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How do you deal with being the only single person in your group of friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3812 days ago

20 October 2013 (M age 30-35 - All of my friends are coupled up. How do you not let it get you down when you're in that situation. I'm also the only one in my group of friends who's never done anything with a girl which makes it worse.... (42 words

I want to save my mom from being neglected by retirement homes!

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20 October 2013 (F age 51-59 - Dear Cupid , my mom came home from a nursing home because of nelect I brought her back home but before then I have been looking for a job to take care of myself and my son now I think I might have the job because I am due for drug testing and interview followed by picking my ... (201 words

I think my boyfriend is going mad because he's convinced I'm cheating on him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

20 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - Hi my boyfriends thinks im cheating on him i would never do that ! he keeps on recording me and then he says he can hear me with men, i think he is going mad because i no i have never done anythink and he is sure i am i dont no how to make him see its him i love i dont wa... (76 words

I've developed a crush on my dentist!

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20 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - I feel really pathetic writing this as I'm in my mid 30's, engaged and have developed a huge crush on my dentist! Please nobody judge as I'm not going to do anything but I do need advice. I have had to have some work done on my teeth which requires regular visits a... (295 words

I'm still getting to know him and just wonder why he's keeping me in his life if he can't give me his full attention?

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20 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice on this one! I have posted previously about this but basically for the last two months I've been getting to know this guy. He's 23 and I'm 25. When we met, he had literally just broken up with his ex of 2 years (who cheated) and before ... (368 words

Disability dating site or "normal" dating site?

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20 October 2013 (F age 51-59 - Hello! I have a question, I hope someone here has experience with disabilities (direct or through a partner) and can help me with this. Since almost 10 years I have a condition, not contagious, invisible (so I look like everybody else), that is slowly getting better, I was hopi... (411 words

Struggling with feelings for my second cousin

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20 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi there just looking for some advice please! I am falling for my second cousin (share great grandparents) we are together almost every day and have now slept together twice!! We weren't brought up together so aren't close that way. We are part of the same circle if friends ... (134 words

I always fall too fast and too hard

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20 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi there! So, I've given this issue a lot of thought and just seem to go round in circles and I think I need some new perspective. I am an intelligent, independent girl, I've been to university, I've traveled by myself, there's just one area where I feel like my mind j... (495 words

Dodged a bullet, but still can't get her out of my mind

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20 October 2013 (M age 30-35 - I am 21, so it feels ignorant to even be stressing this situation, but I have for an entire year now, and ALL I want to do is let go. I dated a girl that was my entire world for about 10 months, and she has a child. The child became very attached to me, as did she. I got ... (801 words

He said the message on his phone was a trap to see if I was snooping

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20 October 2013 (F age 51-59 - Hi im in a relationship with an aries, I saw on his phone msgs to another woman saying he had feelings for her apparently she was in spain, I asked him about this as I was packing to leave, things got heated n he said he didnt want me to leave, we made up n we were actually ... (147 words

Is it rude to not acknowledge a thank you?

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20 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - If you recieve a gift for a birthday from someone. Is it rude not to say thank you? A did it rude not to respond to the thank you....even if you don't really like the person? My son's birthday, and he got a gift from his grandparents (on the other side), now we don't get on ... (120 words

How do I deal with my standoffish sisters-in-law?

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20 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - My two sister in laws( the wives of my husbands brothers) always exclude me from hanging out with them, whether it be they're going out on family outings with their kids or if they're going out as adults. While they are out they'll both post a bunch of pics of them together(on ... (273 words

Why would he have a condom?

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20 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - So my boyfriend of 11 months and I live together friday he had to go a thing for work for health insurance or something him and his cobworker car pooled together she's a girl but she's from Africa . Any way he had to go to another city which is maybe 45 minutes to an hour from ... (160 words

Why did he meet me then if he was going to break up by text?

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20 October 2013 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy three weeks ago. he came to my table and asked for my number. he decided to give me his number and after that I texted him and started talking. after that we liked echother verymuch and started talking as much as we can. he was leaving an hour and half from me and ... (451 words

Then I met this guy.. He is a friend. But am I being led up the garden path here?

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20 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - I'm hoping some lovely aunts/uncles can advise me / voice your opinions and tell me if I'm being an idiot. I came out of an emotionally and slightly physical relationship at the start of the year, it was pretty horrendous and took me a while to deal with everything that had... (434 words

I am a very professional, very good looking woman in a high-powered job, and I have a lot going for me in my life....but I can't seem to stop cheating on my husband!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3808 days ago

20 October 2013 (F age 41-50 - I can't seem to stop cheating on my husband. I cheated on him before he and I were even married, and I've cheated on him after we were married, and am still cheating on him. I cheat on him with one of my current co-workers on occasion. The co-worker lives far away in anot... (416 words

She was once his Gf and he's in contact with her. Will I ruin my relationship if I don't stop acting this way?

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20 October 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. My boyfriend is friends with most of his ex girlfriends, I am actually okay with this except for just one of the ex girlfriends...his serious relationship that lasted like over 2 years or so. They had an amazing re... (320 words

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