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Is fisting normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

13 September 2013 (M age 41-50 - I just met a beautiful 22 year old (I'm 10 years older) and after our 1st intercourse, she asked me to "fist" her. She derived huge pleasure from it but I was shocked. I've had considerable experience but never have I had a girl ask me this. Since I really like this girl, ... (74 words

Should I text her or should I wait until she gets back from holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

13 September 2013 (M age 30-35 - Hi I'm just looking for some advice on this girl I pulled in town, Im not the most confident guy in the world so last year I decided to join a gym got in good shape and recently started going in town, even though I get anxious and dread going in, the last time I went in (a week ... (301 words

My boyfriend's ex lover made me cringe when I had to see her again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - I really need other people's opinion on this situation. My boyfriend and I live in his room sharing a flat with his flatmate. I knew that a girl who he had sex with 5 months ago, was coming to our small city. She needed a place to stay for one night because she arrived at night... (396 words

Am I crazy to give up everything to be close to my son?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

13 September 2013 (M age 51-59 - My ex has decided to leave the state we are in for a distant one taking our son with her. Our son is 11 years old. She has decided to leave b/c her mother is ill, and she would like to be by her side. She has all of her family away, and has just broken the news that she is ... (362 words

I accidentally pushed my favorite friend away. how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3849 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 22-25 - Guy Friend-really really good friends- kissed- better friends than ever- got drunk and told 1 guy- guy told my friend - my friend told me - confronted my guy friend - guy friend apologizes - I forgive. Then, the next day I think about how from a logical point if view, I'm ... (139 words

He says I'm smothering him and I didn't realize I was!!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 51-59 - Ive been in a very intense relationship for 4 months. Recently my bf started pulling away. We've had very sporadic contact for the last 4 weeks and haven't seen each other at all. He didn't tell me what was going on until this past Monday. He said I am smothering him a... (184 words

Am I being shallow? Or is my boyfriend just cheap?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and in that time we have been in love. However.. something that I tried not to let bother me in the beginning has recently really started to get on my nerves. My boyfriend, I feel, is a huge cheapskate. I currently... (351 words

Dramatic 2 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I am in a pretty sticky situation regarding an ex. We have a two year old daughter together. A few months after she was born, he met and fell in love with a stripper. It tore a wedge between us because he would put off visitation to spend time with her. He did... (747 words

I love him so much but the possibility of never marrying is devastating to me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my partner for 3 years and we have a 10 week old daughter together. Since I gave birth to my daughter I have been yearning to engaged/married we have a generally brilliant relationship and I love him dearly. The problem is that my partner does ... (295 words

How to tell a guy that you want a committed relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 26-29 - I went to a party with a friend, where I was able to meet this guy. We spoke a bit at the party but we didn't flirt. Throughout the entire night, I was attempting to set him up with my friend by trying to initiate in conversation and get them talking (my friend has a small ... (848 words

How do I learn to say no to people, especially my so called friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - I know this is going to sound weird but I always say yes to people even if i don't want to do it. This weekend I'm going away but i don't want to. These people are supposed to be my friends but they are planning against me. They hate my boyfriend even though he treats me like a ... (229 words

Should I reach out to my ex after several years of silence?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

13 September 2013 (M age 41-50 - I am not sure about something and wanted to get some opinions before I act. I have been separated/divorced from my ex for about three and a half years now. It was a bitter divorce, and up till now we have avoided contact except for emails and texts about our teen son and ... (269 words

I don't want to be seen as an "asexual" nice guy anymore. How can I change?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

13 September 2013 (M age 30-35 - I have been drilled from a young age to be a gentleman to women. I have been kind, courteous, a good listener in addition to being myself. However, the unspoken message from any woman I've dated (I've never been on a second date) is that they don't want to have a relationship ... (157 words

People think my guy is so great but they don't see what I see!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Has anybody ever gone through this, or at least seen it happening before? I have what I would call a normally very sweet guy. My family love him and my friends always tell me how lucky I am, and wish they could meet someone like him. They ask why we are not married yet. What t... (291 words

My ex is taking time out to work on herself as she's severely depressed, should I wait for her or move on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - I'm super torn up about a break up. My ex girlfriend is having major mental illness issues and can't hold down a functioning relationship anymore. we had been together for over a year, and she'd always battled with severe anxiety and depression, but it's gotten way worse ... (280 words

Sex is painful for me after having 2 children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - Feeling hopeless. Hi aunts and uncles. Sex is painful for me. Im not a virgin, by any means, my husband and I have two children together. I have read that "tenting" will help, but you must have foreplay to acheive that. My husband is not a fan of foreplay or giving oral sex. ... (179 words

Any cute ideas on how to ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 26-29 - I really like this guy who is 2 years younger (hes 15 im 17) and I think I am gonna ask him out. :) he's a total nerd and I find it stinkin adorable! Think like lenard from big bang theory (if you know the tv show) he's a lot like that. He's short and has thick black rimmed ... (120 words

Girlfriend wants to move in with a guy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

13 September 2013 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, I am 28 and my girlfriend is 26. She is a traveling nurse so she moves pretty frequently. We have only been dating about 2 months and only official for one month. The way her job works is that she will work in a city for 3 months then go to a different one fo... (350 words

My boyfriend is racist! to his own race!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi. Today my boyfriend made a comment that really rubbed me the wrong way. We both had a conversation about what our lives would be like if we broke up. And I said I would date of any race because love has no color. However, my boyfriend and I are the same race and he said "I ... (114 words

Why is he waiting for me to end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hello, I have been seeing this man for two years. We are not in a relationship. There have been many arguments about being together but we never do get commited. Recently we had another problem, and he expressed that he has been waiting for me to end things. I then backed off ... (142 words

Why is my son doing this, and is there any way I can help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 51-59 - My son is 21 years old and gay (although this situation could apply to a straight person as well). He left home in the spring to move up to a resort about 2 hrs north of the city we live in. He decided mid-summer that he was going to take a year off university and remain at the ... (827 words

Straight guy with gay porn addiction!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

13 September 2013 (M age 26-29 - Straight guy with gay porn addiction. i seem to always want to fap off to hot pictures of guys. Usually its the jock type with the amazing bodies. I actually feel not much sexual attraction to them and the thought of gay sec doesn't really do much for me. I've never particul... (155 words

Having a crush and flirting while in a relationship with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

13 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with my boyfriend who I DO love from the bottom of my heart. Just thinking about him gets my heart fluttering! I'm always wondering what I can do to make our relationship grow. However, and it's difficult to admit this even anonymously, I have a major c... (220 words

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