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A conversation about a friend led to resentment of my wife's different treatment of me and her ex lovers.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 September 2013 (M age - aqwsasThe other night at supper I was telling my wife of 32 years about a young lady at work. This woman was telling a story about a friend of hers who worked three jobs and when he came home from work his wife turned their three kids over to him and went out with her friends ... (370 words

Interest's gone sour! Should I ask her about him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi folks, I had a similar question asked and answered here before but now I've got another querry on the same matter. A friend of mine wanted to set me up with a friend of her. At first, he wasn't up for it. When he saw me, he changed his mind. She asked me again, and I ... (350 words

She flaked on me then said she was sick. I haven't heard from her for 2 days.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1905 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Ok, so I am friends with this woman, we have been acquaintances for a while but really only got to know one another out of work the past 6 months or so. I'm the mean time she's gone through a break up with her ex and a lot of stuff - fair dos. We went out once just for a ... (462 words

One minute he wants marriage, the next he gives me up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 26-29 - His feelings are so wishy washy One minute he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me then the next he says Im his bestfriend. Then he'll say that he wants to be committed and then get married and then next he says, I should be with someone else. then he calls me... (153 words

The guy I like went back to his ex because he misses the child. What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - Please can someone help me what to do I am so much in love with a guy who loves me to but he's gone back to his ex cos he misses his son which isn't his biologically but has been there since born little one is 3 now he texts me everyday telling me he loves me and he misses me ... (120 words

Should I tell my boyfriend that few months into the relationship I was still talking to my ex, and kissed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

26 September 2013 (F - I have a dilemma.... I have been talking to my ex throughout my new relationship. I am 27 and I met my current bf in sept last year. Do I tell my bf that I met up with my ex even if was last January ? That we kissed and he been trying to get me bk since? Or should I not s... (66 words

My husband of 9 years cheated for numerous times. How can I get over this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 September 2013 (F - I have asked for help several time on dear cupid and now need more advice. I found out my husband of 9 years cheated. Not just once, but this went on for months during the most difficult time of our lives. It hurts me more because he didnt feel bad or guilty enough after the ... (200 words

My girlfriend is letting me go, while keeping her blood results secret. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 September 2013 (M age 36-40 - So, I'm 30 and my girlfriend is 23, we live in different far countries, we've had plans of her coming over to stay with me on December, and getting married around next February, we've even managed her a job over here, and everything was working out perfectly, we both love each ... (385 words

Am I attracted just because he's a nice guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - Need help decoding mixed signals. There is a guy I'm interested in, and I know he's interested in my too (at least to an extent). He bought tickets to fly out to visit me. I know him from a long time ago-but we were only acquaintances. Sometimes, he says very romant... (182 words

How do I let him know I'm interested without embarrassing either of us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 26-29 - Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I really like someone aged 25. I understand that we're at different points in our lives and I may be a bit young for him at the moment but we really connect and get each other really well. I feel he's hinting at meeting up and going on some kind ... (138 words

I keep waiting on ex. I hate myself for it. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - I brokeup with him around 3 months ago because I was over his temper. I've spent time alone since and I realize how much he never put effort into the relationship, would blame me for problems he caused. He did things that are unacceptable to anyone, yet he would twist them, ... (202 words

Saw him twice in three months so I broke it off -- and he doesn't understand why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi, it's been 3 months now and I only met my bf twice. I understood that he has just been promoted from his job and needs a lot of travel. But then during his free time, he wouldn't at least meet me for an hour or two regardless of the fact that his house is 40 minutes away ... (428 words

Am I crazy is he cheating and taking me for a fool?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 September 2013 (M age 30-35 - Hi Guys and Girls A question about strange behaviour from my partner of 4 years. We live together and have done for 3 years. However I am always suspicious of him and keep checking his texts and Facebook messages. I like to go to bed early even on a Friday and Saturday. M... (384 words

What should I do about my ex and dating my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 26-29 - So my boyfriend (lets call him, George) of 8months and i currently broke up (14th Sept) and i went out the same night and spent time with one of my friends lets call him Pete. So Pete came and picked me up that night because i was upset and feeling miserable, i als... (241 words

