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My ex-girlfriend saw me with my new friend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

10 September 2013 (M age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for a year and I recently broke up with her. Its been about two weeks and we only talked once. I broke up with her because she cheated on me. She blacked out and I guess from what she told me she made out with another guy and fell asleep in his bed... I ... (413 words

Is this just sex or something more?

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10 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - I recently met this guy who is a regular customer at my job. I'm a restaurant manager. He comes in and has a drink every now and then and has gotten to know the bartenders well. He inquired about me with one of the bartenders and she got us to start talking. I told him upfront ... (287 words

I am feeling very sexually frustrated!

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10 September 2013 (M age 26-29 - About 2 weeks ago my girlfriend gave me my first blow job. It was great and all but I find that now I am very sexually frustrated. I get turned on a lot and long for her to do it again. But this isn't like the normal horny where you can just go mastuebate and be fine. Self ... (124 words

I'm worried that I've inadvertently become a friend with benefits, and it isn't a label that I like or think I deserve

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10 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, hoping for some impartial advice! A guy approached me on a night out and asked for my number. Was bit out of blur but he was cute so I said yes. He messaged me quite a bit and we arranged to meet for a drink. We were out with our groups of friends and ended up drunk and ... (298 words

Men, what is my ex-FWB thinking after I said goodbye two weeks ago?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

10 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - I ended 2year "fwb" ... had to walk away! I honestly believed that we met for such great reason, so choosing to end all, for someone I truly liked and cared for hurt. I hadn't heard from him like "normal" and when I sent a casual, "hello' text he replied next day and use... (455 words

I want to make friends and become more comfortable in social situations, any advice?

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10 September 2013 (M age 36-40 - I am the individual with Asperger's Syndrome who asked these questions: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/where-do-i-meet-these-particular-types-of.html ttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-become-better-at-dating.html As for the part about restaurants in my previous... (481 words

How do you let someone down gently when you were the one doing the chasing to start with?

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10 September 2013 (M age 41-50 - So... there was a girl I met once through mutual friends on a day out to a local town for site seeing, a spot of lunch etc... We spoke a fair bit, and quite liked her. I got in touch via email to ask her out, and had a to chase a little but managed to get her out for a coffee... (217 words

Her dependency on me is holding me back and ruining our love.

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10 September 2013 (M age 41-50 - Fell in love with a woman who has a child. We dated for a years and while dating her, she was still somewhat dependent on the ex because of the child. She gets offered a job opportunity in another state and due to the state of her financial situation and the fact that this ... (331 words

I feel as if my husband has forgotten his commitment in this marriage and is disregarding the needs and desires that I have.

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10 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi. Thios os my situation. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and lived together for 1 year before that. We split the bills equally because we earned about the same. (No children) About a year after we married he lost his job. We moved to a smaller place, cut ... (297 words

Living with a woman who doesn't speak English?

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10 September 2013 (F age 26-29 - I turned 16 last week and my parents died a couple of months ago. I am moving to live with my godfather. About a year and a half ago he married a Thai lady who doesn't speak English more than a "hello" and "yes". She doesn't understand English people - I'm pretty sure she ... (136 words

Should I just leave my ex alone or should I talk to her?

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10 September 2013 (M age 30-35 - I have been in a couple relationships before. They all ended pretty badly and we just stopped talking. My ex girlfriend, who I just broke up with about 2 weeks ago, was the first serious girlfriend I have broken up with and still actually like... The reason behind our break... (358 words

Is it possible to ignore someone this long and still want to work things out?

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10 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - Please help. My man and I got into an arguement because he was talki g to an ex flirting and sending pics. I made him delete her on facebook and tell her to stop texting. I then admitted I sent my ex a pic after i found out he did and i came forward unlike him. He asked ehat ... (129 words

Should I bother going on a fourth date with him?

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10 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - So I met this guy in a dating site and I have been ion three dates with him. A little background about me- I was in an abusive five year relationship and I left and it's been three years but the scars are still there - I am finally ready to date and I have gone on a few dates ... (371 words

He doesn't know if he wants children!

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10 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with boyfriend for 2 years, not smooth sailing, but learning to talk to eachother properly, and we had a reflective evening last night, we spoke rationally about whether the ups and downs are something that are incompatibilities, or if its just learning cu... (294 words

What happened with this guy? What changed?

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10 September 2013 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, i'd like to ask for an advice. There's this guy that i'm dating for a m0nth n0w. He's my co worker, same c0mpany but different department. I enjoyed his c0mpany and i fell in love with him without him kn0wing. I'm hurting right n0w coz suddenly he just ign0res ... (162 words

2 guys don't know which one to date and one doesn't seem too interested anymore

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10 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - So here's my situation. In april, I went home with one of my friend's roommate's (who I was friends with) and we slept together. He's kind of a ladies man, so he'll have the occasional girl over. But anyway, that happened a few times. I didn't really have any strong feelings ... (380 words

I want to date but when I look at men I feel sick

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10 September 2013 (F age 51-59 - hi aunts and uncles, its been awhile since i have wrote and asked a question. first off, im doing sooooo much better now since my divorce. my husband had left me for a woman in her early 20s and he was later 40s, and he had a baby by her in june. anyway, just wanted to ask if ... (373 words

Do I keep a good man even though he's terrible at sex?

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10 September 2013 (F age 41-50 - Hi:) I need some advice on what I should about my boyfriend because I'm really on the fence... I'm in my mid thirties, divorced( i was with my ex for 13 years)and no children and really want to find the one and settle down and have a family etc. Just over a year ago I start... (373 words

Are you allowed to have guy friends if you have a boyfriend?

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10 September 2013 (F age 30-35 - I've become friends with a guy I know, and he's invited me out for coffee to trade some movies we own. I have a boyfriend, but the guy friend isnt aware of this because Im not sure how to bring it up. Just blurting it out makes things really awkward, as it could look like I ... (132 words

I'm dating a girl and now have feelings for her brother!

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10 September 2013 (M age 26-29 - Hay everyone I need help??? Plz. If u can help u see I'm dating this girl and we are togeter for 4 mounths and she has a brother now I hafe a problem I'm getting feelings for him and I don't know wy I feel this way I am so sceard plz help???????????????? ... (55 words

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