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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I tell my Dad that I'm dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Alright so I'm 14 and going against my dad's rules, I've been dating this boy for 8 months. I want to tell my parents in dating this guy and I know how to tell my mom but how do I tell my dad? I mean what's the big deal, I've never done drugs or sexual activity, I have straight ... (220 words)

Does anyone have any ideas on how to fix this broken feeling that my wife has? Is there anything beyond talk therapy that might work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for six years. We have one child (a toddler) together. About a year ago, my wife stated that she was questioning whether or not she wanted to continue our marriage. I was in absolute shock. She stated she had been unhappy on an off for the ... (234 words)

There always seemed to be a push-pull dynamic, and now she's broken up with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for about two years. It was always very difficult to describe. We were very much in love. When we were together, two people couldn't have been better friends or better partners. We literally completed each other and made each other so happy. But that was ... (416 words)

After 3 months of an amazing relationship why did he suddenly stop talking to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for 3 months. He lives in NJ and I live in NY- we are about an hour and a half away from one another. Some background on us- we met 7 years ago on vacation and really hit it off. He had a girlfriend so nothing ever happened between us. We spent the ... (247 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little less than two years. We met at work and were friend for a year before getting together. I moved to another town for grad school 7 months ago, but we still see each other at least once a month and talk every night. He would ... (361 words)

Married with kids but think I'm still in love with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Fifteen years ago I met this guy at work. We were both in our mid 20’s. We dated for two years and towards the end of those two years I got pregnant. The relationship was already starting to crumble. I ended up not having the baby and hated myself for what I did up to today. ... (395 words)

Am I really going too far our of my way just to hang out with my friends once or twice a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) age 30-35 - For the past 3.5 years after college graduation, I've visited my college friends 1-2 times a year which costs me a $250+ round-trip flight every time. To be honest, friends have been a rare thing in my life, so I'm glad to call these two my closest friends. It's just fo... (231 words)

My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl and he had the audacity to tell me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl. When I confronted my boyfriend he demanded who had told me. I ever gave him the name. He then told me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over him. I broke up with him but why ... (64 words)

I fell pregnant, he left me and now I'm having to deal with a miscarriage on my own

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I had been in an unstable relationship with my ex for 2 1/2 years. He cheated and lied to me god knows how many times and for whatever reasons when he promised to be a better man i always took him back. The final straw was when he turned up to my house with a lov... (598 words)

I feel like I need him here to feel OK

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a diagnosis of depression and anxiety. I have a boyfriend of six years. He is wonderful and looks after me well. However, whenever he goes away for the day with mates I get so insecure, anxious and uneasy. I don't want to stop him doing the things he wants but I know he ... (136 words)

I caught my boyfriend on dating website with profile. He denies it. Do I tell him to take a hike?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello So my bf of 3yrs was caught on a dating site. My friend happened to ne on the same site and alerted me. I confronted him and he had some lame excuse for being on it. I asked if he had met anyone off of there, and he said no of course. He said he didn't even communicate... (197 words)

7 years in a sexless marriage. Is it wrong to ask my wife if I can get sex somewhere else?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (M)

age - I am a 53 yr male with what I would call a good sex drive and I have been in a sexless marriage now for about 7 yrs medical issues.We have been together for 23yrs I love my wife very much and we have a great relationship but I afraid this could do damage to our relationship. Is ... (82 words)

Pregnant and my husband is out of the country I feel so lost and alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupids. Sorry for the long message. I am breaking apart and really need some advise that can help me to cope with my current situation. I am 29 weeks pregnant and have a 5 year old daughter, my husband left the country over a month ago to a new job. He has only called me ... (239 words)

Should I worry about the child getting in the way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a few months, he is lovely and everything is going great. But!!! he has a two year old son I have never met him as we both decided until we are ready to commit to each other, I won't meet him. I love kids and I'm not scared of meeting him I ju... (172 words)

A FWB with a younger lady has turned into a relationship but my friends still tease about her. How do I turn this around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 June 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I want to start off by saying I know my actions were uncalled for and I truly am sorry for the details I shared andhow they effected everyone. I'm 41 years old and this winter I met a 22 year old student and "hooked up" with her a few times. I am going to admit I was a complete... (307 words)

Did something die in him and he's just in it for the sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I apologize in advance for the lengthiness of my story. I just really need to vent as a sort of closure. Any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated. I've been seeing a guy for the past 7 months. I know him for over a year as a former coworker and friend. He is 12... (1160 words)

I called off the wedding. But how do I get past the guilt if I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I was until recently, engaged to be married. I called off the wedding because my fiancé yells a lot, is very stressed (life choices, poor planning, disorganization, plus regular stresses of job, kids, etc.), blames me and others for everything, doesn't have time for me, those ... (724 words)

He's showing no remorse and says my insecurity is the issue. Am I over-reacting over the video?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the past 3 years. Within the past 5 months we have finally decided to get serious. We've been living together for 3 months. In the past out relationship has majorly been unstable because of his lack of loyalty and basic cheating ... (180 words)

Is he just being friendly? Or flirting? Or am I thinking it's more than it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all,ive got a bit of a dilemma and wonder if you can give your honest opinions :) basically ive become friendly with a guy who teaches fitness at my sons school,when I say friendly I mean we chat and txt each other ocassionally,i see him once a week for fitness,and we have ... (409 words)

Etiquette for sex and periods??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently got a new boyfriend, everything's going well, but I have a question so looking for some advice for people in the same situation. We have a lot of sex, which is great, I'm loving it, especially after having none for a good few years. Even when I have my period... (252 words)

My girlfriend says she wants my last days to be happy but they aren't because of her flirting and sexting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts, Uncles, I really need some perspective and help with my relationship. I caught my GF flirting with someone, proposing to meet them through Twitter and even talking about getting together when I die (I have cancer) a few months ago. We got into a big ar... (137 words)

Should I be upfront with my parents about seeing someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months already and the only person who knows is my older sister, I've asked my mom if I can date and she said yes it's fine, but my dad would kill me and him if he found out.. Should I be upfront with my parents about our relationship? ... (55 words)

My boyfriend never takes care of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 2years and 2 months. He never takes care of me, he's always complaining about not having Money. Whenever I bring up the issue, he's like how will I know your needs when you don't ask me? I decided not to ask him for anything since he's claiming ... (73 words)

My boyfriend is avoiding our friends and they are asking about him. How do I help resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have an absolutely wonderful boyfriend of nearly 2 years, pretty much your stereotypical best friend turned boyfriend. However, he seems to suffer from anxiety which can lead to paranoia. Initially this was about appearance to the extent where he could literally not look in a ... (305 words)

How can I find out if he's interested without making it awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve known this guy for about 4 months now. We usually see each other just at church every Sunday, but we sometimes hang out with a group and go to dinner and/or a movie. I usually end up walking/sitting beside him and I developed a crush on him within the first month of ... (307 words)

Recently he's become more campy and it's interfering with my affection for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

26 June 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my bf/partner for 2+ years now, and love him deeply. We have a very strong connection on multiple levels, and the last two years have been the happiest time in my life because of him. My bf has being going through a difficult recovery from a deeply abusive... (413 words)