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Archived questions from: 12 September, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it too late to tell him about my miscarriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was 14 i lost my virginity to my then boyfriend Johnny, the following year he dumped me in november a week later i found out i was pregnant around 5 weeks gone, NOONE knew i told noone i was soo scared and was not ready to be a mother i decided that i didnt need to tell ... (176 words)

Are we seeing too much of each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 September 2013 (M) age 26-29 - I think my girlfriend and I have been seeing too much of each other. We got together at the beginning of the summer and it was great all summer. We didn't get to see each other that often but we texted/talked constantly. Our conversations were always fun and never dull. When we ... (166 words)

I know I need to let her go because of how she treats me, but I'm in love with her and scared to be without her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This past week and a half my girlfriend hasn't been acting the same and shes done nothing more than push me away, she picks fights for no reason and no matter what i say i'm a monster, there is no making her happy anymore and when i ask her whats wrong she says shes depressed, ... (428 words)

Does she want to fire me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started working at a doctor's office as a medical biller last week. This week I made the mistake of giving someone the wrong insurance card. The owner of the insurance card became quite cross and said she might not return to this office anymore. My boss mentioned her being ... (207 words)

How can I stop the leaking after sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now… Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me? whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especially down my leg, its an embarras... (72 words)

I need techniques to keep calm when I go on this date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Greetings everyone, I have a big favour to ask... I am going on a date next week with a women that I think is perfect in every way, but I’m concerned that I will be to nervous; are there any techniques anyone can give me to make sure I am calm and not a nervous wreck wh... (64 words)

Is it safe to assume he's infertile?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend had the snip nearly 3 years ago we have been together now for 6 months..he has said he is infertile but has admitted that he never went back for the test to confirm this..could he get me pregnant or is it safe to say I would have got cought by now…thanks... (53 words)

How can I forgive myself and regain his trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is about sexual fantasies, alcohol, and a mistake that may have jeopardized my fiance's trust in me. My fiance' and I are getting married in June. We are both in professional school, 25 years old, and live 1 hour apart because we go to different school... (1077 words)

I'm infatuated with one of my girlfriend's co-workers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - So, I have a crush on one of my girlfriend's co-workers. They are indeed friends as well. When my GF first introduced us, I felt a weird vibe like she was kind of into me. Of course I was playing everything off. Nevertheless, I feel almost consumed with her friend sometime... (183 words)

I feel like this guy somewhat ruined this relationship for me and that she might still be attached to him in some way. Explain this female mind to me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

12 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I really need your guys' insight as to what's going on. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for around a month and a half now, but we've been good friends since freshman year (I'm a senior). Everything's been great, except ever since we started dating she's held back and ... (532 words)

From breakup depression to gambling losses. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Exactly a year ago, I broke up with the love of my life. Our relationship was very toxic due to her very rough past. The breakup was a total devastation for both of us. She took on drugs, I was very depressed n couldnt function properly. 3 months later, I started frequent... (190 words)

I've fallen for him now but it seems he is no interested in me or not wanting to be my friend. Please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy blocked me because he said i wasn't in love with him which was true i called him several times but to no respond, i then sent him an sms he called later saying "lets be real, i was faking, so were u, lets just be friends'. We were friends, i wrote to him when i went to ... (105 words)

Any tips how not to be negative towards myself and be positive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - How have people got them selves motivated? And aim towards goals.. I'm in a rut of a life cycle , I have a basic job with naf pay and feel I can't move foward with life.. I feel I'm going no where. I'm not depressed as I work etc but I know I'm not happy in myself, ie... (183 words)

Should I contact my ex? Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I left my ex last January. She moved to be with me from another province 2 years ago. Things were not working, but I loved her very much. After months of still spending time with her bc she had no friends or family here, and her crying and begging, she went online and met ... (576 words)

Is he just looking for hookups?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question so I met a guy in a dating site three weeks ago we chatted through text for two days and have gone on three dates.. 1st date we went out to eat I picked the place and he paid then we went out for a few drinks near his house since he said he knew a good plac... (540 words)

Does he like me or did I misinterpret his actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - We go to the same school but we met in July in a summer camp where we stayed 2 weeks.I'm 17 he's 15.We started talking the first day and before I knew it we became close and he was constantly/a lot of the time around me.A couple of examples(all happened there): he would tickle ... (461 words)

Last chance and too shy to make a move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - We have two more days of university and I don't know what to do. I'm quite shy, and I can't even guarantee that we'll have a chance to talk to each other. We're both in our mid-20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're not friends but are friendly- ... (346 words)

Since the baby is in our room, sex has gone downhill and I'm worried about him contacting another woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - i met my partner 3 years ago , he lived with his daughter and i lived with my two teenagers. although we werent living together we both decided we wanted a baby . after trying for a while i feel pregnant but even though the pregnancy was planned he told me to get an abortion ... (258 words)

My partner's low libido is killing my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Myself and my girlfriend have been together almost a year. Since December last year my partner hasn't really initiated any sexual intimacy at all- once or twice when shes been drunk, after an argument etc. Majority of the time I have to initiate any intimacy. A... (343 words)

We've been dating three weeks and are very awkward around each other

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help..my boyfriend and i have been dating for three weeks now and i seriously dont know what our problem is everytime we get together its ussually just arkward even our phone calls are ussually just short and end up with silent pauses and at the end we just say bye...i ... (180 words)

Boyfriend believes a threesome will bring us closer but I've heard horror stories about them

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for the past year and recently he's asked me about having a threesome. I'm secure with myself and my sexuality. I'm also confident in our relationship. I've just heard alot of horror stories that follow a threesome and I don't want us to fall ... (89 words)

I don't want to be kept hanging around just to find out we aren't going to marry or have kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello aunts n uncles! I've (29f) been with boyf (31m) for one year now - in 2 weeks time! :-) we are very happy together. We were friends for a few months before dating and there is a good physical attraction. We live together and it's going well. We have spoken of marria... (353 words)

Ex filmed us during sex and it was on the internet for awhile. Can I believe him that he really took it down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple years ago, I let someone I foolishly trusted during a vulnerable time in my life convince me into filming us during sex for 30 seconds max. He ended up showing his friends in their secret FB group that night, but I couldn't get to his FB account so I took his phone and ... (475 words)

He dropped me without any warning and it bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I need a bit of reassurance. I was with a guy over the summer after getting out of a long term relationship with another earlier that year. I wasn't looking for a serious relationship at all, but I started to really like this guy more than I had planned to and we really ... (154 words)

Is it ever ok for a married man to take another women out to lunch?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1652 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it ever ok for a married man to take another women out to lunch? My husband worked with this women but she recently got a different job. Well I just found out tonight that he talked to her online and ask her to have lunch with him sometime so they met up and he paid for her ... (102 words)

I want to be horny but his idea of romance is humping me like a dog. Please somebody, give me some advice I can use!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and so is my boyfriend. We have been together since i was 13. I have always believed i should save myself for that one person...i had always known he was that one person but i was trying to wait till our honeymoon...well i didn't. At 16 i gave in... we had sex...and i ... (445 words)

Our first anniversary is here and he has porn on his phone and a hidden facebook account, I feel disgusted!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3847 days ago

12 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has been good to me in the past 12 months of our marriage however, i have recently found him out to be having pornography (pictures) in his cell phone and he also keeps a facebook account he told me he lost some two years back. His sole activity on that account is to ... (141 words)