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Archived questions from: 3 February, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I found out he lied about having a girlfriend, does that mean he isn't serious about her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Agony people! I met this guy the other day and he seemed nice and chatty. He told me he was a year younger than he actually is too. I asked him on the qt unknownst to him if he had a girlfriend and he sad no. I thought he was geniune and a really nice guy. I found out a few ... (133 words)

First partners and oral sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

3 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - When you dated your first boyfriend, did you give him oral sex?... (12 words)

My fiance didn't introduce me to his work friends should I drop him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

3 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I found this site on Google and I really wanted to get some opinions on what's going on in my life. I don't have many people to turn to at this point so I wanted to see if I'm alone here in my feelings. Let me give you some background information on my situation,... (1180 words)

Six months into the relationship I find out she lied. How do we move on from this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

3 February 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Just looking for opinions what other guys would do in my position. Basically me and my girlfriend have been together 6 months, in the early stages of the relationship there was rumours had she sent pics of herself in underwear to a guy she had been planning to meet before w... (216 words)

How important is the online photo?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - been single for 5 years and now making a big effort to find someone. I have hated the idea of online dating and had some rubbish experiences 4 years ago, but now I am trying it out with a different perspective. I am a very private person and don't like the idea of having m... (224 words)

How can we minimise the drama caused by us getting together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - oh god, please help me. I have been in a relationship for 6 months, and things came to a fairly natural end, however, towards the end of the relationship, i developed feelings for a very recently close friend. We get on amazingly well, talking for hours and hours every day.... (374 words)

How would you feel if your partner told you its not his fault you can't get pregnant because he already has a child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel terrible for even asking this but if you were having difficulties getting pregnant, how would you feel if your partner told you that it can't be his problem as he already has a child? We have been together for three years, and I adore his daughter. If we never had our... (189 words)

I love this man and would like to think that he will change!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive never been so confused in my life. i got into a relationship with a man who i had the slight knowledge of him being a bit of a problem. he was a party animal! but he wowed me, he was amazing! so passionate and caring and i had never been treated better. he even waited till ... (241 words)

Was I happy with my ex but just didn't get enough reassurance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3358 days ago

3 February 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I should probably apologise for the length of this post prior to posting it, just very confused at the mo and need help. Im gonna use bullet points to give context - -Dad left at 4 mths old -Mum got ill at 4 yrs and went to psych hospital -Gran took care of me an... (645 words)

My OCD makes it near impossible to date. How do I deal with this with a new person I might date?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

3 February 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 37 year old man. Haven't dated in about 15 years. I don't get asked out, likely because I'm not physically attractive (been told this multiple times). I have OCD. Actually a subset of this (~20%) which results in obsessive, obtrusive thoughts without any real compulsions. ... (691 words)

Fighting over contact... Who's wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for 4.5 years. We've been bickering over how long we go without contact. Such as, I haven't heard from him since 3pm yesterday. That's currently over 24 hours. This, to him, is okay and not a problem in any way. This, to me, IS a problem and I ... (167 words)

Is it just his personality or does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been working with this guy and have known him for almost a year....we've always been friends and I haven't been attracted to him until recently. He lets me borrow his DVDs of this tv show he got me into. I'm not sure if he likes me, but my friend who works at the same ... (271 words)

I'm a girl that fantasizes about being a guy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm bisexual, but I fantasise a lot about being a guy. And this confuses me so much, I don't know what to do.... (23 words)

He flirted and I didn't but now I want him to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3360 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy at university he used to flirt with me all of the time, but i never flirted back because i am quite shy. but I really like him and i want him to like me again. how can i get him to flirt with me or ask me out? should i flirt with him? how? ... (85 words)

He said he'd stop making comments about other women, but I'm afraid my trust is already damaged

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating an incredible man for the last two months who is thoughtful and kind, caring and loving, he's super sweet and considerate. The way he treats me is great. He is always reliable and consistent, things like offering to drive me home if I am out late in the city ... (550 words)

Is this guy serious about his girlfriend or is he just a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3359 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Agony people! There is this guy that I've just met. On the first day he was nice, chatty, real friendly fella with a good sense of humour but he never metioned that he had a girlfriend. A few days later I found out that he has a girlfriend over six months. They are eachothe... (117 words)

Is he the Roof Police?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I rented this flat, however, the landlady lives abroad so the only contact person is her cousin, who is a nice chap and all. Everything was going great until the weather conditions, rain, sleet, snow, hail you name it began... I've been having calls from the landlady's cousin, ... (424 words)

Why did I dream about him after all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3358 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be friends with this guy online for about three years. He was a nice friend and a great way to pass time, and we grew closer, though in a strictly platonic sense. We were very similar in personalities, headstrong, stubborn and as a result often got into clashes and ... (459 words)

My husband wears his stinky socks, and wears them and wears them and wears them!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband wears his thermal underwear for 3 or more days in a row and after wearing them all day, will also wear them to bed. He will also wear his stinky socks and take them off and leave them by the bed and put them back on in the morning. I have been sleeping on the couch ... (81 words)

Acne, a genetic skin condition and scars from an accident. How can I overcome by body insecurities that are ruining my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very happy I found this site. I am very insecure with my body to the point to where I sometimes just look in the mirror and cry. I have been in 2 relationships. Both of them ended basically because of my body insecurities/issues. I would never let them see my body and ... (300 words)

My boyfriend talks openly about his fetish desires. Is this weird?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3360 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it weird that my boyfriend openly talks about his fetishes with people? Like, he'll talk about these sexual things with just about anyone. People he's just met, other women that he's just met and calls "friend". It makes me uncomfortable, but before I address it, I want to ... (100 words)

Does Physio actually work or has it made me worse? This lower back pain is ruining my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3361 days ago

3 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - This is more of a health question than a relationship question but hoping someone out there can help. I've had bad lower back pains for about 4 months, previous to that I would get similar pain on the odd occasion suddenly and it would last afew minutes, then go away, an... (450 words)