New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244961 questions, 1084297 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in February, 2015, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (11), 2 (17), 3 (22), 4 (11), 5 (11), 6 (11), 7 (18), 8 (23), 9 (13), 10 (24),
11 (19), 12 (20), 13 (19), 14 (19), 15 (17), 16 (16), 17 (17), 18 (18), 19 (19), 20 (15),
21 (6), 22 (22), 23 (21), 24 (15), 25 (15), 26 (7), 27 (12), 28 (14),

Archived questions from: 10 February, 2015 (see latest questions)

(More questions from February, 2015)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He ends his relationship with me, for no apparent reason, and then chooses to resume things. What should I do ? It's affecting my self esteem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3355 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and every now and then he would end the relationship with me, for no apparent reason then a few hours or a day or so later he would call me and carry on like nothing has happened. I have tried to explain what effects his behaviou... (116 words)

Will I always be the odd one out if I remain single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 and single. I've probably had an average number of relationships for somebody my age - some were good, some bad and one unfortunately was abusive. The last relationship I had was one of the abusive ones and it took a long time to trust men again after it. I stayed ... (396 words)

Dating one girl but I also sexted another girl online at the same time. How can I overcome how much I now hate myself for doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

10 February 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - So i had a girlfriend of 7 months but we broke up.. Anyways i came here to say that i admit that i sexted another girl while i was with my girlfriend...I know what i did was wrong and i know i won't ever do it again (lesson learned) but i felt and still feel like crap.. ... (183 words)

My boyfriend talks about getting married but I have just found out he is cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months ...we have a great relationship and fantastic sex....his job means he has to work away recently I found out that he stayed in a hotel with his accountant I looked on his fone and discovered he hasn't been faithfully to me through all our ... (134 words)

It's our first Valentine's together, but I might have to be at work! How can I make it up to my partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's a really good chance I'm going to be busy on my partner and my first Valentine's Day together. I applied for a job, have made it to second round interviews and if I make it through that I'm going to be inducted and working on Valentine's day. Worst thing is, it's ... (144 words)

Why is my partner of one year suddenly interested in performing cunnilingus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been a relationship with this man for a year. He never performed cunnilingus on me until about a month ago. It was not a big deal for me as he was great at everything and it did not make a difference. but WOW I was so surprised and he is great. I just assumed he did ... (83 words)

I'm about to meet up with a guy from a dating site, but he has yet to send me a photo of himself. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been chatting to a guy online for a couple of weeks (from a dating site). We have arranged to meet up in a couple of weeks time but he seems to keep finding excuses not to send me a picture of himself. I'm not sure if I should be worried about this or not? I have found ... (107 words)

My boyfriend broke my hymen but we did not have sex. Am I still a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 849 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - please i am a virgin but my boyfriend put his penis on the tip of my virginal. it did not hurt me but suddenly my hymen broken and bleed but we did not have sex. please am i a virgin?... (40 words)

My older sister gave me a twerk session and now I feel confused and weirded out! Is this normal behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

10 February 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - I need some advice about my older sister (16). I dont know what to make of something that happened yesterday. I walked by my sisters room when i got home and saw her dancing and twerking. I didn't stop or anything but she still noticed that i saw her. She bitched me out and ... (333 words)

Should I start dressing like a frumpy mom?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I am almost 35 and "look 18", according to my husband (and all the men at the office, ew). I apparently have an "innocent look", despite the fact that I wear makeup and don't go with the trends, I have my own distinct style. Thanks to my genes, I look "exotic" (Eastern ... (340 words)

Why are people so disapproving of age gap relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

10 February 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Never been in one myself but I can't understand why society is so disapproving of relationships with a big age gap. We can accept interracial couples, even same sex couples now, but not ones where a man and woman are two different ages?? There's nothing in the Bible agains... (156 words)

His "male banter" has me reconsidering moving in with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years we plan on living together next month. He gave me his phone to use a few days but he was so uncomfortable when I had it that I did something I shouldn`t have and looked at one of his messages from his closest friend that I don`t get ... (159 words)

My boyfriend says that I have betrayed his trust because of a message on my social media

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend over 3 years(I'm 29, he's 31) I work in health care and watch a client of mine at his house to make some extra cash. A man who lives at the house with the client and is around my age, we have developed a platonic friendship. Nothing more than he ... (203 words)

I feel like his sex toy, not a girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating someone but he keeps lying to me an making false promises to take me out but makes excuses as to why he cant keep promises an he only sees me on a night time but not through the day an he says he has to look after his son whos 11, i feel like a booty call to ... (170 words)

I have feelings for my girlfriend's married brother and I'm about to get married!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

10 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a guy who has feelings for my girlfriend's brother. He's married and I'm about to get married to. I purposed to my gf last month. I've had feelings for him before but since him and his wife moved out, it went away. However, it's starting to come back 6 months later. We s... (306 words)

How do I turn things around? I feel like an unloveable loser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like a massive loser and I'm starting to panic that my life will never be normal. I just turned thirty and I'd imagined all these stupid things that would have happened by now. I've recently come out of a horrible relationship. My boyfriend took drugs recreationally ... (384 words)

My girlfriend is very rough during oral sex and won't stop when I ask her to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3355 days ago

10 February 2015 (?) age 36-40 - Hi i am in a relationship with my girlfriend, i love her, she is also taking care of me, we used have oral lesbian sex 3 times a week, but now i feel very uneasy when she does tongue tornado on my c*** it burns like hell when i say please stop she just giggles does more i cant ... (126 words)

My boyfriends baby does not look like him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a 1 year old baby. However, the baby looks NOTHING absolutely nothing like him. His parents and siblings have told him to do a DNA test and so have I. He said he would do one but does not take any steps on doing so. The mother of the child was never his ... (143 words)

I've lost respect for my friend who's standards are, I find, different to mine. How should I respond to her revelations?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - okay this is my first question on here so we'll see how this goes. Okay, a night ago my friend was seeking advice on which guy she should date and how they were giving her mixed signals. (She trying to decide between one guy who is in it for sex but is now sharing his feeling ... (261 words)

Could my boyfriend have fathered a child with his married ex? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, could really use some advice. So my boyfriend had an affair with this girl a few years ago, before he and I were dating. She was a girl he had dated in his 20's. But then she got married to someone else and they had slept together and had an affair while she wa... (806 words)

Barely a month together. Yet his ex still visits his parents? What can I do about this situation, because I do love him?.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, really bothered about this. My bf and I have been dating for barely one month now. he told me about his ex who he dated for about two years but said he is no longer interested in her because her dad doesn't seem to like him and some other reasons . I have noticed th... (184 words)

Should I add him on Facebook? He's added everyone except me. Some claim he fancies me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is going to sound stupid and childish but... there is a guy who I go to uni with and he has added everyone from our classes apart from me. should I just add him? do you think he didn't add me because he doesn't like me ? everyone always says he fancies... (100 words)

What strategy would be best to deal with my flirty boss? It has never gone beyond flirting.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi dear aunts and uncles, I need your advice for a simple situation that I Am not sure how to handle it because of my lack of experince in situations like this due to my past life. I really apprecite your help. I worked with my boss for some years, but in the last year... (339 words)

Shall I contact the girl my BF is messaging to get her side of the story?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

10 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Almost 4 years ago I found out that my boyfriend was sending messages to another girl behind my back. The messages hinted that there was something going on. I have found out more recently that the girl visited his home but at the time he didn't tell me. When all this... (358 words)