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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do fathers have rights to know where their children are living?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone know, either from a personally experience, or legally, does a father have right to know where his children are living? Story is: Bad relationship, physically and mentally abusive, also his current girlfriend is now causing trouble too, threats and verbal abuse... (84 words)

How do I tell him I'm ready for him to enter "through the front door?"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, So I'm ready to have vaginal sex with my boyfriend. We've done oral and anal. Before him, I had only done oral so he was my first for the backdoor. I'm ready for him to enter through the front too haha The problem is that I'm not sure how to tell him. I'm sometimes s... (145 words)

Am I wasting my time sending her presents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

26 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a childhood friend on whom I had a huge crush. I met her after 12 years on facebook.. she is studying thousand miles away from me... I proposed her on the 3rd day.. She said no.. Then after one month I sent an expensive leather clutch.. She accepted. but now she's st... (197 words)

Should I write him a letter to explain how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3819 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Is what I'm about to do a terrible idea? I want to write a guy a love letter of sorts. He's a good friend of mine I met last year, and although we hardly actually see each other, I talk to him on facebook and he always responds enthusiastically. He rarely starts the ... (181 words)

Is asking your separated spouse for sex wrong, we were on very good terms

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

26 October 2013 (M)

age - My wife and I are separated for 4 years, it's a long story of infidelity on her part and neglect on my part. I have accepted the situation for what it is and to help keep peace in the family. We have 2 adult children. Recently she asked me to go with her to visit her ill ... (267 words)

Is he afraid to commit because of his past... or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a man for 3 months. He was very good to me and chased me. I had no doubt that he was really into me. Things were going well and progressing. However, Towards the end he was pulling away from me and very distant. We broke up and went no contact for a few months. He then ... (378 words)

Is it normal for guys to ask their girlfriend for gifts at the start of a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this normal for a guy to ask his girl friend to buy him gifts at the very beginning of their relationship and telling her what to buy for him? If she says no to buy then he remarked her as money minded? And if she buys, he becomes very happy and like child?... (55 words)

Having trouble adjusting after moving back home

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - When I spent a year working in Australia, I met the man of my dreams. He trained at a gym which had a coffee shop nearby, so as I worked there I saw him daily. After a few weeks of flirting, he asked me out and started dating. When my year was up we had been dating for 7 months ... (412 words)

Am I worrying too much about my boyfriend's ex and their continued contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend about 4 months now. I knew before we starting dating that he was still friends with his ex and they talked often. She cheated on him and hurt him a lot, and I guess left him for another guy eventually because that's why they broke up. I'm no... (231 words)

How can I get rid of my sex drive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

26 October 2013 (M) age 36-40 - I'm a 26 year-old single male, and I'm sick of my sex drive. Absolutely, 100% sick of it. People talk about sex like it's one of the great joys of life, but as far as I can tell, it's more burden than blessing. I'm sick of thinking about sex all the time. I'm sick of ... (268 words)

Question to American Women and Men!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have some American friends and I have a question to American women and men. My male friends there tell me that women there love money only and all the men are afraid to have a relationship because they want to get marriaged fast and use the men´s money. That USA women do... (287 words)

Gay and ginger, is there any hope?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

26 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I would be very grateful for any advice so here it goes. Im a 22 year old guy and I have just accepted that I am gay and I'm not out to anyone. I'm also very unfortunate to have Ginger hair too. I have been a quiet and shy guy all my life and all I want is to be wi... (150 words)

Do men prefer feminine and delicate women? Please can someone explain from a male perspective?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Strange question, I know, but I'm curious to hear from a man's perspective what it is about femininity and feminine women they find attractive. I don't understand it - unsurprisingly, since I'm a het. female - and I was just curious if feminine qualities are genuinely ... (310 words)

Guys are the last thing on my mind just now, so why won't my friends listen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends are always trying to set me up with guys and my best friend especially. She's started seeing some lad and is trying to get me to go on a date with his friend. I understand their intentions are good and everything but it's so infuriating for me, since I've told them ... (229 words)

My boyfriend no longer wants to wait

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - hi Am 16 and still a virgin. I have been boyfriend since I was 12 but now he is getting impatient and no longer wants to wait I don't want to be a clique (lost virginity at 16) and it's also against my believes, and now he has brought a lesbian girl into the relation... (94 words)

Male friend has changed behaviour since we hooked up. What's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I have a friend who is quite flirty and anyway we hooked up once a couple weeks but we don't like each other or anything. So anyway we used to talk like all the time but all of a sudden he just stopped replying to my messages and starts hanging around with this girl, who ... (158 words)

Do men truly still value virginity or do they see it as something to run away from?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3823 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Do men truly still value virginity or do they see it as something to run away from? I'm going to be 21 soon and haven't even been kissed. My best guy friend who's a man whore tells me virginity sucks and romance is dead. He said he'd sleep with me so I would stop being a virgin ... (101 words)

Vaginal birth after a C-section?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.is it possible to have vaginal birth even if you had ceasarian section before? Just curious..thanks aunts... (17 words)

Why is he hiding our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and i got back together almost two months ago and he STILL hasn't told any of his friends or family that we are officially back together and i want to know the real reason why. Why is he hiding our relationship from everyone? We had a bad breakup, but i feel ... (486 words)

Should I be alone for a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

26 October 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I recently dumped my girlfriend of 4 years and now I'm single. Directly after I dumped her I met a girl that I knew a little from before. She was also about to dump her boyfriend since he was a douchebag. However, we talked and texted and those few times we met it was pr... (312 words)

Baby momma drama or MM who swears he's getting a divorce?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I moved to another state to be with a man I lived with for 5 years. He moved here to be with his daughter in the mean time I met another guy back home who treated me like a queen for the short time I knew him. He wants me to move back and be with him again the new guy that ... (96 words)

I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

26 October 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart. Basically, when we broke up, we made a stupid agreement to still have sex from time to time. I ended things because I got sick of his drinking, which often le... (359 words)