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He says he wants to get to know me better but how can he when we don't see each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 994 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 22-25 - So me and my bf have been dating for 7months now. He just recently came back from a week vacation on Hawaii with his best friend. When he got back I didn't see him for another week because of our work schedules. So we went out to eat last Friday and this was my first time ... (427 words

What to do when I am sure my fiance is still in contact with his ex-girlfriend, the love of his life

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 983 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 41-50 - Okay, here it goes. I live with my fiancé and we each have our own computers and cell phones and don't share our passwords and have a level of privacy. He told me when we got serious that he didn't want me to have contact with my ex-boyfriends which was fine wit... (575 words

How do you know if it's going to be just FWBs or lead to something else? I want to avoid being used!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 994 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 36-40 - This is a general question which I'm sure will have varied opinions but I'm asking because of situations I've been in which I just don't know how I could have prevented. I'm going to use the classic girl / boy situation because it seems the most common. Friends with b... (440 words

He says on his profile he wants to date 1 woman but he asked Me for FWB-FB and he is seeing others???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 993 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 41-50 - On the dating site he said he was looking to date ONE woman 1 on 1 now he asked me if I " was "cool being F**ck Buddies"! I'm really attracted to him and think we could be together well if he let's me in-should I agree and see if things develop further or should i be offended ... (738 words

Did she lie about being pregnant / having an abortion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 994 days ago

4 June 2014 (M age 18-21 - I hooked up with this girl 9 weeks ago, we're both teenagers, she told me she loved me after knowing me for only a day. she became annoying and shes a psycho so I blocked her number for 2 weeks. After we had sex she asked me "what if I wasnt really on birth control and got ... (665 words

Is there anything I can do to change our relationship for the better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 year and we've talk about marriage next year. We've been so open to each other and both our family are supportive with our relationship. We are both 25. However, we've been through so many arguments lately that frustated both of us. Its about... (449 words

I want to do what is correct, should our adult children meet before we marry?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 51-59 - I'm planning to get married in a month or so there is one adult child on my side and 3 on my Fiancée side, would it be inapporiate to marry before the children all meet? ... (39 words

He looks his ex up less and less, will the hurt fade from him eventually?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 900 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 30-35 - I know that my boyfriend loves me and wants to be with only me, however he was very hurt when him and his ex girlfriend broke up nearly four years ago. We have been together a year and a half and live together with plans to marry next year. He refers to 'our kids' and 'the ... (317 words

Am I being a gold digger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 36-40 - I am in a struggle. I met a nice guy last August and we have been dating ever since. Prior to that I was in a long relationship with a man from the US. He is starting to put a bit of pressure on me to take the relationship to the next level and I am unsure. I can't seem to ... (283 words

Is this long distance relationship worth sticking with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 994 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a LDR I see my boyfriend 20-25 days in a year, I'm feeling like he doesn't care too much anymore. It's all about his work, where he wants to leave and I'm expected to be happy with that. Is it worth being in a relationship like that? ... (50 words

How do I Make him stop flirting and cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 993 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 36-40 - We have been married for 16yrs, with two children, our youngest is 16. From 2005 my husband has been cheating on me. In 2010 we almost got divorced but he apologised and vowed to stop and seek counselling but that didn't happen. We have been to marriage counselling but that... (158 words

Should I trust my own opinions about my new manager, or believe what the secretary says about her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 22-25 - I recently started a new job (office work). The manager is nice at a glance. She is a bit picky and micromanages but what manager doesn't? Anyway there is a secretary working here and from day 1 she has tried to misguide my opinion about my manager. She says my manager is craz... (221 words

Should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 41-50 - Hello aunts and uncles Here goes! I've been with my hub for 12 years and pretty much can stay it's been a good marriage! When we met we both had 2 children each from previous marriages and decided almost 8 years ago to have our own child together. About 3 weeks after gi... (649 words

Friend with benefits has an ex visiting from overseas and told me not to contact him or visit him while she's here! What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing and sleeping with a man for just over 9 months now. Just out of the blue, he told me his ex from the USA is coming over to stay with him for a month. First he said it was without warning, and then his story changed, saying it was planned before he met me, ... (223 words

How do I deal with my husband's constant lies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 26-29 - My husband and I have been together for four years, married for two. Everything is great in our relationship about 99% of the time, but his constant little white lies are causing huge arguments and it's really starting to rip us apart. His lies are simply little things li... (359 words

A row after dating for 7 weeks and he's backed off. Should I leave it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 992 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 26-29 - Myself and the guy I'm dating had our first argument last week. (We've only been together seven weeks), it wasn't so much an argument but a disagreement over his behavior. He got all defensive, as well as going on the offensive to the point were I just couldn't be both... (148 words

I have lost a good friend in favour of my relationship. How can I make both people happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 18-21 - I have a problem which is eating me up so I really need some advice as I don't like turning to those around me. I have an amazing, gorgeous, hilarious boyfriend. We're different, but we work. I love him, completely, and although he tries to hide it, I know he's the same. We... (921 words

How to say goodbye to my best friend of 7 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (M age 22-25 - Hello everyone, My best friend of over 7 years is going to leave the country and go live in the states to pursue the career that she has always wanted. She leaves in exactly 3 weeks. I want to do something special for her before she leaves and let her know that I will REA... (143 words

He always has an excuse -- how do I call him on it without seeming clingy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 18-21 - I have been on and off with a man for almost a year. We care deeply for eachother but I sometimes feel he is taking the lend out of me. We arrange dates and outings but when the day arrives he always cancels and I am left feeling very low about myself. He tells me he wants to ... (148 words

Pregnant from a fling -- how do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (F age 22-25 - I feel like I just made a huge mistake and I'm about to pay for it forever. I don't need any judgey comments, I just need guidance. Please, help me! I met a slightly older, thankfully SINGLE man two months ago and got pregnant by him after just one week of knowing him (I know ... (342 words

I either want her back or to treat her as an acquaintance

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 995 days ago

4 June 2014 (M age 26-29 - This past Thursday I was dumped my girlfriend who also happens to be a co-worker. I had left a rose outside her door the previous day, and I knew by her lukewarm response that she had already made up her mind to end the relationship. I was prepared for it the next day, so I ... (571 words

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