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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I visit him? LDR going wrong. Are these signs evidence that he does not care enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3500 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I ve been in a relationship with this guy for 7 months now. He's an athlete and used to play for my country. When we first met,i just came out of a relationship and had no interest in starting a new one,but he was so understanding and gave me time,so loving that we ended up in ... (567 words)

Boyfriend is always breaking his promises to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I are expecting our first child together at the end of next month. I've had a hard preganncy and am currently on early maternity leave my doctor ordered because I am at risk of going into labor preterm. It hasn't even been a week since I started my leave and ... (1014 words)

The Guy I Like Has A Girlfriend :( How To Get Over Him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So, yeah, I'm 21 and recently met this guy who's in his mid-thirties through a friend. I really liked him (though we're just acquaintances), but I just heard my friend mention his girlfriend in conversation with someone else. This always, ALWAYS happens to me - the guys I like ... (389 words)

Was it a bet? Or was he genuine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Met a guy on a train, he asked to share my seat, there were plenty of others spare. We talked he asked questions about my journey,job blah blah had a laugh, he asked if I wanted to go for a drink. He lived too far away, so I said no. He got off a few minutes later after sa... (91 words)

I'm really hurting after getting a break up text. I don't know how to deal with it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just broken up with over a text message from this guy who I was dating for close to 3 months and we had spent 24/7 together. Over the course of these three months we had gotten really close and he said he had never had a gf that was as caring and sweet before in his life... (387 words)

Marriage and threesomes..need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

22 September 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I need your opinion. My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years. I have always wanted to try anal and never have with any woman. I have always had this fantasy and had played with her asshole before which she loved, but the last time we tried it we were way too drunk ... (355 words)

My boyfriend lies and tells me he doesn't watch porn. My self esteem is at an all time low

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner have regular and amazing sex, we experiment and I have sexy outfits aswell n rolplay......I found out afew months ago he watches porn, I hate the stuff and I've had a lot of bad relationships becuz of it.....he knows how I feeling and what it has dun to me. He ... (237 words)

I had sex for the first time last night but didn't feel any pleasure and went really quickly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

22 September 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello all please help me please, i am a male and i started masturbating on the 24th of september 2013 sometimes i do it 3times a day sometimes its only 2times and sometimes once a day , sometimes i can go for 2weeks without masturbating and i don't know how to get rid of it ... (123 words)

I really care for this girl but unsure if she sees me as just as friend or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3453 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this girl six months ago when I got a new job. In this job all the staff lived together in a house, so for the past six months I've been living with her. About two months ago I realised that I am in love with her. Before this I thought I was straight. We became really ... (301 words)

Surely after 5 years he should be able to give me more than 'maybe one day'?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for some advice please. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, but the last few months have been a bit rocky in my opinion. I say in my opinion, because he disagrees and thinks I'm overreacting about the fact that he still can't give me a clear indication of ... (352 words)

I want to be with my best friend but she doesn't know that I am bi

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 16 year old girl. I like my best friend in the I want to be with her way. She is openly bi but doesn't know I am. What should I do?? I really need some advice!... (39 words)

Wife's reaction to my financial problems has left me cold. I supported her decisions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

22 September 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I have been happily married for two years now. I love my wife dearly and we have a beautiful 1 year old boy. I am nearly 50 and she is just over 40. We knew we had some baggage when we came into the relationship, most of which was financial. But it was always... (471 words)

Do many people have one night stands?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am single 29 years old now. 3 years ago, i joined filipinocupid site because of curiosity. I uploaded my photo and i got many interest from different men so it excites me and started exchanging messages to those guys i got interest with. After 3 mos.of chatting, this american ... (502 words)

From being abused to being the abuser...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have spoken here before...partner's snoring, difficulties with his family and his routines, and his non confrontational ways. I have said how much I love him and that he loves me too. I am an intelligent woman but through what I have been through in my life; traumatic ... (474 words)

How can he love me when he's not interested in sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been friends with a guy for 5 years, he says he loves me but I find it hard to believe him coz he seems to be interested in sex. What should I do ... (36 words)

I feel like I'm playing the part of my friend's mom and its too much for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (?) age 26-29 - I'm having difficulty with one of my uni friends and have been for the past year and it's really winding me up. If you have any advice, I would really appreciate it. When we first met, it was over the internet because we knew we were on the same course and we were looking to ... (570 words)

How can I let go of my fears and just trust my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are currently long distance. He has never given me a reason to not trust him, we've never had even a fight, but I'm terrified he will cheat on me. He is in a different, nice country right now for a few months and I just am so scared he will get lonely, find a ... (113 words)

Confused...no more Mr. Wonderful

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man who treated me like a queen..it was truly a fairy tale. Every morning I woke I would have a Good Morning beautiful text..ect. Throughout the course of our relationship he surprised me with an expensive car because he said he had the means and wanted to do it because ... (381 words)

It seems like a normal, everyday woman isn't enough for a man anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Help after lengthy narriage I finally have been meeting some new people. However, I am finding this whole dating thing quite a struggle . It seems that I am competing against a world where men now want it all ... A thousand women , eternally young , shaved women, hairy women, ... (184 words)

How can I be less awkward about not drinking?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (?) age 30-35 - At parties/bars can you not drink and be successful with girls there? I ask because I dont drink because Im an athlete and drinking weakens my performance. I am not the most socially confident though so when a girl asks me why im not drinking I cant find the words to say why. I ... (98 words)

Why does he stay if I do nothing for him sexually?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Why would a guy who never initiates sex want to go on sites and chat 2 other women ? My partner of nearly 3 years isn't that interested in sex well not with me ... He gets Viagra from doctor and takes it but it always feels like it's staged never much build up and when I try 2 ... (282 words)

Why is my ex trying to stay in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

22 September 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex is trying to find ways to stay in my life. I feel like he's pushing us to hang out and be friends. We were together many years and been broken up for about 4 months or so. Neither of us have moved on to other people and he doesn't say anything implying he wants to get ... (138 words)