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What are some not-so-obvious signs of rejection that you give off?

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9 April 2014 (M age 30-35 - So i know there is really no clear answer for this (except for the obvious) but just thought I'd throw it out there, since I've been doing the online dating thing for a year now... and don't seem to be too great about reading my dates. So of course there are some very obviou... (279 words

His family and friends hate me because of our past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3640 days ago

9 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - Please bear with me as this could be long. I got into a relationship a while ago with a man who I'd been friends with for a while. Things were great to start and as we'd been friends so long our families and friends all got along with each other. It was perfect. 10 months into... (459 words

Did I do the right thing holding my head high and ignoring him ?

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9 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - He was my best male friend We had a blazing row and he hasn't spoken to me in 7 months despite me asking to be friends and texting etc hes ignored the lot He ignores me at work and hangs around with new friends He saw me last night and was standing with a mutual fri... (102 words

We've been together for three years but he blocked me on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3639 days ago

9 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - This is going to sound as pathetic as it is but it's irritating me. I've been with my partner for 3 years and we have never been friends on facebook. I don't use it much but about 2 months ago I sent him a friend request. Not only did he decline my friends request, he also blo... (224 words

I feel so low after the abortion, how do I get out of this rut?

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9 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - Heya, sorry to ramble on in advance but i feel so alone. Well to start off i have recently had an abortion, and i regret it so much. Im not in a realtionship but had been sleeping with this guy on and off for two years. When i found out i was preganant i was shocked and ... (526 words

Are cheaters always cheaters?

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9 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - My ex constantly cheated when we were dating. I was even the one he cheated on his ex with. I forgave him everytime because I loved him and thought he loved me to death according to the commitment he gave and he would beg his parents and friends to ask me to give him one more ... (99 words

If he likes me why avoid touching me?

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9 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - please help me understand this if a guy likes a girl why would he avoid touching her.? there is one of my male friend he talks to me stares me does everything that makes me and my friends feel he likes me but he avoids to touch me he does touches his other female friends but in ... (133 words

Why can't she just wake up and see life away from this idiot?

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9 April 2014 (? age 51-59 - Why do people stay with abusers? Especially alcoholics who get nasty when they drink? I have a friend in this situation, she is married but they have no children and it would be straightforward for her to leave but all she does is complain and get upset and then he is nice and ... (227 words

He won't spend any time with my friends or family? I have to beg for him to do so!

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9 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone so I have a question. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and two months. We live together as well. The problem is he wont go around my friends or family at all like he used to and he doesnt take me around his friends or family. When my mom or anyone c... (118 words

A little lost, hurt and vulnerable right now... Help?

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9 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hi Everyone. First and foremost, thank you for reading this. I’m feeling a little lost, hurt and vulnerable right now, and I could really do with some wise words if you might be so kind. I had a partner (we’re both female) on and off over the past 4 years, and we had our... (766 words

Can I trust her to cut all ties to this facebook friend?

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9 April 2014 (M age 41-50 - I recently found my wife chatting with a man with whom she made friendship on Facebook. They have been talking on phone for past six months. She claims they never met each other and they were chatting as just friends. I am deeply hurt because she never told this to me, I... (91 words

I am a gay female and feeling very confused!

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9 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - I am a gay female and feeling very confused. I was in a relationship with my ex for 5 years she was my first love but for the last two years of the relationship I was very unhappy and could not see a future . I hate to admit it but I cheated with men and women just kissing as I ... (436 words

What's the best way to deal with a girl who is playing mind games with you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

9 April 2014 (M age 30-35 - What's the best way to deal with a girl who is playing mind games with you ? If you ignore her, she'll write you after a week or two but if you do reply, she would read the message and wouldn't reply for 3-4 days on purpose ! How would you deal with it ? Keep ignoring?... (66 words

I love studying architecture and am in my second year. But due to set backs should I abandon this study or keep on trying harder?

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9 April 2014 (F age 26-29 - hello, agony aunts. I'm currently an architecture student in my 2nd year. In my 1st year I failed a major class and I had to extend another year, I passed that class now but I failed in another major class this time. I love this course, but should I save myself the emba... (65 words

Do men find a curved tummy a turn off?

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9 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - I was wondering if men find a curved tummy a turn off? I'm not overweight by any means (although I used to be), nor am I particularly thin. I'm probably relatively average for girls my age in my country (about size 10, 5ft7/170cm, 65kg/143lb)but my tummy is quite curved and my ... (125 words

Do people tend to stick with life plans they made early on, or do other priorities start to take over?

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9 April 2014 (? age 30-35 - This is a very brief question I have, but how many of you stuck to life plans that you made in your teens? I stuck to the same job I wanted in my early teens and went to the university that I wanted to go to in my teens, but I know it's highly unlikely that my life will con... (111 words

Anyone online who is in the UK and has adopted a child? What is the process? My long term Gf and I are considering adopting

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9 April 2014 (? age 30-35 - Do any of you have any experiences with adoption? My long-term girlfriend and I are seriously considering adoption and we've looked on the Gov website about the adoption process but we couldn't find any details about if you have preferences about the child you want to adopt and ... (541 words

First love, reunited 30 years later, he's married!!!

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9 April 2014 (F age - Where do I start? Guess at the beginning ... 30+ years ago, I fell in love with a boy that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. He was my first love, physically and emotionally. His family moved away and our relationship, due to sheer distance, slowly died ... (289 words

How do I not make a fool out of myself?

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9 April 2014 (F age 22-25 - I've only ever really liked 2 people and those people were good friends of mine before any feelings developed. But now there's someone else and I denied any feelings at all because I didn't know him so well as the other people. I've known him a long time but I don't see him ... (237 words

My soon-to-be-deported husband is spending my money on his mother and told me not to spend it on my own parents! Any ideas what to do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

9 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - My husband is to be deported and is currently detained by immigration. I have financially supported him for a long time now and also whilst he is in immigration detention i have sent money and visited 3 times per week. He has been detained now for over a year and i had said ... (319 words

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