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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He needs space, I am giving him that but worry he will forget me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Thanks for reading in advance. My bf and I have had a great relationship for the past 4 months. We had a small argument over text two weeks ago. I didn't know if we were broken up or not. We have declared our love for one another and have discussed our future. I hadn't ... (358 words)

Is he a cheap skate

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been going out with a guy for 4 months, and he still hasn't taken me out to dinner. I'm not sure if he has much money, which isn't an issue, but whatever his situation, I think the least he could do is take me out. We have met for casual dinners a couple of times, ... (394 words)

Can I get over his disgusting sexual past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - If opposites attract can they live a long happy married life together? I am in my 40s, my children are grown, my first marriage lasted almost 20 years. I met a man who's also in his 40s with two grown children. He has been married two times before. We are opposites, his ... (239 words)

I don't want to ask him what's going on with us because I don't want to seem pushy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am a bit confused here i would appreciate your help...i started seeing this guy..just hooking up for lunchdates and coffee and it reached a point where he invited me to his house and we even had sex...my major concern is that i dont know what we are doing i really like ... (108 words)

Is there really sex after 50?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age - I have such a dilemma, I can't figure it out what goes on with sex in the older age group. It is because, sadly me and my husband are not sexual anymore , due to his erectile dysfunction, and lack of libido. It has been investigated by doctors, what is the cause, but he never ... (338 words)

My ex says he wants me back, I love him but I'm afraid he'd hurt me again. How do I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 September 2013 (F) age 41-50 - My ex called after 4 months of break up. He dumped me and was very mean when he broke up with me. He said he misses me and still loves me. I'm always the one he wants to marry. I told him I'm not going to get back with him because he hurt me too much. I know I can't giv... (102 words)

I like this guy but he's recently single and not looking for anything serious.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a guy friend who I have feeling for and who until recently had a girlfriend. Anyway recently he keeps trying to hook up with me but in like a flirty jokey way which I wouldn't mind except for the fact he clearly doesn't want anything serious right now and I dont know ... (62 words)

Help with boyfriend please. He's been increasingly distant, with no contact for past 5 days.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. We don't live together but see each other a few times a week and will stay over at the other's house on the weekends. Things the last 6 months or so have been so horrible. We basically fight everyday (I'm usually ... (595 words)

Text, secrets, maybe lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and we've been living together for six months. We came together very passionately and have spent our time together whenever possible, almost to the exclusion of other friends. I encouraged her to keep in touch with friends, th... (372 words)

I'm burdened with stress from unplanned pregnancy to finding out father is very ill

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

1 September 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My life is in turmoil right now and i have no one to talk to. My girlfriend of 4 years just found out she is 2 months pregnant and because she feels her life is not where it should be right now, she wants to have an abortion. I have a post grad degree, have a job in IT. She... (167 words)

How much will it cost per month to have a girlfriend? Outings,gas, gifts, clothes? I need to factor the cost into my budget

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

1 September 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - How much does a girlfriend cost per month? Do not bother replying if you say "priceless" or "too much" as those sayings are far too old and a scapegoat. Women, don't bother replying with bs that you are free, and don't tell me that you always pay for yourself, because it's ... (127 words)

I feel so betrayed when my boyfriend masturbates

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so betrayed when my boyfriend masturbates. Here recently he's been looking at porn just bout everyday even with me being in the same house/next room. I have very low self esteem and I feel like he doesn't want me anymore and when we do have sex he's fantasizing bout ... (166 words)

Is 6 weeks after a break up too soon to date/make out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm an 18 year old girl. I broke up with my boyfriend nearly 6 weeks ago and I'm going on a date with another guy in a few days. Is that too soon/tacky to go on a date with a new guy? Also, how far is too far on a first date? I've met this guy once before at a party and we'v... (91 words)

Broke up with BF but think he was my soulmate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Broke up with my ex bf over 6 months ago (we were together 5 years) because we had different lifestyles and he wasn't there for me when I needed him to be. I know breaking up was the right choice but I miss him so much now. He's haunting my thoughts and it's like I only ... (93 words)

Are her actions saying "leave me alone"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all. im a 22 old boy going to medicine university who just broke up with my gf of 4 years because of continuous fights recently. recently i added a gilr on fb who is a medical student too (one year yonger). i had never seen her at school but i really liked her in photos. i ... (189 words)

Is it ok to text a FWB every day?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am recently out of a relationship, but I would still like to find a guy to have a no strings attached kind of relationship. I have met this person I think. I think he may actually care about me which is great and makes me only not sure what is okay and not okay. Do I call him ... (163 words)

Am I going to lose my husband to his female business partner?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my husband is in love with his female friend of 2 years. I think I should be worried. I check the phone bill and her number is almost the only one on it that he calls and he calls often. They talk for hours every day. This is strange because my husband never li... (239 words)

We had a fight and now I have to beg for sex but its been a month!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am with my bf for 3 years, we had our ups and downs. Currently i live 3 hours drive from him cause of work, will be going back in max 6 months. A month back we went for a weekend trip, it was a diaster as he was hanging out in bar most of the time, we had fig... (166 words)

Funky odor "downstairs" has me worried!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my vagina really has been having this really funky embarrasing odor latley and I'm not sure why. I've never had sex before. is it infected?? how can I get the smelly odor away. also. I don't wanna tell my parents cuz I'm embarrassed ... (43 words)

Why my friend co-worker guy stands in my personal space/ touches me ( supposedly) accidently? How show him I'm not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, There is a gut at my work place that sometimes we need to work closely together on projects. There is never any personal talks with this guy, but everybody jokes a bit at work.so, the friendship I am referring to is actually just being nice and friendly as cowo... (297 words)

What can I do to publicly turn him on to the point where he just can't stand it anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

1 September 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my boyfriend is the sweetest guy ever. I so glad that I found him when I did.. Every girl in my town wants him, he makes music, art and he makes everyone around him feel amazing! He's leaving for University in three days and we are going to a friends birthday party ... (97 words)

I found out my girlfriend is cheating and want to give her a taste of her own medicine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

1 September 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about seven months now, we separated for a month and then got together. Things haven't been the best but we have managed to be together. Last month her friend, G, came to live in our town. I talk to her a lot, as a friend of my girlfriend... (331 words)