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Archived questions from: 6 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why am I the one always making decisions on dates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, why is it that everytime I go on dates, I'm always asked to make decisions on where to go, what to do, what to talk about... I don't mind doing it a few times but I'm always expected to find things to do, it gets annoying. I understand that many women like it better when a... (91 words)

I want to score with this girl but cant get her attention!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I really like this girl. I met her at work. she's beautiful, sexy and smart. She is oozing with breath taking sex appeal. she knows how to dress well and very down to earth. The problem is, I learned that she is older than me by 7 years. I didn't have the clue. The girl looks ... (148 words)

After six years my ex wants to meet up. I'm not feeling too good about this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner of 17 years left me for another guy six years ago. During this period she got married and divorced. She has recently contacted me via email saying that she is still in love with and regrets hurting. She wanted to communicate and either talk or meet up to apologise. I ... (139 words)

Why is my ex waging a war against me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - First things first, I'm lesbian. My ex and I broke up around February 2013, I met another woman who was my rebound for 3mos to help me cope. That ended with the police being involved out of the arms of one psycho into the arms of another psycho. Yikes. Throughout the rebound ... (400 words)

Husband addicted to autocad and finding a job. How can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Normally on here you hear about partners who are addicted to World of Warcraft/WoW. I'm 35, he's 32. Well, this one's different; my partner (husband actually)'s addicted to AutoCAD. Is this odd, considering that it borders on workaholism [see below]? It's not a new thing, h... (332 words)

Does he see me as Wifey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey guys and gals here's a question for you. My BF ( whom recently moved in with me ) I will we have been together for 6 months but known each other years. just randomly said in a conversation with me" that's why I married you" were not even married lol. do you think he has... (79 words)

Hints on how to keep a relationship alive and fun??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3879 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've recently gotten into my first relationship with a guy 2 years older than me (i'm 18, he's 20, almost 21) and i also found out that I'm his first girlfriend too. We had been talking and meeting since Christmas last year so we've been taking things slowly as we both really ... (106 words)

Why am I not into him? What is wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I desperately need some advise.. I am a 30 year old woman who is living abroad. 1 month ago I met a very nice, well spoken, smart and attractive man. This guy treats me very well, he seems genuinely interested in me and I find him extremely easy to talk to. Th... (228 words)

I haven't heard from my LD friend in over a week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So what do I do? For the past 3 months I have been talking to someone who is currently out in afgan through email he is a friend of a friend and although I have never met him I thought we were getting to know each other and kind of asumed we were friends... He suggested meeting ... (116 words)

Going to spend two weeks with my LDR -- what will we talk about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there I have been in a long distance relationship with a wonderful woman for two years now. We've only managed to spend three individual weeks together within that time period, although each and every single one of those weeks were like magic. I worried about how the fi... (196 words)

I've seen her on online dating sites but she won't admit it

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend for just over 18 months. Recently I have found her 3 times on dating sites. We have argued and almost broken up over it. Even though I saw it with my own eyes, she is still denying it. Is it just a bit of a joke? or is she trying to find someone ... (109 words)

Everything is happening to other couples but us! My boyfriend has trouble committing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone feel lile their life isnt moving forward ( in their relationship)? And everyone else keeps getting the things you want? Ive been with my bf for over 4 years. There arnt any plans for marriage or children. Heck we dont even live together. I have my own place and... (510 words)

My boyfriend ignores me but doesn't like it when I don't respond right away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf can be quite bad at communicating. I see him on the weekends only due to work/distance. However during the week we hardly speak. He isnt soneone who likes talking on thr phone - its probably only happened a handful of times in our how relationship! Almost every n... (351 words)

Is this a form of verbal abuse or am I being overeactive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - So, I was discussing with my boyfriend how a woman got rescued from being kidnapped. I then proceeded to make a comment that one always needs to be aware of ones surroundings. My boyfriend turned to me and said "No one would kidnap you." I asked what he meant by that. ... (319 words)

Does "trauma bonding" ever go away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I left an emotional and physically abusive relationship, but still i am experiencing "trauma bonding" I moved to another town so he wouldn't find me, so i never see him Does the trauma bonding ever stop? Please advice on how to cope...... (46 words)

