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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My affair partner is leaving her husband but becoming distant towards me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3556 days ago

20 July 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - What could be the reason for this type of behavior? You would think that she would probably want to get closer to me now that she's "moving on" so to speak, but it almost feels like she's slowly distancing herself from me as well. We have been seeing each other for many y... (284 words)

I'm married and have been chatting with a man for a year. We'll never meet so its harmless isnt it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so where do I start. When I was on maternity, I spent long days in the house by myself. My husband has become rather un-attentive and has lost interest in most conversation. I was very lonely and restricted in money for doing activities. I joined a chat/dating w... (297 words)

I used to be happy in this marriage but now I'm just angry all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm married been together for four years with a one year old daughter. I have a problem, I don't want to have sex with my hubby anymore, I don't like him touching me he has to initiate sex I'm really not in the mood so I can't enjoy it, i try to orgasm but he's rubbish he ... (201 words)

Would it be wrong to hug him when he doesn't want a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi so this boy I like likes me back I asked him back and he said no as he didn't want a gf at the moment! So my friend said to him that I wanted to hug him and thas is sorta true... Anyway he said he wants to hug to!! My question is would I hug him a and would it be wrong ... (83 words)

Can anyone with dog wisdom give me some advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, This is SORT of a relationship question.. We have just built a new home and we'd like to buy/rescue a dog. I have never owned a dog before so I don't know what to expect. Throughout my life I've adopted sick goldfish and restored them to health. Anyone wit... (425 words)

What other forms of therapy or support might help to get me through my issues with having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

20 July 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. I'm a 47 year old man. I have trouble with having sex. My problems began with my first girlfriend. We had sex that first time. She came and I didn't. For months this went on and nothing seemed to work for me. After the next one I took a five year break to... (246 words)

Should I hope for the best? Or allow my insecurity about my breasts be enough to put me off being intimate with a partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got into a long distance relationship with an exceptionally charming man. We have made plans to meet in future but I am afraid of getting intimate for one reason: my breasts. I know it sounds silly, but I am very self conscious about them. Currently, I w... (212 words)

I don't want to give him an ultimatum, either pick me or masturbation/porn but his choice is having an impact on our sex life. What would you do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 6 months has a lot of great qualities but our sex life is lacking. He can't always maintain an erection when we're having sex or when he can he can sometimes he still can't orgasm. He says he watches a lot of porn and masturbates on nights he doesn't see m... (188 words)

Two exes, both wanting to rekindle the romance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex boyfriend for 8 years. We broke up two years ago but last month we bumped into each other randomly for the first time since the split. A lot of old feelings came up. We've been casually dating and hanging out since we met up. The thing is, I was talking ... (183 words)

I'm driving myself insane with jealousy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3559 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm driving myself insane with jealousy over the way my boyfriends family are with his ex girlfriend, but my friends say that the way they act isn't right and I have every right to be annoyed. It started at the beginning of the year when my boyfriend's sister got married.... (518 words)

Hopelessly devoted to the wrong men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3559 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help. My mind is not reliable nor my heart I met a guy thru a mutual friend and we just hit it off chemistry wise and spiritually. He also knew my ex-bf who has abusive and terrible to me. Some of what was helpful early on was his kindness and understating of the last... (327 words)

Was he being polite or is he interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm just confused about a guy I met the other night, if he's interested or not I was out drinking and we met at the bar, talked for a bit but I felt like I was being awkward which is common for me, then at the end of the night we hugged goodbye and his friend chimed in... (177 words)

My girlfriend's little sister is going all wierd on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

20 July 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is weird. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. The other day we went to the water park with her younger sister. While there at one point the litter sister, who is 18 and I'm 20, started to tickle me underwater and started touching me too ... (258 words)

Will he still like me if I wear something different?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a few weeks ago and we have been on quite a few dates. The first time we met I was wearing a skirt with a slip underneath. As he told me then and keeps telling me since, that he loves me wearing such clothes, I have always dressed similarly like this for him. ... (113 words)

I am starting to mistrust him .....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf slept over in my parents bed because they were away for business. I slept in my own room as we are old fashioned and are waiting for marriage (more his idea than mine). A week later he tells me he had a wet dream and messed up the sheets but was to embarrassed to say ... (239 words)

Newlyweds and embarrassment of dealing with hair "down there"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How do newlyweds deal with hair "down there"? I mean, doesn't it get uncomfortable with the roughness of hair growing back or the embarrassment of ingrown hairs? I'm getting married soon and have never been intimate with anyone before. I'm anxious about this issue. When I s... (118 words)

Worried about my sister. Am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3558 days ago

20 July 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a bit worried about my sister and am looking for some advice as to whether I'm overreacting or not. Basically, she is 25 and has never had a relationship or even been on a date (she is also a virgin incase anyone thinks she's into casual hook ups). I wouldn't usually... (729 words)