Why would he still want to keep the relationship if he has no time for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi, it's been 3 months now and I only met my bf twice. I understood that he has just been promoted from his job and needs a lot of travel. But then during his free time, he wouldn't at least meet me for an hour or two regardless of the fact that his house is 40 minutes away ... (428 words

Boyfriend has become obsessed over his penis size and its ruining our sex lives!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - My partner has a real issue with the size of his penis to the point of obsession. I'm not innocent in this but I feel helpless as to how to sort it out, move on and heal our relationship if possible. We've been together 7 years and he's always quietly felt as though he should ... (557 words

I want to kiss my friend but I'm afraid I'll freak her out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - I have this close friend, I met her in college four years ago. She had a boyfriend...now she doesn't. I feel atracted to her and I really want to kiss her...but I'm scared of myself not of her rejection...she accepts me and she's very kind. This are the signs she's giving me:... (207 words

How can I lose 1 stone quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - Whats the easiest way to loose roughly 1 stone quickly? I'm not majorly overweight or anything however I;ve put abit more on that I'd like to over this past month or so and would like to get back into the comfort zone. I'm not particualrly someone who wants to do a crash diet ... (228 words

If I'm a lovely guy then why haven't I had one date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

26 September 2013 (M age 41-50 - I've had replies from here before but nobody could suggest anything that worked so I'll try again. I'm 37 now and have never been in any kind of relationship in my entire life. No woman has ever been sexually attracted to me and I have never even kissed a woman! Has anyone g... (153 words

I asked him out over facebook and don't know what to say if he calls and accepts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - So I asked a guy out the other day, unfortunately via facebook although it was really my only option. We were studying together, but our course ended- we were never friends, but were only friendly terms.. The problem is that he doesn't use facebook very much so I have... (155 words

Why can't he have sex properly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 51-59 - hi i was with a guy for few years then he cheated on me. he was away few years ive just recently started to talk to him. he came over to my place we tried having sex things were ok but he cant seem to have sex properly. why? does anyone know the answer? thanks ... (56 words

Her hugs lead to too much excitement! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (M age 30-35 - hi I am a guy and I have a girl best friend also I have feelings for her which she knows. now the problem I am having is she likes to hug a lot and for longer.. but every time I get hard on and I think she can feel... what should I do I like to hug her but I dont want to get h... (74 words

Is it bad I stopped talking to my mom after my parents divorced?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - My parents are newly divorced, and I am still recovering from the hellish and nasty ordeal that it became. I tried to keep contact with my mother, but I am afraid of the depth of her emotion. My mom carries a lot of rage and pain inside, and it just explodes out of her. She ... (282 words

Really want to do oral but can't

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 26-29 - Hi aunts and uncles! Thank you in advance for all the help. I'm 19 years old and i'm in a very serious relationship with a guy 6 years my senior. We've been together for just over a year now. My problem is i'm afraid of letting him go own on me during sex and i've never given ... (227 words

Why is He Sending Mixed Signals? Does He Like Me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 22-25 - Hey....That guy that asked me to homecoming? He's sending tons of mixed signals. I have no idea what to do. I overheard him talking to my friend that he's gonna ask me out to be his gf at homecoming, but idk anymore. He usually isn't on his phone, so him not texting me is fine. ... (206 words

My dad doesn't want me to date my boyfriend?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 26-29 - I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is 20. I have been dating him for nearly a year and a half now but my parents never approved. My mom doesn't say much about the relationship but my dad is being stubborn and keeps comparing it to the past/bad relationships of my siblings who ... (225 words

Dating dilemma - online friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 51-59 - Ok quick question ... The man I have strong feelings for has another woman that he has been chatting with for over a year and chats with online daily but claims it is just friendship. It came out by chance and he did try to keep it from me. I have pulled back the reigns ... (139 words

I'm not sure I can get into the dirty talk!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

26 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - I am in a new relationship and one of the things that my guy likes is rough sex. I can handle rough sex, but he also likes dirty talk like saying words like whore. I'm not sure if I can get into it. I'm trying to be positive about it since I have never tried it. I have heard ... (106 words

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