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I love my best friend, but he causes me pain; is he mysterious or a psychopath?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

14 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone 3 Things are getting out of control here and I could really appreciate some help! I’m painfully in love with my best friend. He is fun and at the same time he’s conservative, he is sometimes gentle and some other times really cynical and ironic and of course... (700 words

Why are the girls at work so unfriendly? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

14 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - Why do these girls behave this way? I hate them:(? So I got a new job a few months ago and the girls there are horrible. They are very unfriendly and don't speak to me so I don't bother with them either. They all go around saying I'm rude and stuck up. That's the f... (262 words

Is it normal for people to check up on their exes on Facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

14 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - I was wondering, is it normal for people to Facebook stalk their exes? I've recently caught my boyfriend looking up his ex a few times, just looking at her photos and stuff. This bothers me, but I have a feeling it's pretty normal behavior. I personally don't have any exes so I ... (166 words

Would you give him another chance?

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14 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - At work this man use to look after me, he was older and use to flirt etc. At first I liked him. But i told him i didn't fancy him because people were talking and i get shy. At that point, this kind helpful man became two-faced and nasty. He tried getting me in trouble with... (285 words

he has a girlfriend who's gorgeous while I'm the ugly loner nerd

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14 September 2013 (F age 22-25 - My crush go way back from 3rd grade and I like him I know he likes me back cause he flirts with me and won't let anyone ask out oh yeah he's part of the "cool kids" club and me a loner and nerd so basically he has a girlfriend and he was kind forced to go out with her if he ... (134 words

Was I wrong in how I asked the question about her 'number'? I've had 6 sexual partners, she's had 65.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

14 September 2013 (M age 36-40 - I am not your typical guy but to date in my life i have had a total of six female sexual partners. All were long term relationships and each relationship was rewarding and satisfying. I started these when i was sixteen years old and continued till about two years ago. I have ... (357 words

Can I climb out of this rut? And get my life back into some semblence of Progress?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

14 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - This might generate some flack because this isn't technically a relationship question, but I'm so deep in despair that I don't know where to turn!! Please, pretty please, can you help me? I'm in despair! It's that I have had all these high hopes and dreams for my life, but... (1627 words

How can an ugly man attract a woman for dating?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

14 September 2013 (M age 51-59 - Best way of attracting interest from women with my 0/10 looks? I am 45 and have never dated or had sex and have had no opportunities to do either. I have been called ugly since the age of 14. During my 'day' of clubs, bars etc the only women who talked were to friends of mi... (98 words

Boyfriend says he wants to get married, but his actions don't match his words. Are we compatible, or should I move on?

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14 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm trying to understand if my boyfriend and I are not communicating or not compatible. He says he wants us to get married as soon as possible and he is going to work extra to buy an engagement ring or even look for another job if possible. But every week he is out drin... (206 words

Friend-zoned ... I need help!

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14 September 2013 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I need some help and advice. I have been liking this girl. A week ago, I hint my feelings to her. We texted and heart to heart talk a little. She finds me a good friend and she don't want to be involve in a relationship. She wants to wait until next year, when she graduat... (260 words

I masturbate about my colleague every night and I'm tired of it! Help!

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14 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - I have a crush on someone, a coworker. He has a girlfriend. I know I have no chance in hell with him. However, no matter how hard I try, I can't get him out of my head. I've felt like this about him for the past year, and the feeling is as strong as ever. I masturbate almos... (153 words

I just moved in with my girlfriend and there is already conflict!

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14 September 2013 (M age 36-40 - Hi, Me and my gf, we moved in together 3 weeks ago. I got a new, very time-consuming job a week ago and her classes (she's a student) started at the same time. So we both come home tired, and I have to go to bed at 10 P.M. to wake up for work. As I come home after a lo... (324 words

Why doesn't my ex believe me when I say I've been celibate for the past 11 years?

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14 September 2013 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am still kind of sort of fond of my ex boyfriend, it has been years since we have saw each other plans to see each other but when the time comes its always something that gets in the way. We had a conversation on the phone with each other yesterday and it was a... (205 words

How to become less needy in my relationship?

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14 September 2013 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. I've dated a lot of guys but actually falling for a guy is rare for me. But I definitely fell for with my current boyfriend, hard. And it scares me. A long time ago I was in a sexually and emotionally abusive relationship, and I was ch... (634 words

Why is my ex's girlfriend telling me I'm evil and ugly?!

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14 September 2013 (? age - It's been 3 yrs!! since my separation my ex a cheater!! I am in a good place emotionally and it seems that my ex's current girlfriend is on facebook under a fake account and messaging me calling me ugly and how my ex is happy and at peace. Funny how she thinks I am the culp... (177 words

Is spending the weekend together the same as living together?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

14 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - Do you think that staying with your bf or gf every weekend is the same as living together? My bf only visits on the weekend, he has no belongings at my house aside from a toothbrush, doesn't participate financially in anything, doesn't cook or clean except occasionally and yet ... (133 words

Did she cheat on me?......Can I trust her?......please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

14 September 2013 (M age 30-35 - Ok, about 6 months ago I started talking to this girl, she's an international student from China, and after around two weeks of talking we decided to meet each other. Now I did find it strange that she let me sleep in her bed the first night. And we had a little physical ... (1481 words

Male classmate from high school will be travelling to see me. Should I pay for food, metro fares, etc.?

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14 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - Who pays? A guy I knew in High School (about 15 years ago) is flying into town to visit me in a couple of months. We were never involved romantically, and I'd say we were only acquaintances back then. We've been flirting a little online, and there is the unspoken intent... (183 words

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