their apartment for 2 years until they decide to retire and move into it. The expectations are that I have to pay my bills and the rent is free. The reason why they offered me this is so that I can rent out my own apartment and get ahead ... (605 words)

Has my behaviour pushed her away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - To some of you, this may be familiar. This is a little follow-on from previous events if you remember the last question. This girl and I work together (let's call her M). We have/had a great friendship; we would often say how much we miss each other, laugh, talk about doing... (519 words)

How can we repair our relationship and overcome the distance issues? Why do I feel uncomfortable and confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for four years. Things started off well then slipped since his work got in the way. He has a job where he works days and nights for 12 hours a time. This job started when we were living together; communication was rough then but when it improved... (332 words)

Am I being paranoid? Or does my 55 year old Girlfriend have too many traits and behaviors of a chronic cheater?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 44 male and left my wife for a 55 year old hot lady. I've been married since 18 and rarely cheated, whereas she's been married 3 times and has 4 kids from 3 different men. She's cheated on all of them, been promiscuous, often having sex same day she met a guy, as was in... (388 words)

I love her a lot. But Is it normal that my girlfriend will only have sex with her clothes on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it normal that my girlfriend will only have sex with her clothes on? I love my girlfriend and love our intimate times but she doesn't want to get naked for sex, she only feels comfortable while clothed. She has always struggled with her weight and body image and doesn... (137 words)

How can I get my 17 year old girlfriend to quit using drugs? How can I convince her that she shouldn't need multiple partners? People tell me to break up with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello DC! I'm in a bit of a pickle right now with my girlfriend... My current girlfriend and I (let's call her A) have been dating off and on for about three months. I wish I could be consistent, but I caught her cheating with several boys the first time. After I got mad... (506 words)

Is fantasizing sexually about people (real or fictionous) a sin? If so, how do I overcome it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess it started about twelve years ago. I was eleven and liked to read online stories about my favorite characters. They were written by people all across the world, fans who were just as fanatic as I was. It was an incredible way to live on the stories that I loved. ... (226 words)

How can I tell him I have trouble trusting any guy? I can't help but get the feeling he is leading me on for a bet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3279 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and I can't help but get the feeling he is leading me on for a bet. I feel like it only because it has happend before. He tells me he's a virgin but yet I can't trust anyone. I want to tell him I like him. But he says I'm shy about everything. how can i get ... (78 words)

The smell of smokers is a turn-off for me. Was it wrong of me to reject her? What else could I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a guy who doesn't seem to have problems attracting girls. I can't stand girls when they are drunk or smokers, also both because of the smell. The drunk ones are not an issue, as I tell them that when we meet, she should refrain from drinking before. However, there was... (120 words)

Despite the difficulties I still love her. But what to do? My daughter thinks that I should ask her to leave

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (M) age - My partner is causing me concern in that she does the complete opposite of what is asked of her, when we got together she was very quiet and then after a couple of weeks she started talking to me with rude words. I told her that I dont take this type of speech and said to her t... (449 words)

I would like to have a real future with him. He is married and he and I had a relationship earlier. Am I hoping for too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

4 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I have had an affair with a guy for about three years and I ended it when I realised he was not going to leave his wife. We have been on friendly terms ever since. Now, 4 years later I am going trough a really,really rough time and he helps me out, answers all my calls and... (308 words)

I am addicted to visiting prostitutes and it is taking over my life. How can I get over this addiction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

4 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I got used to using prostitutes about some 3 yrs ago and I'm so addicted to it. sometimes I visit brothels 3 times a week. I just finished my higher education going back to school so I could get my degree but ever since I got addicted to it. I just think about prostitutes and ... (306 words)

Is it normal for me to feel turned off by my bfs porn use? The porn is always portrayed with younger women

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

4 May 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it normal for me to feel turned off by my bfs porn use? Knowing that he is watching and getting off to younger women who nearly always look perfect seems to affect my sex drive with him and I can't seem to feel sexy . I am a healthy woman in her 40s and happy with my appea... (116 words)