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Is it so difficult for a husband to give oral sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 36-40 - Hello members, Im an Indian married for 14 years.. everything is perfect.. but my husband has never gone down on me. Ive asked him a million times.. done everything to get him for it. Im very beautiful and good at almost everything.. husband loves me a lot but an oral.. i... (158 words

Should I be more strict in regards to visitation? Or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 800 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 26-29 - I need some advice on how to deal with a situation I'm facing in regards to my little girls dad, and how best to approach this. I had my daughter when I was 16 and her dad was 17. We have always had a good relationship even when we broke up when our daughter was 2. We have a... (368 words

Is there something wrong with how I feel? I often think about making out with another female.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 36-40 - I am a female and often think about making out with another female. I don't know if this is a phase or not, maybe I am confused. I was bullied for a long time and this made me isolated. It started when I felt really close to someone I worked with for a little while and admired ... (77 words

Started a relationship with a friend but I don't get turned on by her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 18-21 - Hi there, recently my best friend of 4 years and I started dating and it's great. I love her more than I've ever loved anyone, and she feels the same, and it's so nice. The only problem is, I haven't been turned on around her since we first started talking about getting ... (214 words

Me and my boyfriend both had a drunken kiss with other people. However, now he is ignoring me completely. How do I deal with his double standards?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 803 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 22-25 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. My boyfriend, a few months ago, made out with a girl for like a minute, and he told me about it and regretted it so much, and I ended up forgiving him. A couple weeks ago, I made out with a guy, and I obviously regretted it ... (396 words

My girlfriends brother asked me some inappropriate questions about mine and her sex life. Should I be concerned?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

14 July 2015 (M age 30-35 - I met an Asian girl from Singapore a few years ago and she has been my girlfriend for three years now, about six weeks ago I met her family for the first time. The first time I was alone with my girlfriend's brother he started to ask me some very strange questions, he asked me... (280 words

My husband is convinced I have cheated on him, but I have been nothing but faithful.. should I stay or should I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 803 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 41-50 - Help! My husband thinks I have cheated on him. We have been married 9 years and sex was great at first until he started accusing me of cheating because my vagina was too loose, it didn't feel the same.ilove him and have been faithful too him the whole time.i honor my vows cause ... (102 words

I am almost certain my boyfriend is back in touch with his ex, but he won't admit it. How can I know for sure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 30-35 - I have a strong gut feeling that my boyfriend is in touch with his ex the last couple of days through Facebook. He admitted that he looked up her profile yesterday but He has denied talking to her but I'm 90% sure because I trust my gut feelings usually I am right. He's been ... (107 words

I know we can NEVER be together.. but how do I emotionally detach myself?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 30-35 - How do you detach yourself from someone you know you can NEVER be with? There's this guy I've kind of fallen for and there's no chance of it going anywhere other than friendship so how can I pull away without him really knowing I'm doing so. If he notices I'm backing off he ... (339 words

My fiancée has outstanding mental health problems, and we are constantly arguing. How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 803 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 22-25 - Alright before i proceed with my question, i ask please do not answer or respond with "then why are you with him" or "just leave him" or such. I would really like to know your advice on how.to fix things and strengthen my relationship rather then just end it... Alright so my ... (258 words

Have I messed things up with guy I met online?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys..... So I met a guy online and I'm totally new to the online dating thing, and not sure If I'm entirely comfortable........ So we went on a couple of dates and things seemed to be going well, he said he liked me and I do really like him...... However for the past 3 ... (202 words

How can I determine and confirm if he just wants sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 22-25 - I met a guy online and we talked for a few weeks before having our first date today at a coffee shop. We had a lot in common and he said very sweet things to me, which made me think he liked me. He knew that I was a virgin and that I had never gotten past making out with ... (486 words

Why is he so commitment phobic? Is he frightened of commitment?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 803 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age 51-59 - I am a 51 year old women who looks quite young for my age. I work as Air Cabin Crew and also as a college lecturer. I met up with my first love a few days ago after not seeing him for over 12 years. He came to me in a dream and I felt it was a sign so I sent him a messa... (396 words

Should I be freaking out because she gave a guy a bj when she was much younger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 804 days ago

14 July 2015 (M age 18-21 - Modnote: this is very similar, in the circumstances, but NOT identical to an earlier question submitted recently - you may also find some good answers here: www.dearcupid.org/question/can-i-get-over-this-revelation-three-years.html below is what was written by the poster of t... (474 words

Does losing one's virginity cause decreased libido?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 803 days ago

14 July 2015 (M age 22-25 - Before I used masturbate like once or twice day. Sometimes with porn, sometimes without. However, after losing my virginity a few weeks ago, I have had no desire to masturbate, or sexual desire whatsoever. For example, I check out girls, and it does nothing for me anymore. ... (111 words

What are my options as far as my cold guy friend? The only time he is affectionate is when we have sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 803 days ago

14 July 2015 (F age - I have been going out with my bf for 2 years and he has taken me on some lovely holidays but he has never bought me a birthday card or a present although he has bought me Christmas presents. When asked about this he just says that as he pays for the holidays we go on that tha... (227 words

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