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I'd like at least one photo of him!

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23 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - Okay guys here is my biggest challenge. My new bf does not want me to take photos of him or even with him. How can I convinc him or make a deal to be able to take maybe just 1? He said even his mom has almost no photos of him. The years books don't have photos of him and this ... (75 words

We have a great friendship that I'm afraid to mess up by asking her out

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23 October 2013 (M age 26-29 - hey guys, this isnt the first time ive been here, so i hope to keep gettig good advice so, here 's the problem (im a sophmore now, and this story spans the last two ywars, so sorry for length.) Back when i was in eigth grade, i had asked a girl out, and she had said yes, af... (334 words

I'm hoping this co-worker doesn't have a thing for me -- do I have reason to be worried?

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23 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - Ok my question is about a man from work,he's always really nice to me which is fine, but he's 40 and I am 24 But I'm starting to worry slightly as during presentations (he's senior management) he always seems to hold my eye contact A LOT! And then I see him watching and looking ... (157 words

Don't want to look desperate here ...

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23 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - A met a very nice man last weekend. I am not sure wether he approached me on purpose but we ended up talking for a bit. After he added me on FB, I thanked him for giving me a ride and offered to buy him a froyo (there is a famous froyo store downstairs from my work) wheneve... (273 words

Could this be a sign of sexual tension?

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23 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - Have I imagined signs of attraction towards me from him? I was curious to know why some signals from someone can be mixed. When me and him are alone, the conversation flows, there's a lot of long glances and smiles. It's almost like the world stops for a moment when we s... (155 words

Can't get over my husband's confession of being "obsessed" by another woman.

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23 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - Can't get over my husband's confession of being "obsessed" by another woman. A couple of months ago, a close female friend of ours confessed to my husband that she was in love with him and wanted to have a physical affair too (all in the same conversation). My husband could... (444 words

It's like he's stringing the baby-momma along

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23 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - hey I am 21 years old who is dating a 40 years old man we been together for over 2years when we really got serious I found out he got a girl pregnant who is pretty young also I asked him about it and he lied, saying he didn't get anyone pregnant over time the truth came out... (432 words

She doesn't turn me on any more.

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23 October 2013 (M age 30-35 - Help! I don't find my girlfriend sexually attractive anymore. We've been dating about 1 and half years. We do get along really well, I do enjoy spending time with her. She's funny, weird, quirky, clever but I come to the point where I fantasize about having sex with other ... (104 words

Question about on-line dating etiquette?

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23 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - Hi guys, so I'm new to online dating. I put up a profile yesterday and thus guy initiated a conversation, which then led to him giving me his number, and then we exchanged a few more messages outside of the site. He asked if I'm looking for friends or a boyfriend. I sa... (183 words

My husband told me he was in love with another woman

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23 October 2013 (F age 51-59 - I do not know where to even go with this. My husband and his step-sister sat me down and informed me that they have been in love for over 30 years and that they would be together right now except they promised her dad that they would not. My husband and I are having problems ... (167 words

I feel like he rejected me when I most needed him

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23 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - I have sexually lost interest in my husband of three years. I find his touch annoying. We have had our share of problems. Am suddenly remembering all the past hurt and just get turned off. One of them is that when we were dating, he made me beg for sex from him. He would tell ... (351 words

Is there anything I can do to show my b/f that I'm sorry for my past behavior?

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23 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hello all. I am a first time poster here. I need some general advice about what to do! I love my boyfriend very much. We have been together just shy of a year and he treats me wonderfully. He is a true gentleman and always treats me like a queen. My problem is that I have b... (586 words

I know I should just break up with my girlfriend but I can't stand to break her heart!

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23 October 2013 (M age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and its been pretty rocky for the last year. we fight alot and dont really seem to have much in common. its one of the situations where we cant stand each other but both truly love each other. i had caught her in some pretty bad lies ... (221 words

We work together and my ex is trying to remain friends. I don't need the drama!

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23 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - So my ex-gf has been trying to maintain a friendly contact with me. I have ignored her for the most part because I told her I do not do the friend thing with exes. We work together so it has been hard, and although I have maintained a professional relationship with her; she ... (374 words

Confused by my FWB

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23 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - So guys I need your opinion on something I previously gotten into this friends with benefits relationship and I'm Soo confused.. He comes down every other weekend and we have a great time and then when we talk he always says we need to stop Bc he's suppose to be down here ... (88 words

My heart says give him another chance. My gut says run.

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23 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyf of near two years about a month ago. I wanted to do this for a while, our relationship was far from perfect, i'll explain this quickly just so you have the entire story: he drunkenly cheated on me in our own bed and I walked in to find them, stupidly I ... (842 words

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