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Archived questions from: 27 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was I wrong for being careful with a guy from an online dating site?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

27 September 2013 (?) age 51-59 - First, I went online to the dating site that I had been on and while I was off I had joined a few others just to make friends and pen pals. I sent a flirt to this person and he was a nice looking guy and a message also. He responded back to me and said that he would like to get ... (573 words)

How to gracefully deal with boyfriend's best female friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with my boyfriend's best female friend. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and known him for two years. He met her about a year before he met me. They lived in the same college hall the year before he met me, but then she moved away so I've ... (465 words)

My home life is hell but I can't leave my mom. My life is not what I want it to be. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This situation at home is making me so miserable I can't stand it anymore. Ok, I'm not a kid, but I can't move out of the house right now (I'll explain). I live in North Carolina with my mum and her adult son (who is a few years younger than me). I am not sure how to desc... (1498 words)

How do I cope with my girlfriend when she's immature and aggressive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

27 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is 18 in a few months and im 20 were at the same college and our classes are close as she does photography and i do graphic design. anyway lately i asked her at college to help me do some photography and she said yes but when we did it as i asked her to mod... (417 words)

How do I go on being NOT the so-nice understanding friend victim into the real me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This is probably the weirdest most disghusting querry you'll ever read, but I'm afraid I need an insight on this one and how to deal with this tricky situation to say the least. I happen to have a friend who whenever she comes to my place, uses the bathroom for number 2, ta... (361 words)

Do you just let your ex become a stranger?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) age 41-50 - My ex isnt willing to see me with someone new and i dont want to see his either so we defriended each other on facebook (FYI: It was a bad breakup) We are in different countries so we will never ever see each other again. Do you guys just let your ex become a stranger? I really ... (85 words)

Should I invite my mother wedding dress shopping, even though it will be stressful?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! So my question is probably a little different. Im wondering whether or not I shoud ask my mom to come with me when I go Wedding dress shopping. I love my mom, but we really dont get along. My fiance and I actually live with her, we moved into help her because she has a lot ... (249 words)

Does it sound like it's time to end the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a confused situation right now. I feel like things with me and my boyfriend are never going to change. We live together but he works a lot so we only see each other during that day. He texts constantly! From when he wakes up till he goes to sleep its non stop. When I ... (163 words)

Is it wrong to move my child away from the father who has little to do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I move for the man I'm falling for? I think I'm falling in love with a man I've reconnected with online after many years not seeing each other. It wouldn't be anytime soon, but I wonder if I could/would move to be with him. The problem is, I have a child and h... (208 words)

What can I do so girls don't think I'm trying to steal their man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I find it difficult to make friends; as a female I find it even harder to be friends with women. If I consider a person my friend, they become like family to me. It seems that I can't be friends with women because they just end up stabbing me in the back for no reason ... (637 words)

How Can I Help Him Help Me Cum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never came before. I've been having sex since turning 17 4 years ago and not one of my ex' that I had sex with made me cum, nor has my current boyfriend. I find receiving oral (in a way) very ticklish and feel like I can't take anymore but I've never had the sensation of... (111 words)

My crush doesn't speak to me at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - please help i have a deep crush on a guy in college and he doesnt speak to me at all even though we used to when we attended a college program.its been almost a year like this but a few months ago he wished me on my birthday online in midnight..also he usually takes a glimpse ... (88 words)

The night we met she went out had sex with her ex afterwards!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

27 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Advice needed please! I met this girl a couple of months ago on a night out with friends, we hit it off straight away, swapped numbers and had a really good time that night. We started dating soon after and are going steady now. Everything has been really great and from th... (201 words)

How does a tongue piercing make sex better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

27 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Can some one please explain this to me.I keep hearing girls say tongue piercings makes you give better oral.how does it make it better?... (24 words)

In a relationship, but cannot get married co-worker out my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) age 30-35 - My new co-worker (he's newly married, I might add) is adorable, funny, and charming. He is also a HUGE flirt. I find myself flirting back all the time, though I'm careful as to what I say. And even though I do flirt, at the end of the day, I only love one man- my boyfrien... (250 words)

My married male friend has admitted to being in love with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I am a 21 yr old female, student, and i have this male friend(30), an audiologist, who is married and has a kid.. I always saw him in this friend area...plus he is my best friend. He admitted of being Madly in love with me. It was a horrifying shock! He keeps telling me ... (348 words)

My mother is always putting me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21. Used to have a cool relationship with my mum (54) but unfortunately I realized nothing is the same now. I guess its went wrong 4-5 years back, when I started 'having' boyfriends. Problem is, that she always criticizes me, whenever I tell her what or who hurts me, sh... (251 words)

How can I be happier being a stay at home wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I be happier being a stay at home wife? I feel stuck. I am a stay-at-home wife (not mom). About 50% of my time is spent at home working on a project I've been developing for several years and hoping it will come to fruition. The rest of the time I am doing light hous... (403 words)

We've Only Been Dating for 5 Days and He Jokes About Marriage, Meeting the Family, and Spending Holidays Together?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Help me.... I've been dating this person for 4-5 days and he is scaring me off with jokes about marriage and making future plans to meet my family and spend the holidays together. We've known eachother for a few months now, in which he expressed his strong interest. I wasn... (237 words)

Could renting together ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Just a quick question. Could living with a friend turn out to be a bad idea? My freshman year of college, I became pretty much best friends with my roommate. We have so much in common and had so much fun together, that we decided to be roommates our sophomore year too. So far ... (226 words)

I'm in love with him so why do I think about other men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I really love the guy I'm with. the mention of his name makes me smile uncontrollably. I smile regardless if I'm telling stories about our arguments or something funny he's done. He's absolutely amazing. we have been together for 3 months but I've known him for almost 5 ... (186 words)

Block him or fight for him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I discovered my boyfriend was cheating on me even after he knew my past of being cheated on and how badly hurt I was. I was so surprised because he earned my trust for over a year and a half before we even did anything. I really trusted him because he made such an effort to ... (431 words)

Crush on my clinical instructor, think he likes me but acts weird.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I am 27 years old and in an accelerated nursing program. I have a crush on my clinical instructor. I thought he liked me too, I think he is not married (no ring) and he is maybe 10 years older than me. The reasons I think he likes me is the first time he met me he ... (301 words)

Afraid of coming across as "too available"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like help from everyone, but am searching more for that guy perspective: I've met this awesome guy, and I think we clicked from the moment we introduced ourselves to each other. I really like hanging out with him, but I worry that if I keep talking to him or doing ... (113 words)

How do I respond to this friend who seems to be upset that I've become a happy stay at home mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3857 days ago

27 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently moved overseas with my husband. We hav a baby and i amcrrently a stay at home mom. Iv known this friend since childhood .we went to the same school and she was also my bridesmaid. We were not best friends but we were good friends and she used to be really kind. After ... (480 words)