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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can't hold onto friends and don't know how to make new ones

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - For some reason I can never hold onto friends. I try so hard to fit in and be good to them, but I always seem to be the odd one out, who doesn't get invited places or has to walk behind the group when the path isn't big enough. It makes me feel so unimportant and worthless. ... (189 words)

Trying hard to conceive, and horribly jealous of those who can

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never been a jealous person, but up until now I have turned into a seething, jealous , bitter hag. My husband and I hit the one year mark of trying to concieve this week. It is so hard. We have both undergone initial tests (all fine, except a few minor issues that drs ... (252 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want to have sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been officially BF/GF for 4 months but have been dating for 6 months. He is 28 and I am 23. My boyfriend says he isn't like every other guy. He respects the idea of making love and prefers to have sex spontaneously. However, we've done it, and it never... (243 words)

My friends say I can have my pick of girls here but I've fallen for this American

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Thanks for reading. It's quite funny as I always get asked for advice and I'm normally good at giving it but this time I need some help. I live in London and vacation in Florida every year. I came back 3 days ago and I'm miserable as hell. I met a girl in Florida - we spe... (282 words)

I used to travel every year til I met him but he won't even get a passport

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am engaged and been with my fiance now for almost 3 years. We have not left the UK once because he does not have a passport. I ask him to get one all the time because I want to go on holiday with him. The only time we go Awa is to a festival that he has been going to for 12 y... (309 words)

The break-up is affecting my work and my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

28 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently split up with my boyfriend, it was mutual. We still love each other dearly, but there were circumstances outside of our control. Although it's difficult, I'm confident we made the right decision for each other. My problem is trying to move on. I d... (239 words)

My (platonic) date to a wedding had to cancel. Should I invite the girl I've just started dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

28 September 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a wedding to go to this upcoming weekend with a plus one, and as I've never had to go to a wedding before, so I'm not sure about proper etiquette about these things. I haven't been seeing anyone steadily and I've been in medical grad school since may and haven't had ... (286 words)

I have a higher libido than my husband does, and it's starting to frustrate me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for about five years. I seem to have a higher libido than my husband does. I am really beginning to feel the frustration of him not being in the mood as much as I am. Of course I can please myself and often do, but it is so much better with a lover! I ... (176 words)

My older boyfriend said horrible things so I would call him! Do I end the relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is lovely sometimes. He is so loving, caring and has a good sense of humour, but he says horrible things sometimes and takes things too far. He really took it too far over the last couple of days. He was angry with me because I haven't seen him (I have been ill... (162 words)

My traditional father doesn't think I should date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello :) I'm 15 turning 16 in 4 months time. I am currently having an intimate thing going on with this guy.. And we were actually boyfriend and girlfriend but then we decided to go back to being "friends" but nothing's change except the status. Anyways, my dad has this issue ... (327 words)

I've grown attached to his persoality, but his appearance puts me off

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there guys :), I was hoping that someone could help me out on here, as I am in abit of a situation Over 14 Months ago, I met this guy. I just got over a nasty breakup , so wasnt looking for any relationship.We were just friends. We clicked off when we met on a concert... (486 words)

Do you think this could go anywhere? Should I try holding his hand? Or is he the one who is supposed to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - We're from the same city, we go to the same university in a different country, I'm a freshman, he's a senior. We started talking back in May, after I got accepted to this university. We live really close to each other back home, so we went out quite a bit during the summer. Our ... (249 words)

I still seem to think that my low social status equates to my worthiness of a person.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently I went to my younger cousins 18th birthday party. It was really great night. What I noticed though was myself feeling slightly bad about myself and jealous due to how popular my cousin is. My cousin got the looks on the family. She's gorgeous and has even done a bit of ... (347 words)

I'm falling for him but I don't think he's over his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so the last time i was in a committed relationship I was 16 and it ended in a disastrous manner my partner ended things abruptly left me wondering what went wrong which I later discovered was the consequence of him cheating on me with multiple girls. I was heartbroken to ... (150 words)

Why people assume that this much older man is my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Why people assume that this much older guy is my husband?? I belong to one club. One member who is 24 years older than me which makes him only 3 years younger than my father drives me there sometimes as we live very close to each other. His daughter is 5 years younger than me.... (327 words)

I'm afraid or ever get in a relationship with a woman again? I suck and don't deserve one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a shitty person and an asshole. I can't treat a girl right and even though I would want a good, committed relationship, I would just fail and hurt her. When I was 17 and a senior in high school, I met a just newly turned 15 year old sophomore. She may not have been ho... (427 words)

Why does she keep sending mixed messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (M)

age - I have fallen in love with a women 6 hours from me. She has told me how much she loves me and when I asked her to move here with me in my home, she said she cannot due to her girls. She said she cannot have what she wants right now. Then she goes back to telling me she love... (197 words)

Is this rare that I love a set of feet? I'm fixated about my Aunt's feet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I love a set a feet. I have never heard of a person loving a set of feet. My question is I love my aunt's feet. Is this rare to love feet? Has anyone ever heard of a person really fixated on a particular part of the anatomy such as feet? What can I do? ... (55 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm bad at handling money! How can I change his opinion of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

28 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend thinks I'm bad at handling money and I don't know how to change how to change his mind. He is 22 and I'm 21. I think I'm ok at handling money. Not great but ok. I constantly have not much money because I'm living on a student loan but I get by. Every now and then I ... (384 words)