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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I encourage him without scaring him off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy I mat a couple of years ago, on an exchange trip to Germany (we both live in England and are 17). I told him I liked him, and we've met up a couple of times since then, once with mutual friends and once on our own (although it wasn't planned). So I spent a few ... (143 words)

How can I invite her without it seeming wierd?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3512 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid.. Basically I am having a small gathering on Sunday for my bday.. I am having some friends and family over and I basically really wana invite this girl.. Firstly I'm a girl, I'm 20 and have really fancied this girl for ages! However, I haven't spoken to her for over... (138 words)

The guy from the dating website knows my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend last April and have recently started looking for another guy. I met this guy "M" and we seem to hit it off in a friendly way and i really want to see if he's interested to. Problem is he knows my ex. I dont know how close they are but I dont want to ... (92 words)

I'm in a high-risk pregnancy and he wants me to start earning?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 2 years,I had thought happily. After we got married, my contract terminated for my job. All very stressful but we started trying for a baby straight away. Well the upshot is that all was okay with me but there were male fertility issues and so we had to ... (258 words)

He didn't reply to my messages -- should I leave it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

4 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi. On Sunday I was talking to a guy on Grindr, we were really getting on well, albeit for the short time we were talking, and he definitely my type, and its nice to speak to a guy my own age on there. After a while he went offline, and stayed that way for the next three days. ... (190 words)

Is this a lesbian attraction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I am TY student, 19 years old, good in studies. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend. I have a teacher in my college,she is married and have a year old son. she may be of 28 or 29 years of age. she is a good teacher. she is very friendly, frank and kind. when i met her for ... (505 words)

Ex girlfriend says she needs time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

4 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I still love my ex girlfriend and tried to get her back, but it turned out she was seeing someone new. That's ended, but she won't see me. She said she's too confused and needs time to think. What does too confused mean? Does this mean she doesn't want to get back together ... (95 words)

Why is his friend's ex so perfect to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - love my boyfriend .All i wish is his happiness but i wonder if he is happy with me.He tells me that he love me and he also does everything for my happiness but whenever we fight why he compare me with his friend's ex.He told me that she is beautiful and i should try to be like ... (135 words)

I'd be happy to be his friend, but he wants more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have a male friend who I've known since childhood. We recently met up as we hadn't seen each other for years. His mum was my mums best friend. He is single with no family and his relatives have mostly all died. He's a nice chap and I like him, but I don't fancy hi... (279 words)

He bullied me into an abortion last time, so how do I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone help!! I think i just need someone to talk to and not judge! I have been with my on off partner for 3 years. At the minute u could say we have been casual...just dating. Last year I fell pregnant and he bullied and manipulated me over th period of a o month into a t... (276 words)

Is this normal in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, this is not really a personal question but I'd like to hear some opinions. It is regarding the recent celebrity nude pictures scandal. After seeing the pics I find myself questioning what is normal and acceptable in relationships(I've never had a boyfriend). There are pics ... (184 words)

I hate my husband and in laws!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm new here and hoping to get some advice. I am married for 1.5 years now and have a 2 month old son who I absolutely love and adore. However, I feel like I have started to hate my husband. He completely changed after we got married and started to be verbally and phy... (324 words)

Fighting for control "mother in law".

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married to 4 years with 3 kids and we've been together for 10 years. We live together before we got married 5 years before we got married and his mom was a control freak. Whenever we go visit her she will complain about me right in front of my face to ... (436 words)

She wrote me this letter about her marriage. Should I forget about her and find someone who is single?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

4 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - This may be long enough but i'll try to keep it short and simple. I liked her from school. Never talked to her i was a shyguy. After college we meet on facebook. We started talking. Even she had feelings for me since school. The point now is that She is married with two kids. ... (849 words)

How do I go back to having my own opinions and not feeling bad if others don't agree?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

4 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have 2/3 close friends that I've known since I started high school (1 before hand), we keep in touch regularly and are my 'go to' girls when I'm looking for advice etc. We after on a lot if things but, like most friendship groups we do have differing opinion on diffe... (221 words)