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Archived questions from: 22 July, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend claims he is still on a dating app just to make friends?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've been seeing this guy and we have met loads of times, been on plenty of dates, ive met his family and stayed at his and are now dating for about two months and ive noticed hes still on the dating app... which i find insulting.. but he says hes just on it for the 'humor/b... (311 words)

Help! I don't feel loved next to porn.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never gone on anything like this for advice but I'm alone in this. My friends and family wouldn't understand. I can take judgement in here but not from them. Ok, my fiancé and I have been together since we were 16. We're 27 now and have two kids together. We've grown ... (500 words)

I'm not sure that my boyfriend is ready to propose marriage and it makes my heart heavy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) age 30-35 - Dear aunts and uncles, Please bare with me, i'll try to make this as clear and as short as possible. My boyfriend has been talking about proposing for sometime now. We live in a conservative culture where it has to be official and have his parents come to my parents house... (508 words)

I'm not sure who I'm meant to be and meeting my real birth mother didn't help things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been adopted and I'm in care at the moment I have struggled for the past year with my identity and not really knowing who I'm meant to be, if that makes sense. It saw my birth mum a few months ago and it really hit me and I'm sort of really confused I have stopped seeing ... (108 words)

What is the point in remaining married really?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello cupid, I am a 40YO female struggling with the meaning of marriage. We originally wed 8 years ago with the thought that we might decide to have children together. Now I found out I have PCOS which makes it hard but not impossible to have children. I also have de... (270 words)

Does my boyfriend have 2 phones linked to facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I was with my guy quite recently and I noticed his phone went off - he was out of the room so I didn't answer it but I saw the number. Didn't think anything of it - a few days later, I was gong through my phone and I thought 'I wonder who that number was so I rang the ... (238 words)

How do I stop feeling so bad about myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend and I feel such a horrible person. Even though I know it was the right thing to do for both of us I cant help but feel guilty for making him so upset. There were issues in our relationship, but I just didn't love him whereas he was totally in love ... (137 words)

I think I'm more into women than men but how do I tell my b/f of 10 years this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 29 year old woman I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years we have two kids. Well I have always had this attraction to other women an as hard as I try to make myself feel happy with my boyfriend I am not. I don't want to leave because he has no one but me and the kids ... (208 words)

FWB rules-what's appropriate and what's not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting ready to get into a fwb situation for the first time in my life. This is someone I dated a long time ago for 5 years. Since the BU, there are no lingering emotions. We f***** well together and are both wanting to start that up again. I do NOT want anything else out ... (134 words)

We are friends and I'm interested in becoming more but am not sure if I should make a more advanced movement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3195 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, a lot of time has passed and i still have interest for a man that we are just friends. We have come more near during the previous time but nothing has happened to imply a relationship. I can't really ask him or say something about this because i 'm afraid he will reject ... (348 words)

Girlfriends anti depressants may be ruining our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

22 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry if this is not the right place to post but I need help in understanding what my girlfriend of 3 years is going through. I don't know where else to go. Last year a death in my girlfriends family had a huge affect on her and I have been there for her. After 3 mon... (342 words)

Just started dating, communication is all one way

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

22 July 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Thank you for reading. Last Tuesday I went out on a first date. I've known her for 4 years because she works in a coffee shop in a city I pass through for work reasons about once every 3 weeks. Over the years we have always got along and had good conversation. We e... (472 words)

We had words and broke up. I don't know if I want him back or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am a sag female andiI been involved with an Ariesmale for a Lil over 8 months and we stay bumping heads but had fun times too he is very wishy washy..and well we used to talk and text all times of day and night..we cant seem to get it rite well a couple days ago we had an ... (187 words)

How do I find out what web sites my husbands on and see his profiles

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - How do i find out what web sites my husbands on and see his profiles... (15 words)

I'd like to date this lady but she's hot and cold and I'm not sure what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3200 days ago

22 July 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I'm need some advice I'm trying to date this lady friend of mine she's the parent of this young lady I train Well we kinda got a little close recently I've think she great her daughter are good friends with my daughter I'm divorce by the way and she's a single ... (379 words)

My wife is jealous of my new employee

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

22 July 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - In April I hired a new female employee who is 10 years younger than I am. She wasn't my first choice, but my employer said I could not hire my first choice for some reasons they say they cannot disclose to me because of privacy. Ever since then my wife has been extr... (619 words)

Why are so many men so shallow and judgmental?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3198 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have many female friends who are happy with their boyfriends of all shapes and sizes and seem to be totally disinterested in looking at men on the street let alone naked in porn. It is very rare I hear a female friend make a negative remark about a mans body. But it seems ev... (119 words)

My fiance is fine one minute and shouting me at the next. I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3200 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance always seems to be fine one minute and the next he's shouting at me for nothing. We've been together 3 years and have 2 children. He makes me feel very unloved sometimes. We don't argue much because I sense his moods and try and keep conversation to a minimum. I don't ... (57 words)

Double date with parents! What affection is appropriate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

22 July 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! I know I ask a lot of questions but I really like having outside opinions from people other than my peers. So anyway here's my situation. So Saturday I am going on "a double date" with my parents. My boyfriend and I and then my parents will be going to the movies. This... (255 words)