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I'm afraid of my relationships failing once the "spark" dies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, my question is about infatuation or the "spark", and about my fears of getting into relationships. My last boyfriend dumped me a few months ago. We were together for a year. I really did love him but always had this bad feeling in my gut that he didn't care abo... (559 words

I'm having a confidence breakdown even though she's a virgin!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

16 April 2014 (? age 30-35 - Theres this girl I was best friends with for years and we get along really well. We thought we froendzoned each other then talked and told each other we liked each other. Theres only one problem, as a friend she told me about the guys she has been with. Shes still a virgin and ... (152 words

I really don't know what I want to do in life and I feel so useless!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3633 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - I really do not know what I want to do with my life and its sending me into a horrible mind state. I've got a degree in business management, I took this opportunity because at the time I was advised it was the best option. However now I'm wishing I never went to uni or colleg... (1032 words

Lunch? Date? What to wear? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

16 April 2014 (? age 26-29 - So this guy I like (im 17 and he's 19) asked me to go to lunch with him tomorrow and I'm so nervous. Is this considered a date even though he's told me in the past that he doesn't like me? also since its just lunch should I dress nice? He hasnt told me where we're going yet. ... (90 words

Should I stop seeing him if he doesn't pay for tomorrow's date?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - Is this going to be history repeating itself, and if so, what should I do ?. I used to date a guy whose money would go really quickly when he got paid, and then the week after he got paid, he would ask me for money because he didn't have any. I am seeing another g... (250 words

Should I just tell him I can't afford this very expensive trip?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 41-50 - I can't believe this situation! 6 months ago I meet a guy in a coffee shop. We were attracted to each other instantly. Sex happened a week later, and in couple months I was having dinners with his parents and siblings. We spend with each other many nights together, exept ... (746 words

Feel like I've been dropped by my best friend for no reason. How should I react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 26-29 - I've had a female bestfriend now for about 5 years, shes the only female bestfriend I have and now i'm starting to question our friendship. It had kinda been building up, but now I don't really know how to react to it. ... (785 words

Was this out of line or weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

16 April 2014 (M age 41-50 - I went to a friends funeral and saw a woman there I barely knew through my friendship with the diseased. She came right over to me when I arrived and started talking. The more we talked the more attraction I felt. Knowing after the funeral I'd probably never see her again or ... (83 words

My friend down the street is befriending my worst enemy who also lives on the same street!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - A few months ago my neighbor (who used to be a friend) called my husband up and proclaimed her love for him and with no inhibitions said she wanted to sleep with him and divorce her husband. My husband told me right away and we have shut this neighbor out of our lives. I ha... (342 words

I don't deserve the way he ended it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me over a year. It was nasty. He's my first and it was his longest and the most serious relationship. However, he left without giving me the real reason. I initiated contact a few times. He still told me he loved me, but he never came back. I loved him with ... (158 words

He was chatting with other women while I was helping my dying mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age - I think I might had been on denial.So many years of marriage and I thought was a good marraige. Problems,yes,some,but I thought we loved each other.I felt that he loved me, he cared for me,but I was kind of doing my best to keep the marriage happy. Sometimes I know that I d... (632 words

I'm 26 weeks pregnant and completely exhausted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi all...im 26 weeks pregnant and exausted!! Im sleeping fine of a night and getting plenty of hours sleep. Im taking pregnancy vitimans and eating and drinking healthy. I have been tested for anemia, low iron ect but all come back clear. Problem is allll day i have so little... (111 words

Should I be friends with him or not? I think I am attracted to him though I am happily married and deeply in love with my husband!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - I have been married for 6 years and I am deeply in love with my husband . However I have a friend very close to my heart and we get along really well ! We like each other's company and do spend a lot of time chatting on Facebook ! Recently, I have been thinking about him a lot ... (121 words

I've found my soulmate but I'm not ready for the commitment just yet.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and I know I wanna spend the rest of my life with him, something that I've known since I met him, but only recently hit me. I got with my boyfriend when I was only 17 so I had never experienced the independent life... (499 words

When men watch porn, are they pretending it's happening to them?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - When men watch porn are they pretending it's happening to them? Are they pretending they are the male actor? I'm told they aren't, I don't understand what they get from it if that's not the case.... (36 words

She's changed and is pushing me away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

16 April 2014 (M age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 13 years and has 4 wonderful children together,we talked and agreed that it was time to marry however since moving jobs she has changed a great deal,when ever I try to be intimate she pushes me away,could be morning,evening ... (263 words

Why do I have to pretend to care when no one has cared themselves enough to invite me along those journeys of life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

16 April 2014 (M age 36-40 - I'm discouraged, confused, heartbroken, etc... It doesn't what I say, or how I ask it, no one cares enough to help. How do I know if a girl likes me? I've never been able to tell. How would I tell myself, as opposed when I'm unsure about a girl, and I go up to talk to her, and ... (184 words

My boyfriend is WAY too much into gaming

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys. Alright.. so I recently got engaged to a wonderful young man. There's only one problem. His ONLY interest seems to be videogames. I ask him what he's passionate about and he literally has no answer. All he does all day, every day is play world of warcraft and diablo3. ... (189 words

I feel like I failed as a girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - I'm feeling hurt and in need of some advice.. I talked to my ex boyfriend recently (whom I am still in love with) and he said although I was "great" he was unhappy in our relationship. I am very hurt by this because I really tried my absolute best to make things work, and... (106 words

Boyfriend, other girls and Instagram…. I'm confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

16 April 2014 (F age 36-40 - Hi Everyone - I need some advice on a situation with my long time boyfriend and some conflicting feelings I have regarding it. My boyfriend and I have been dating a total of 10 years, the first few years semi on and off, but steadily for the past five years or so. We have b... (996 words

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