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He said he can't love me because of my past, but I still love him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 18-21 - i am unable to get over my ex. we started dating four months ago and it was perfect.by the end of the first week itself i told him about my past, that i had lost my virginity to my ex. all he asked me was, if it was a one time mistake or more than that? I told him it happened ... (219 words

His new girlfriend posted pictures of our daughter on Facebook and didn't reply or remove them when I asked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - I need to get peoples view on whether I'm over reacting or not. My little girls dad's girlfriend recently posted a load of photos of the three of them together on facebook and has even referred to my daughter on facebook as "Our little princess". I have always got on with my ... (206 words

Do I ditch this good time friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (M age 30-35 - I have this friend, she reappeared out of nowhere, after I lived abroad for 4 years. She has lots and lots of problems, her girlfriend had gone travelling and she had an uncle pass away. It was strange she kept reaching out to me, it made me feel like she hadn't developed any ... (235 words

I didn't like him, now I do, how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 13-15 - I like this guy who's friend told me he liked me a few months ago I didn't like him at the time I just thought he was cute but now that I'm starting to pay a little bit more attention to him I actually like him how do I tell him?... (51 words

I met a man online, it started out great, then went south. Advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy online (long distance) about a month ago. We clicked instantly and have been in contact everyday. We're friends on social media, talk on the phone every other day, text on and off all day and have this thing where we text each other until the other is ready to ... (536 words

Do you think being set up on blind dates will help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 604 days ago

26 May 2015 (M age 18-21 - im kinda shy guy....i cant talk to girls. i try and try but i fail. im not that social but the friends i have are very supporting and they are very good to me....like me n my friends have a strong bond. im cool to talk to my female friends but not with strangers or the ones i ... (118 words

2 years of sleeping with ex who is married. Do I walk away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 36-40 - Been sleeping with ex for almost 2 years. He's married. I said to him "when you get divorced we can spend more time together". He said, "you'll find someone" I said so will you, since he's been saying he's getting divorced. He responded, "I have someone" Should I just walk ... (55 words

Boyfriend accuses me of being jealous of his niece and blows up at me. Am I wrong to be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for three years with a really nice guy. It just seems that I am in limbo. When I ask if we have a future together his response is yes, nothing else. I’ve even asked if I have been wasting his and my time for these years and he tells me no. Vag... (466 words

With dating, how do you keep yourself from becoming jaded?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (M age 30-35 - At the end of yet another failed relationship, dating situation, whatever, how do you guys keep yourself from becoming jaded? I've dated quite a few women. Some relationships were great and fun, others were awful. About 2 years ago, I got myself into a terrible dating situatio... (185 words

How can I get turned on in person and not just by my fantasies? I am really nervous.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - Every time I think about my boyfriend I get wet thinking about him and the things we can do. But when we are together, I get nervous and can't get wet. It's really embarrassing, and I don't want to offend him. I'm a virgin, so I think I'm just really nervous... but how can I ... (74 words

My ex said he made a mistake breaking up with me and now I can't stop thinking of him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 600 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - I was in relationship with a guy for a couple of years. I was so crazy on him like I loved him so madly and I trusted him to the core. But he broke up with me and went with other girl. First it was so hard for me even I tried committing suicide. But my parents saved me. Then I ... (268 words

Ex boyfriend wants to be back in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - My ex and I have broken up for 3mths. We would tak every now and then but not much. He would initiate all contact. The breakup was pretty crazy as I wasnt ready to accept it and kept tryin to fix it, til one day, I just stopped. He told me he would never be w/me again. My ... (322 words

My boyfriend had time to shoot some golf balls but no time to see me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 36-40 - I am very upset at my boyfriend of 2 years. I am hoping you can tell me if you think I am justified or being unreasonable. He thinks I am being unreasonable. We see each other certain days every week due to different schedules. On one of the days we always see e... (390 words

Should I be allowed a lock on my door?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - Hello, opinions on my situation please. I currently live with my step mum dad and little sister. My little sister is my half sister my step mum is her mum. Ive only lived with them for a few months. I used to live with my mum other sister, I was very happy with my mum except m... (598 words

My husband is pressuring me for a threesome.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 30-35 - Hi..We r married not very happily but married for 6yrs..I feel n it's true my husband was never true with me.no doubt he loves me n kids but he's very confused b character less person.since 5 yrs he's pressuring me for three some.every time he wants threesom sex with other ... (76 words