He goes to strip clubs and told me I'm not as sexually attractive to him as I was 14 years and 2 of our children ago!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I don’t know what to do anymore. I have been married for 10 years to my husband, we dated for about 2 years before that and we have two children together ( almost 8 and 4 years old) (he also has two from a previous marriage). I just recently found out that my husband has been ... (505 words)

Why do I make women bleed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, the past 2 girls I have had sex with have bled after the intercourse was over while they weren't on their period. It didnt happen everytime we had sex but it did happen the 2nd or 3rd time. This has also happened a few times in the past and has turned an otherwise very ... (117 words)

My boyfriend was still sleeping with his ex 4 months into our relationship, and we got engaged after 6 months! Did he only propose because it had ended with his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend confessed to me that he still had a sexual relationship with his ex when we met, and that it continued until we had been together for 3-4 months. He says he cant remember but that while we were together it only happened twice. I don't believe him, but I have to ... (275 words)

How can I help my friend? His girlfriend's family don't accept him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend's 19, and he's told me he's started dating this Indian girl who's lovely. I'm happy for him, however, it's the reaction of her parents that worries him (she's Muslim but not by choice). She does not want to be Muslim, she is not at all into religion, and likes bein... (190 words)

He's not that close to this girl who he used to have a crush on, so why did he get up at 5.30am to meet her at the airport?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I love my boyfriend we get on but sometimes he drives me crazy! We have been together 4 yrs and live together, he has a few friends but hes really close to this family who have 2 daughters! He was in the same year at school with one of the daughters, (jay)... (413 words)

My boyfriend is clearly attracted to my friend and its starting to bother me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3881 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a dilemma. My boyfriend and I have been together just over 2 years and in the last 6 months we've been spending a lot of time with another couple. One of my close friends got with a friend of his so we spend a lot of time together the 4 of us. The problem is my boyfrien... (307 words)

We really like each other, but he dated my friend in high school? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this man since high school. We had casually talked and flirted while in school, and even after we graduated, but nothing ever happened. Then a few weeks ago, I happened to see him on a dating site I was on, so I sent him a message. We started talking and immediately ... (356 words)

Online dating: How long do you wait to ask someone out on a real date?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been messaging this girl on a dating website for 3 weeks. How long do you think I should leave it until I ask her out for a drink?... (31 words)

What should I prepare for when visting an escort for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 years old and a virgin, and I always thought about waiting for the right girl that I liked or was into me, however I just grew impatient. I'm shy, I don't feel comfortable in myself so I feel that I'm not any girls type and not attractive to anyone because I'm brown skin ... (206 words)

My boyfriends mother won't let her son live. Isn't there a point when a parent has to let go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends mother won't let her son live. She calls us when she's out of town (which is on the weekends)about every hour (up until 4 am!) asking if we are partying, or out drinking. We're both of age, so it shouldn't matter. We don't drink and drive, and to be honest, we've ... (254 words)

Should I ask my girlfriend if she enjoys sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Lately after sex with my girlfriend i have been asking her if she enjoyed it or if she had fun. Is this bad? And i don't know why i started asking her that. Maybe i feel like she does not enjoy it? By me asking would that make her less attracted to me?... (53 words)

I sent a male friend a topless photo of myself and the guilt has been eating me up ever since

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.. so i'm stumped and feeling guilty. i've been with my boyfriend since i was 17 years old. i'm now about to be 22. he's my first real boyfriend and i love him to pieces. the reason why i came to this site, is because in early 2011, my best friend and i were texting. he kept ... (381 words)

He isn't well off financially and spends most of his time with his children. This things bother me. How should I feel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I have been in a relationship with a man for about 7 months. I really do love spending time with him, we have a lot in common and we get along very well. He is funny, fun-loving, smart, understanding, reflective, and I find him very attractive. To be honest, it... (372 words)

My LDR makes fun of me all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I don't know if my boyfriend thinks its funny or is just like that,he keeps making fun of me..we are in a LDR so I'm not really comfortable with him 'mocking' me all the time.. Sometimes he says things like what was that u sound like robot,or he just mocks 'the ... (116 words)

Why would he ask me if I would be a good girl while he's gone out of the country?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

6 September 2013 (?) age 51-59 - What does it mean when your man goes away on a trip and asks you if you will be a good girl while he is away? Is he worried I will fool around while he is gone? Is he trying to make sure I don't? What do you all think?... (56 words)