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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We began to get close in our 2 month FWB, now he's completely avoiding me. Is this because he has feelings for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So I was in a fwb relationship recently for about two months. We began to become very close. We both ended it mutually last week and agreed to be friends still. We work together so it's very hard to deal with. He's completely avoiding me now. Is it possible he has feelings he ... (90 words)

My daughter's boyfriend has turned her against her family!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1858 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - For the past nearly 2 years our family has been doing battle with a highly-intelligent, scheming and sneaky cock roach named Adam. My daughter met him 7 years ago, and they had only dated 2 months when we began to see a huge change in her. They would hang out more and more in ... (853 words)

Thought I had a chance with my crush when his relationship failed, but now they're back together. Should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I need some advice. I've had this massive crush on a guy for the last 5 years. He's a year older than me and I met him in school. He's an amazing guy, extremely good looking, gentleman personality and has a great career ahead of him. I fell head over heels for him an... (448 words)

Is his ego bruised? How do I make him feel better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles ,i have been dating a wonderful man for 18months and everything seems to be going well .but he recently lost his job and although i have offered to support us until he finds a new job ,he seems to have become distant and embarrased about a woman supporting ... (68 words)

I'm not truly happy, should I break up with him and wait for someone I know I will truly be happy with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my bf for almost 4 years and things are ok...we argue from time to time but nothing major. i cant say im happy, more like content. hes a nice guy but i cant help feeling like im missing out on something. we dont really have a lot in common and if we go out wit... (294 words)

Suspect she's cheating but she just gets mad if I ask. Is it time to bail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

23 April 2014 (M)

age - I have been married for almost 25 years. I can't honestly say I ever really loved my wife, i believe at the time I married her, being young, it was more for financial security than anything. In the early years things were okay, we had 2 sons, had some good times but those ... (321 words)

If it's over, why does he care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I had recently connected with an old boyfriend via Facebook. When I was 20 and he was 28 we dated on and off for 3 years but he ended up breaking up with me to marry someone else. We went our separate ways, both married other, had kids etc... Now, 25 years later he is going ... (402 words)

Arguments with brother in law

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Just after some suggestions/advice regarding my brother in law. I have planned to go on holiday next April with a friend (which is now booked and confirmed). My sister is having a baby in August and plans to have a Christening next April, so I then said please don't h... (247 words)

I found out my married lover is not planning on getting divorced after all! Who should I confront, him or his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell for my coworker who told me that his wife had left him, only to find out from another colleague that they are actually planning buying a new house together! I feel so stupid and sick to the stomach, but I can't bring myself to say anything to him or his wife. My collea... (397 words)

My retroactive jealousy and negativity is ruining my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I bring up one of my boyfriends exes a lot as I am very retroactively jealous of the girl. This has caused many arguments between us as I have been quite suspicious and controlling of my partner because of this. It's coming to a head now. My insecurities are ruining us. I'm ... (240 words)

Should I be worried that my friend dates underage girls?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

23 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am a 31 year old male. I have a friend who is 23 who dates a lot of underage girls who are maybe 16-17 years old. In fact, it has become a running joke in our circle of friends that his girlfriends are teenagers. However, in the time I have known him (about 2 years) i... (170 words)

Am I too young to be interested in my older colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm in my teens and me and this 27 year old guy have been texting recently and I knew really believed in love but I think I love him? He is the only person who can make me smile and I can't wait to work when I know he is on the same shift we have been flirting quite a bit,... (76 words)

I hate the fact that I am with someone that carried on an affair with a married man in the past, and I actually know this guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

23 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently I found out that my girlfriend has (in the past) dated and slept with a married man. I happen to know him too. We're not close, but we've hung out before. I had no idea they had that type of situation in the past, and even though it is in the past, sometimes it still ... (281 words)

Should I get rid of this guy because he seems to be hiding something? I'd love to hear your interpretations of his text messages

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had the most awful experiences with online dating, and am really skeptical about every man I meet now. I'm not sure if I'm looking for red flags because I'm so afraid of not spotting them. I've been on three dates with this 29-year-old guy. He's my age. This guy ju... (392 words)

If I start dating someone else, should I inform my FWB after a few dates, or should I wait for sexual intercourse to take place before performing my notification duty?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

23 April 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a bit of a dilemma: I'm in my late 40s, and I have a lady friend in her mid 50s. We are what I believe is called these days "friends with benefits", i.e., I have my manly needs, she has her womanly needs, and once a week we get together to sate them, but we also have ... (226 words)

Which of the two guys should I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

23 April 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - hello, I'm stuck between two guys and I need an advice. "guy no1" is the "good looking", "im perfect" kind of guy and I dislike that but at the same time he doesn't act like that around me, in fact I pushed him away so many times and he still manages to try again, he says he'... (195 words)

Are women too independent for men these days or have they been so mucked around by men that they have lost interest?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

23 April 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 20 years, it ended nearly 2 years ago. It seems woman these days are less wanting of a man in there lives, is this right or are my values a little dated. I like to spend time together watching movies and going out to all sorts of places, I drink ... (147 words)

Should I consider dating my ex boyfriend's best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

23 April 2014 (?) age 26-29 - Hey aunts, so I guy who I used to be good friends with recently got in contact with me. He is my ex boyfriends best friend. We have been chatting on and off for the past few days and met up a few times. We got to chatting about relationships and we both said we were sing... (174 words)