He has disappeared with only a note 'I love you and want to be with you'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 30-35 - Dear aunts and uncles, Please help, I'm going through a really tough time. My boyfriend and I have been together only four months or so, and it has been a bit of a roller coaster. It's the first time both of us have opened ourselves up to be in a relationship for... (338 words

He likes to show me affection but shuts me off when I do the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - I have been friends with this man for 3 years. We met online and gradually become really close friends. When we become friends, he was living a 1000 miles away from my city, now, he moved to my city, living only a mile away from my home. We meet every weekend. An year ago, he ... (215 words

We never have sex and fight all the time, why am I with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - Dear readers, I really don't know where to start from because the situation is quite complicated. Let me say in end of 2013 after a nasty break up, I met a guy 2 years older than me ( he is 27years now) and completely feel in love. We spent time together, did so many things ... (871 words

He made me feel special ... and then he let me down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 16-17 - Last week, a guy told me that he liked me. I didn't really have feelings for him, but now when I think about it, he makes me happy and I think I'm starting to like him.. The problem is, this week our friends started playing a game of 'who you'd marry, kiss or kill'. Last week, ... (122 words

Does the chemical BOND supposedly experienced during or after sex really exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - This BOND that apparently bestows everyone, especially women, during sex, the one that does not allow them to freely participate in casual, (and safe, of course) sexual endeavors - does it still count if you are a woman who hardly ever climaxes in the presence of men? Is t... (71 words

I feel like there are 4 in this relationship..me, him and his parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - Hi I''d like some impartial advice on whether I'm over-reacting and getting ahead of myself and secondly how I deal with the situation. My partner and I have been together a year and a half, he's nearly 10 years older than I am so we've moved fairly fast in our relation... (509 words

Did I mess up asking for a second date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

26 May 2015 (M age 30-35 - I'm a 30 year old man and I recently went out on a first date with a 34 year old woman. I had a great time. The next morning, I need to leave to teach a day long rock climbing course (i.e., no cell coverage) and I text her beforehand to say that I had a great time last night, ... (319 words

Does this guy deserve another chance? I cut him off and now I miss him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 607 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 18-21 - Ok so I use to talk to this guy very heavy, and we were very close into making us official. But along the way he tells me that he just got into a relationship with someone else. So I took it upon myself to just go off on him, and make him feel bad. Because I really liked him ... (277 words

I told my boyfriend I was seeing someone else while he's in jail but now I regret telling him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 606 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 36-40 - I was dating long distance my boyfriend for over 10 years he ended up going to jail for three years i have always been here for him.... I love him but unfortunately i met this guy and starting seeing him....the thing is i was stupid enough to call my boyfriend n tell him i ... (112 words

My ex is confusing me.. Why is he still explaining himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 609 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - Me and my ex broke up a week ago. I ignored him and his texts since then but he keeps msging me. Today he msged me asking why i was ignoring him... So i said he made his decision. I respect it but I'm not settling for any less than what I want (he said he wanted us to be ... (133 words

Is he crushing on me or just being super friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 30-35 - There’s this guy I used to work with, I now work for another company but in the same building and the same floor as the guy does, well, he passes by my office everyday and takes the stairs when there’s an elevator he could take that’s even closer to the door way, well I notice ... (414 words

I asked my crush if he had someone and he said no but his facebook shows otherwise. Do I let him know?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 30-35 - I asked my crush months ago, did he have a gf, wife etc he said no, well I go on facebook and see a pic of him and his g/f (based off the comments, its his g/f)....dated 12/17/2014......now as of now, me and him are still talking and getting to know each other better,,,,should ... (97 words

Should I tell my ex's girlfriend that we made out and had oral sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 26-29 - I was recently in my ex's hometown and we hung out even though he has a girlfriend. He called me as soon as I got to my hotel and we had drinks. Within two hours we were making out, and fooling around (oral sex, boob sucking, dirty talk) he wanted to have sex but I told him no ... (111 words

I am being incredibly unreasonable - How Do I FIX THIS??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 608 days ago

26 May 2015 (F age 22-25 - Been dating for 2 months. In this time we've most probably seen each other over 20 times - it is moving fast but only due to a time limit we have. Anyway, things having been so great! Until on the weekend. I messaged him on how his day (it was a big day for him) went. He to... (276 words

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