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Am I being selfish when I feel that he's too clingy when perhaps he is being concerned and serious about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

12 February 2015 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I'm 21 and before I left to study abroad (6 month exchange program) I was seeing someone (let's call him B) exclusively for about a month. I did not get into an official relationship with him because I felt that it was difficult to maintain a relationship when I ... (259 words

Can some men be interested in just being nice and your friend?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

12 February 2015 (F age 30-35 - Can some men be interested in just being nice and your friend? I know a man from work and have became good friends with him over the past few months, he has also helped me out around the house. I have just moved into my first house myself, he helps with repairs, painting ect. ... (149 words

I'm scared friends and people will see me differently after I tell them I'm bisexual!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

12 February 2015 (F age 26-29 - I'm bisexual, and I have a girlfriend, and no one really knows. I feel like I want to tell my friends and people, but I'm so scared that they will see me differently after I tell them. Any help on what I should do? I'm so confused.... (47 words

I'm a classic introvert, have friends but often turn down or regret going to do things with them. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

12 February 2015 (F age 30-35 - Hi all, This is not relationship related, but a personality related question. I am an artist and a classic introvert. I love interacting genuinely getting to know people in the hope to learn something from them.. I don't do well in groups, I shut down... But individually ... (244 words

Is online flirting cheating?

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12 February 2015 (F age 51-59 - I am in a relationship with a wonderful person. He is 10 years older than me and I love the fact that he is more experienced and worldly wise than I am. I met him on facebook and we hit it off immediately. We are both abroad away from our families though his siblings live ... (377 words

Does anyone else have this issue where your significant other confuses you with what experiences he had in the past with his ex-wife or ex-girlfriends

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12 February 2015 (F age 51-59 - I've been engaged to my fiance for three years. He is divorced with grown children. He is always getting past events from his life mixed up with our current ones. One day he turned to me and asked How long has it been since we went to this state on a vacation. There was a... (393 words

I feel like my colleagues aren't pulling their weight

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12 February 2015 (F age 36-40 - More than anything I need to rant right now, and hear if this is something others have found good ways to deal with. I recently started in a new job, but Im already feeling like several of my co-workers don't do their share, yet expect me to do extra work. I haven't said ... (413 words

My step-mother seems to think what's mine is hers

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12 February 2015 (F age 30-35 - Hi I need some advice. Ive recently moved in with my dad, he has redecorated the small bedroom for me while he has been redecorating I have been sharing a room with mu little sister and all of my belongings haven't had a place and have been scattered all over the house. ... (542 words

I'm finding it difficult to continue living in this atmosphere of deception.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

12 February 2015 (F age 51-59 - There was a period of five years in my present relationship, of 20 years, where sex stopped. For me, it was part of a larger package of the menopause, our teenage daughter's behaviour and my partner's semi-loss of potency. In October last year I became aware that he had ... (295 words

Was my husband being inconsiderate?

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12 February 2015 (F age 30-35 - I have an question. I want to know if my husband was being inconsiderate or am i just tripping. Since yesterday i have been battling a major toothache where as my jaw is swollen and half my tooth is gone. All day yesterday i stayed in bed due to the pain. Now my husband has ... (125 words

Should we allow my mother in law to babysit our very young child while our m I l appears to be drinking alcohol to get drunk regularly?

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12 February 2015 (F age 36-40 - I think my mother in law drinks (commercial product/mouth wash) to get that drunk feeling instead of wine. My m.i.l. babysits my 6 month old baby, and she always had a drinking problem, she drinks wine everyday, until we asked her to stop because she was going to start ba... (214 words

My boyfriend is impatient and short with me

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12 February 2015 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year has a father that treats his mother really badly. For that reason I have been mindful of how he treats me. When he gets stressed he raises his voice which to me happens every other week. He's very conscious of this and said he tries hard not to but is ... (214 words

Fallen for one guy. Like another guy, as just a friend. Both flirting with me. How do I choose?

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12 February 2015 (F age 26-29 - I have ran into a dilemma. I broke up a guy I've fallen for a boy a year older than me, in my band, and he's the nicest person I've ever met. He's helped me through some pretty harsh times. And there's his friend. In my view, we're like siblings. We love the same books, talk... (132 words

I'm 31, alone, I spent almost two years trying to move on but my ex is happy in a new relationship.

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12 February 2015 (F age 41-50 - It's been 2 years after my ex broke up with me.I was desperate and decided to move overseas and started a new life. My ex who has been in a relationship with someone else for at least 1 and 1/2 years contacted me a couple of times after I left home, but I ignored him. I thought ... (256 words

She insisted on condoms but should I still get checked out?

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12 February 2015 (M age 26-29 - I had a fling with a girl ssix months ago, and we only had sex three times. We always used a condom, she was very insistent on this and even had them with her. Lately ive learned she has a bad reputation and has slept with a lot of people. I am reassured because she was very ... (80 words

I want to forgive my mother, I know she will never change and I don't want to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

12 February 2015 (F age 30-35 - My mother is a workaholic. She always has been, my whole life. She's fond of saying how she went back to work the day after she and I came home from the hospital after I was born. She says she works so hard so that we can have a nice life but I could count our happy memories on ... (512 words

My girlfriend is being made to chose between doing things with family and doing things with me.

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12 February 2015 (M age 30-35 - i need some help dealing with really difficult feelings i'm having in my relationship both myself and my girlfriend have physical medical conditions that prevent us from driving, so we depend on others for rides. her family is a very, very close family, with many events a... (1176 words

I cry everyday and want to be happy again!

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12 February 2015 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what to do anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two years now. He is 25 and I am 26. Our relationship was long-distance for about eight months before he moved across the country to be with me. Everything about our relationship in the beginning... (600 words

Boyfriend says I should now plan Valentine's?

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12 February 2015 (F age 30-35 - I just got a new job, which is great but it does now mean I'll be working on the weekend. My boyfriend had asked me to keep Valentine's day free, I said I would, but I need this job and the money because of personal reasons. My boyfriend now says that he's tried of me canc... (209 words

Ladies is she snding mixed signals, uninterested, or am I overthinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

12 February 2015 (M age 36-40 - Soooo I recently "reconnected" with an old friend. After friendly conversation about the past and how things were going we moved into currently relationship statuses. Once I disclosed that I was single and looking she replied with we will chat later about that. Later she ... (199 words

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