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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend treats me like his personal assistant! Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for almost a year. He treats me like his personal assistant, and I am finally sticking up for myself. But he is so sensitive that when i do he acts like Im hurting his feelings. For instance he wants me to make and cancel his appointments. He wants me ... (129 words)

How do I comfort him without looking nosy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I've liked a guy for about 12 months now. We have said hi (the small talk) and he makes me laugh. His girlfriend of 10 months broke up with him like 5 minutes ago ( found out on facebook) I know its wrong to go after him but I want to comfort him (I just feel so bad I wanted ... (89 words)

Happily married men: when did you know you wanted your wife to be your wife?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for the happily married men out there : when did you know your wife was "the one?". Did she have to push you to take the next step - or did you ask her? (whether it be moving in, marriage, or baby) I brought up the "next step" (moving in) and my boyfriend of 7 months... (109 words)

Am I just feeling this need to see him because now he's not mine anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a tricky situation right, and I would really appreciate it if you guys could help! I'm 18 years old and during spring this year, I started dating my best friend. We're in the same class, and by april we were a couple. He had liked me since last summer, at least he told... (557 words)

Do I want to be alone because my ex was so abusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Back again for some advice! I wrote here before about my ex he found the question and also found out I was sexually abused and a whole bunch of stuff about my abusive past I had never told him. He couldn't get past it and dumped me in a pretty awful way. Just basica... (320 words)

I need help leaving my emotionally abusive boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 and a half years and I want to leave him but I don't know how. In a sense I am frightened of what he'll do if we break up. About 2 years ago, we broke up for 4 months. I moved on and dated someone else, but that ended, and someho... (416 words)

Is my fiance selfish? He wanted sex when I was ill and complained when he didn't get it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I was sick for three days during the week and had a stomach ache all three days. I ended up being very tired and going to bed early and even taking a nap during the day. My fiance wanted a midweek romp and not just a weekly, but I was sick. Normally, we do it much more, bu... (272 words)

Friend from childhood resurfaced. He's married and we started an affair. How can I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a separated mom of 3 girls. In early May of this year, my childhood friend started coming around me and my kids. At first it was just casual visits and then he started making advances which I was totally against. I made it clear to him that we were both married and it was ... (717 words)

Am I burdening my husband with my own fears and resentments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I’d love to help my husband with his family problems, but I fear that I may be projecting my own fears and resentments. Putting out a fire with gasoline. I feel so angry whenever these problems arise. I’m trying to see what my deeper issues are, because, even though it w... (662 words)

Teenager is going to study and live alone in Canada

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a daughter, she is 13 years old. We are divorced with her mother. Mother wants to send our daughter to the secondary school in Canada to study. She plans that our daughter will stay alone and study. I don t agree with this plan, as I think the child has to be at th... (128 words)

Should I pursue a relationship with a man who feels down most of the time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys ; I need some advice.I have known this guy for four months.He is 31 years old. He is a really funny person, always makes me laugh, sensitive and kind caring soul.We are friends at the moment and we have met up few times, every time we meet there is a quiet good chemi... (345 words)

Not sure if I love her yet? Should I continue this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

3 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been seeing a girl for about 10 months!! We do have a lot of fun together, we have sex and sometimes she stays over the night !! Today she sent me a mssg saying 'love you'! She seems really nice, she's beautiful,smart, cares a lot abt me, and i knw she's really into me b... (178 words)

My friend feels threatened by me around guys and I don't know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I have a friend who i have known since i was a kid. We are pretty close. But she is a bit hard to get along with...especially when it comes to guys. Maybe it is because she was sexually abused as a child. So she has never had a real relationship...or ever kissed a gu... (394 words)

I'm confused as to where my loyalties lie regarding friends!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys, just needing some advice regarding my best friend and an ex 'friend' of mine. Firstly i'm not a person that would ever expect my friends to choose between friends, but i'm confused as to where my best friends loyalty lies, loyalty is a big thing with me. My best f... (380 words)

My boyfriend is hinting about us moving in together but I don't want to do it for the wrong reasons!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have a question regarding moving in with your significant other. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half. We're both 24, going to (the same) online grad school, and we both have very stable, well-paying (or as well as any f... (354 words)

When I mention the "L" word he clams up on me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am struggling to understand a man i am seeing on a regular basis,we have been together for years,yet not once has he told me he loves me yet he know's i love him very much. What i don't understand is he is always telling me i am his darling lady,how happy i make him and how ... (171 words)

Losing virginity to a large guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a virgin female in her early-mid 20's. I was not necessarily waiting for marriage, but I was waiting for the right, long term relationship that could lead to marriage. I'd like to think I've found him. My boyfriend, who is not a virgin, was unsurprisingly v... (227 words)

Should I tell my wife that I have a disire to continue being with guys or should I just do it and see what her reaction is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been crossdressing for a few years. My wife both supports and helps me with this. We do go out together while I am dressed up. She gets a kick out of watching guys hit on me. A few weeks ago while at a club I hung out with a guy for an hour or so. My wife seeing this guy ... (277 words)

How much abuse is too much? ( physical and emotional) How to move on after abusive relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this man for two years. He was perfect the first eight months of us dating, I realized he started becoming mean. He would tell me awful things like I was stupid, bad at sex, or had an ugly vagina. He would break up with me, block me off of facebook and write me out ... (468 words)

Boyfriend takes me forgranted! It needs to stop!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently moved in with my boyfriend and lately I have been feeling like he doesn't consider my feelings at all, he just takes me for granted. For example, at the weekend he will make all kinds of plans, expecting me to join him in all of these (in our culture, girlfrie... (260 words)

If he doesn't care about me then why does he put so much effort into?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Right before I graduated college a few months ago, I got the courage up to talk to a guy who I had liked for awhile. It turned out he had felt the same way but was too shy to speak up either. We didn't go on dates or anything but would hang out at the bar and talk for hours. ... (916 words)

Need to get over someone quite pronto...too distracting!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel like a right mug for feeling this way about someone...almost like an infatuated teenager who is inferring way too much for their own good. I was hoping for a sympathetic ear to give a bit of advice on what the decent thing to do is in this situation, for the sake of my ... (659 words)

He's moved back in with an ex and says he needs to spend days or weeks without me so he can miss me. Huh?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - A man and woman have been living together on and off for four years; the man moved out a year ago, however they have maintained contact and have stated they both want to work on the relationship and renew it.. the man had no place to go (he has no job) so he moved in with his ... (207 words)

I'm the older sister at the younger sister's wedding and I need advice on how to deal with the intrusive questions!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

3 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My younger sister and her fiance are getting married in december, (interstate.) As well as their friends, and my brother and his family some extended family members,are also travelling to attend, its not a big wedding about 60 ppl. I am single, I am quieter,esp in group... (500 words)